posted October 27, 2006 05:48 PM         

Me
22 feb 78 4.10pm melbourne australia
Him
9 july 86 2.30am melbourne australia

posted October 31, 2006 08:46 PM         

This is one of the red flags to watch out for in comparing charts. Your energies tend to conflict,
particularly if either of you attempts to correct the other's actions. This is a passionate aspect,
which is wonderful in certain arenas, but can also lead to passionate arguments. You can only be at
ease with each other to the degree that you can accept the differences in how you both go about
doing things. Otherwise, there tends to be conflict over everything. Learning to avoid expressing
yourself to each other when your solar plexus is tight would help immensely. When your solar
plexus is tight, your partner hears whatever you are saying as a punch. Harness the power, and
great things can be accomplished with your combined energy; otherwise, petty arguments and
disagreements rule the day.

Meg's Jupiter square Cancerboy's Jupiter:

Since what each of you finds rewarding is at odds, you need to create enough space in your
relationship for both of you to take part in the separate activities that you each find rewarding.
There could be disagreements over each other's political, religious, or philosophical beliefs.

Cancerboy's Sun conjunct Meg's Mars:

This tie is extremely intense and often confrontational. It is passionate, without a doubt, and very
favorable in some arenas, but arguments and battles of wills can be passionate as well. If you can't
take the heat, get out of the kitchen, with this one. You can inflame each other, and without
restraint or healthy outlets, things could turn bad.

Meg's Sun trine Cancerboy's Pluto:

The relationship feels safe, as feelings of threat drop away when you are together. You are there
for each other when destiny calls to lend strength. You help each other stay on track with your
higher purpose in life.

Cancerboy's Sun trine Meg's Venus:

This is one of the sweet ties in relationship astrology, leading to natural affection and simply
enjoying being in each other's company. If it's not a romantic relationship, the arts and cultural
opportunities are a few of a multitude of ways to share and enjoy life with each other. The natural
magnetic flow of attraction that exists between the two of you makes it easier to overlook each
other's shortcomings.

Cancerboy's Sun trine Meg's Uranus:

You encourage and support each other's uniqueness and individuality and put very few restraints
and expectations on each other. This allows your relationship to continue to grow and evolve.

Meg's Sun sextile Cancerboy's Neptune:

There is a natural intuitive flow between the two of you that is quite comfortable. You can be
drawn to understand the subtle realms together through meditation and spiritual practices. You
empower each other's faith in listening to the "still quiet voice within."

Meg's Sun opposition Cancerboy's Venus:

Your tastes and values can clash, and yet this is not entirely bad. It creates a strong sexual
attraction, though not the comfortable type; this type of fascination comes from that which is
different. The strong sexual attraction is favorable for getting the relationship going, but difficulties
can arise over differences in basic life values, making it difficult to live with each other on a
day-to-day basis.

Meg's Sun square Cancerboy's Saturn:

Meg feels the hammer of Cancerboy's disapproval always close at hand. Cancerboy gets irritated
with Meg's lack of responsibility. Projections abound between the two of you, and the wise person
sees the very qualities you dislike in each other as projections of unclaimed parts of your own
character. It takes character strength to deal successfully with this one; otherwise Meg can feel
disapproved of and Cancerboy feels unappreciated.

Cancerboy's Sun square Meg's Pluto:

Power struggles are likely to erupt unless both of you stay vigilant for any attempts by the other to
control the relationship in any way. Cancerboy can feel that Meg is always pulling strings trying to
get something. Meg can feel as if Cancerboy is always challenging Meg's authority.

Meg's Moon conjunct Cancerboy's Venus:

This aspect could be characterized as "sweet." It is easy to trust one another and romance is likely.
Simply spending time together is emotionally rewarding and even delightful. The personal side of
life is favored.

Meg's Moon trine Cancerboy's Uranus:

This is an aspect that encourages evolutionary growth on both your parts. Meg feels encouraged
and supported for breaking out of old emotional patterns, and Cancerboy feels emotionally
supported for pursuing an authentic path of individuality.

Meg's Moon trine Cancerboy's North Node:

You both naturally support each other's soul growth. You feel familiar and comfortable with each
other.

Cancerboy's Moon square Meg's Chiron:

Meg's attempts to help Cancerboy get through difficult times are not well received. Past wounds
make it difficult to establish emotionally close ties, until you both stretch your ability to be
compassionate for each other's issues.

