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Topic: Cancer Men and seperation
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tinasparkle
Knowflake Posts: 136
From: USA
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted October 25, 2006 05:42 PM
 
Hi all, I had read in one of Linda's books that Cancer's have a very difficult time being seperated from their partners. That is can even be physically painful. Can you advise from personal experience if this is true and if so, how far into the relationship does this generally occur? I am a complete mess and I wonder if he is too. Me: Cancer Asc, Him: Cancer Sun. Tinasparkle IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
Knowflake Posts: 129
From:
Registered: Aug 2006
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posted October 25, 2006 06:26 PM
Well, I have a cancer asc too Tinasparkle !!
And yes i do have a hard time whn i am separated from the person i love....gives me a very hollow, sinking feeling inside....even if its just for a day.
so you not doing good in the absence of your fella?  IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 1322
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 25, 2006 08:01 PM
You mean seperated as in say like you have to work and he has to work? Or, seperated as in "I have to make a trip to say...Mocambique for a week or so for family stuff?
If its sepreation because of daily obligations, I'm fine. Actually, sometimes I need to be alone so I can reflect and think and stuff but not too much time without the S.O. That could reflect my virgo mooner tendencies or my loaded 12th house. And of course, there are times when I'm doing something with my girlfriends (like lunch or something) But other than that, I'm inseperable from the S.O.
The long trips would probably alot harder for me to deal with (and probably him too) but I'd stick it out. I probably would be really sad to tell the truth. IP: Logged |
tinasparkle
Knowflake Posts: 136
From: USA
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted October 25, 2006 08:21 PM
It's the "have to make a trip to say...Mocambique for a week" kind of thing. He left this morning and will be gone until Sunday night. I am pouting. Actually, the best way to explain it is I feel like I left my security blanket somewhere and I can't go get it until Sunday. I am happy for him that he has a chance to go to this event--it's a work thing--and thrilled that we were able to establish where we are in our relationship before he left, but I just miss him terribly and he hasn't even been gone 12 hours! There is a small part of me that would like to go in his apartment and smell things that belong to him, but the sane part of me won't do it. Fortunately. Oy! He is going to be really busy while he is gone and has a lot of things to think about, but he seemed sad about leaving and I wondered if the part in Linda's book about Cancers being seperated from thier loved one was true. Tinasparkle IP: Logged |
~jane_says~
Knowflake Posts: 66
From: SD
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted November 02, 2006 04:55 PM
Hi there..I feel for you. I might be jumping the gun when I say this, but who really cares, I think most people with any Cancer placement are apt to feel the way you do. Take it from this Gemini who has Venus in Cancer, I'm a wreck without my man. He too has an even harder time being apart, he's a Virgo Sun with Cancer Moon. We're trying Thanksgiving apart and already I'm in agony but not harping him about it. The last time we were apart in the last year and a half was for 3 days and that in itself was torture. So I can so relate to your situation. Good Luck------------------
"If you believe, you can achieve." Tupac IP: Logged |
BlueEyes24
Knowflake Posts: 373
From:
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted November 02, 2006 07:52 PM
Yup...I think it's hard for people with water placements in general. I have a Scorpio moon and my BF has a Cancer moon...and we have a hard time being apart from each other for more than 2 or 3 days. I went on a cruise last year and while I did have a lot of fun, I hated not being able to talk to him for a week. It would have been so much easier if I could just talk to him, but of course I didn't get service on the ship. I can't imagine what it was like for him.I'm assuming your guy is back now, how did it go? I hope the week went by fast for you.  IP: Logged |
tinasparkle
Knowflake Posts: 136
From: USA
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted November 02, 2006 08:07 PM
Thank you all for your responses. My beau is back in town now and it was just agony for both of us. He said he missed me a lot and I told him how much I hated his being gone and how hard it was. I think that made him feel better. He said he thought about me a lot. I really needed to hear that because it is early in our relationship and I wasn't sure how "in it" he was. We hugged a lot when he got back. I needed that too. It made it easier that I could go in his apartment to take his mail and his smell was there. Thanks again for your kind words.Tinasparkle IP: Logged |
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