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Topic: Okay Cancer guys, answer me this.......
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tinasparkle
Knowflake Posts: 161
From: USA
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted October 30, 2006 04:52 PM
 
Hello all, I have another Cancer question. I know, you must be so sick of hearing about my Cancer beau and Cancer men in general, however, since they have been on the minds of several of the ladies in this forum, I thought why not. Okay, so here is my question. My Cancer beau has yet to kiss me, but seems very into hugging. Although I would like him to kiss me, and SOON, I have really enjoyed this gentle progression toward the physical. I don't feel like everything is a prelude to sex or a ploy to get what he "really wants". It's like he genuinely enjoys just holding me. Of course I give him the "full breast press" when we hug, but I don't feel like that is his motivation. Are Cancer men more into cuddling than other signs? Are they more focused on tender touching than raw carnal sex? It's not that I am disinterested in moving in the direction of sex, oh contraire. It's just that this is really cool! Your thoughts please. Tinasparkle
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OzMeg222
Knowflake Posts: 447
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Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 30, 2006 05:09 PM
The cancer-guy I'm into is definately a cuddler. Its so lovely and affectionate without being sexual. Never really been into that before, its felt stifling or suffocating in the past but now I really like it. I guess he simply cuddles and doesn't press anything against me or try to grope me (my ex used to do that it was so off putting!). He doesn't try for anything more when he holds me, its just a cuddle and some genuine affection. Sigh, so lovely.IP: Logged |
tinasparkle
Knowflake Posts: 161
From: USA
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted October 30, 2006 05:17 PM
I know! It's so different than what I am accustomed to and I really like it a lot. I didn't think that men like that existed. I am so glad they do.Tinasparkle IP: Logged |
OzMeg222
Knowflake Posts: 447
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Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 30, 2006 10:53 PM
Me too! So lovely. Its restored my faith in mankind. Must be these lovely cancer men, can't believe I've never been into one before. Of course my close male friend is a cancer and he is also a world class cuddler, but thats kinda different.IP: Logged |
cancerrg
Knowflake Posts: 2171
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Registered: Dec 2004
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posted October 31, 2006 07:09 AM
I can't really say if they are more into cuddling but i am sure they are not into raw carnal sex .
i doesn't mean they are not the type to like the rawness but even if they proceed to it , it will be made very very clear through their actions that the partner is just not an object of their enjoyment .if you lokk out for strong astro reasons , cancers are basically the sign of giving rather than taking .
so may be that explains his move which would convince you that he is all yours before making a move to fullfill his desires . IP: Logged |
Peri
Knowflake Posts: 1782
From: Kyiv, Ukraine
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted October 31, 2006 07:30 AM
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Cancer men more into cuddling than other signs?
 YES! IP: Logged |
tinasparkle
Knowflake Posts: 161
From: USA
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted October 31, 2006 08:56 AM
Yeah! He was really, really tired last night, but we had a great visit. There was a lot more hugging. I wanted to make it clear to him that he didn't have to ask to touch me and I hoped I hadn't given him the impression that he had to be very cautious and careful. I had told my Cancer fella about a date I had a while ago with someone who had been a friend and tried to get in my knickers on the first date. I was totally offended and I think by telling him this tale he may have worried about moving too fast. I felt like I needed to reassure him that this was a very different situation. There was a lot more touching after that and then before we said goodbye, he said he would give me a big kiss but if he did he wouldn't sleep. I appreciate his sense of practicality, but I spent the rest of the evening worrying about the state of my breath at that moment!  I think it was okay though. I so appreciate this slow progression with regard to the physical. It is such a change and really makes me feel safe and comfortable. Tinasparkle Happy Halloween everyone!!! (for those of you who celebrate said holiday, otherwise please disregard) IP: Logged |
IamLove
Knowflake Posts: 193
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Registered: Mar 2005
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posted January 11, 2007 09:24 PM
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Hello all,
I have another Cancer question. I know, you must be so sick of hearing about my Cancer beau and Cancer men in general, however, since they have been on the minds of several of the ladies in this forum, I thought why not. Okay, so here is my question. My Cancer beau has yet to kiss me, but seems very into hugging. Although I would like him to kiss me, and SOON, I have really enjoyed this gentle progression toward the physical. I don't feel like everything is a prelude to sex or a ploy to get what he "really wants". It's like he genuinely enjoys just holding me. Of course I give him the "full breast press" when we hug, but I don't feel like that is his motivation. Are Cancer men more into cuddling than other signs? Are they more focused on tender touching than raw carnal sex? It's not that I am disinterested in moving in the direction of sex, oh contraire. It's just that this is really cool! Your thoughts please. Tinasparkle
I think it depends on the chart.... what sign is his moon... mercury... venus... mars and asc in?  Katie IP: Logged |
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