Meg's Mercury trine Cancerboy's Pluto:

This tie is favorable for pursuing mental activities together, and you feel safe with each other in
taking conversations to a deep, intimate level. You likely feel comfortable revealing personal
secrets to each other.

Meg's Mercury sextile Cancerboy's North Node:

Your conversations and mental pursuits together naturally lead to each other's soul growth. You
can draw on each other for support and understanding in spiritual issues.

Meg's Mercury opposition Cancerboy's Venus:

Meg communicates in a way that offends Cancerboy's sensibilities. Meg feels Cancerboy is
pretentious. Cancerboy gets hurt feelings over the way Meg communicates. You would be advised
to educate each other as to these sensitivities to avoid them in the future.

Meg's Mercury square Cancerboy's Saturn:

This aspect creates a challenge in maintaining easy, flowing communication with each other,
because Meg feels intimidated by Cancerboy's judgments. This fear of disapproval restricts the
natural flow of conversation. There is a tendency to bring out each other's pessimistic and negative
attitudes. This can be compensated for, but there would have to be a rule: No criticizing each
other. Otherwise, this combination is a tough one.

Cancerboy's Mercury square Meg's Chiron:

You likely have different opinions and views concerning health issues. It is not easy to accept each
other's help, because your views about what would be helpful differ. Try not to convince each
other of the right way toward health and healing, and instead, acknowledge and allow for the
differences to help avoid difficulties.

Cancerboy's Venus conjunct Meg's Saturn:

The best of this aspect is a serious, commitment-based relationship with a strong sense of
responsibility for each other. The worst of it is if Cancerboy feels disapproval from Meg, making
the flow of love difficult. When at odds with each other, Cancerboy can feel Meg is an oppressive
responsibility more than a joyful companion, and Meg can view Cancerboy as undisciplined and
indulgent, and needing to learn restraint.

Meg's Venus trine Cancerboy's Pluto:

The current of sexual magnetism between the two of you runs deep. You both heal effectively from
wounding times together, giving your relationship strong regenerative abilities. Money and financial
dealings with each other are also favored.

Cancerboy's Venus trine Meg's Chiron:

Cancerboy's values, appreciation for beauty, and capacity to receive love are fertile ground for
healing for Meg. The activities that you enjoy together naturally lead to soul growth for both of you.
You can be drawn to the arts and creative expression as a method for healing.

Cancerboy's Venus sextile Meg's Jupiter:

The friendship between the two of you flows naturally and you encourage movement toward
refinement in each other's life. The arts, culture, philosophy, and socializing together are all favored.

Meg's Venus sextile Cancerboy's Ascendant:

This is a highly magnetic and sweet combination. Meg is very attracted to Cancerboy's looks and
style. It is easy to love one another, and interests in the arts, entertainment, and culture are favored.

Meg's Venus square Cancerboy's Saturn:

This aspect dampens the natural attraction and magnetism of the relationship. It is hard to avoid
judging one another. Meg sees Cancerboy as no fun, too harsh, and demanding, while Cancerboy
judges Meg's values as superficial, indulgent, and undisciplined.

Meg's Mars trine Cancerboy's Jupiter:

You bring out a confident and positive attitude in each other, allowing you to work and play well
together. You also travel well together and encourage each other to take part in the opportunities
life has to offer.

Cancerboy's Mars sextile Meg's Uranus:

You encourage each other's independence and have marvelous improvisational skills together. In
romance, you take delight in each other's exploratory and innovative sexual style.

Cancerboy's Mars square Meg's Pluto:

You are being tested with the right use of power in this relationship, and power conflicts erupt with
the slightest provocation on either of your parts. Taking martial arts training together would be a
good metaphor of your test. With this training you would learn that your power comes from staying
in your center, and not getting pulled into anger. This is no small trick in your relationship because
of the hair-trigger reactions you both have to conflict issues when either of you tries to change the
other in any way. You can bring out each other's shadow issues, and need to be willing to question
your motives in any plans you come up with together.

Meg's Mars square Cancerboy's North Node:

Meg's choices of activities are often off track for the path of soul growth for Cancerboy. You
would be advised to allow space in your relationship for your separate interests.

Cancerboy's Jupiter trine Meg's Uranus:

This motivates the two of you to look for growth beyond your relationship together. You support
each other's independent views and opinions, encouraging each other to constantly expand on your
experiences and learn from life. Travel, education, and spiritual growth are all favored.

Meg's Jupiter sextile Cancerboy's North Node:

You provide strong support for each other's spiritual growth and can actively pursue spiritual
studies together. Travel together can be related to your spiritual quest, and it will not be difficult to
find a path that is growth-oriented for both of you.

Meg's Jupiter opposition Cancerboy's Uranus:

Although this combination promotes a great deal of excitement, you too easily encourage each
other into rash and even reckless behavior. There is an unfounded feeling of luck that encourages
risk taking that can be disastrous. Arguments can flair up over political and religious issues that you
are not likely to see eye to eye on.

Cancerboy's Jupiter square Meg's Neptune:

You encourage each other into blind spots and plans based on false optimism. With this aspect, it
is always best to think things all the way through before heading off on a fantasy. You can
encourage indulgent behavior in each other, and this could be trouble if either of you has problems
with escapism or addictions.

Cancerboy's Jupiter square Meg's Ascendant:

Many disagreements can erupt because your basic beliefs about so many life issues are at odds
with each other. These arguments aren't so hot as to be threatening, with Jupiter involved, but Meg
can experience Cancerboy 's beliefs about education, religion, and politics to be way off base.

Meg's Saturn trine Cancerboy's North Node:

You respect each other's path of soul growth and can help each other stay disciplined on the path.
You are able to be patient with each other and help each other get back on track when necessary.

Cancerboy's Uranus conjunct Meg's Neptune:

There is a creative flow between Cancerboy's intuition and Meg's ability to image. This sets up a
favorable flow of spiritual guidance that comes to the two of you spontaneously through
coincidences and sudden knowing.

Cancerboy's Uranus sextile Meg's Pluto:

You support each other's big picture view of what you stand for in life. You can be creative allies in
supporting each other's efforts at transforming society through social action, or transforming
yourselves through deep spiritual work.

Meg's Uranus opposition Cancerboy's Ascendant:

This destabilizing aspect will keep your relationship from becoming stagnant, if nothing else.
Cancerboy feels uncomfortable with, and even threatened by, the way Meg expresses individuality
and independence. Meg constantly hammers at Cancerboy's conventionality.

Cancerboy's Neptune trine Meg's Chiron:

You two have an intuitive awareness of the role of imagination in healing. You can work with each
other in the subtlest realms of spiritual and vibrational healing. You intuitively understand the power
of prayer in healing work with each other.

Meg's Neptune opposition Cancerboy's Chiron:

You don't have faith in each other's path of health and healing. Since you don't really understand
each other in these matters, any advice you give tends to confuse rather than help. Your lack of
faith in each other translates as doubt and worry--all disempowering images to send to each other.
Learn how to send angels instead of worried images to each other--it does more good.

Cancerboy's Neptune square Meg's North Node:

You are working through karmic patterns of deception and the tendency to lead each other down
paths that ultimately lead to disillusionment. It is important for both of you to compensate for this
potential blind spot in your relationship by checking within your own heart of hearts for clarity
before following each other's lead.

Meg's Pluto trine Cancerboy's Chiron:

Powerful healing energy flows between the two of you, particularly if you are blessed with an
intimate relationship, as this would bring sexual healing. You draw hidden strength just from being
in each other's presence, and together you are unknowingly a powerful healing force in other
people's lives.

Cancerboy's Pluto opposition Meg's Chiron:

With this aspect, it is as if you know secrets about each other that could be quite wounding if
publicly revealed. You are being tested with the right use of this power to wound each other. Will
you hold each other hostage with these secrets? Or will you pass the test and be able to be trusted
with each other's vulnerable secrets?

Meg's Ascendant sextile Cancerboy's North Node:

This allows for an easy, growth-oriented approach to life together. Your natural pursuits and
interests support each other's soul growth.

Meg's Ascendant conjunct Cancerboy's Chiron:

You have a natural, unspoken empathy for the trials and tribulations you both have endured. In this
quiet acceptance, a healing occurs, and you help each other move beyond the wounds of the past.

Cancerboy's North Node conjunct Meg's Chiron:

This fortunate aspect leads to shared experiences that are healing for Cancerboy and that lead to
soul growth for Meg. You two may come up with unique contributions in understanding the role of
spiritual practices in the healing process.