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Topic: To all my Leo boardmates!
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Librarian Knowflake Posts: 19 From: Registered: Sep 2006
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posted November 05, 2006 05:27 PM
is there anything anyone can do to curb your jealousy ( for the ones that are jealous )I have a leo lady in my life who is just jealous about absolutely everything and it is killing our relationship. ------------------ 26 male Sun Libra Moon Libra Venus Virgo Mars Scorpio Jupiter Virgo Saturn Libra Ascendant Virgo IP: Logged |
and Knowflake Posts: 1104 From: Meet me in Montauk Registered: Jun 2006
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posted November 05, 2006 07:07 PM
Reassuring her helps but not too much, Introduce her to other females as your girl, Gush about her a lot, write her letters, text her messages throughout the day, let her know shes beautiful, and fabulous, she'll put you thru hoops to make sure you really love her, its the leo trademark....shes avoiding getting hurt, so if you try to reassure her too much verbally she might not believe you, but if you do subtle things to show her you adore her and no one else, then she'll finally get it, unless shes very young and immature, she'll curb it a bit, but the leo jealously is always there...if she really loves you of course, thats a sure sign a leo doesnt dig you, they arent jealous ------------------ "WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"-Khalil Gibran "The only people I would care to be with now are artists and people who have suffered: those who know what beauty is, and those who know what sorrow is: nobody else interests me."-- Oscar Wilde-- "De Profundis" IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 6910 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 06, 2006 08:05 AM
Arent you the guy who works next to the Leo lady and talks to all the other women in the office... My suggestions: No. 1.....Stop doing that....(in front of her that is) No. 2.....Get down on the ground and kiss her feet every now and then and tell her how GORGEOUS she is....
Does she have many planets in Leo, do you know? Good luck!!!!! IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Knowflake Posts: 1378 From: The Asylum Registered: Mar 2006
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posted November 06, 2006 08:36 PM
Exactly why I would never date a co-worker.....IP: Logged |
Librarian Knowflake Posts: 19 From: Registered: Sep 2006
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posted November 07, 2006 12:59 AM
lol yes thats me and we sit adjacent to one another, here is our info... ME HER Sun libra leo Moon libra leo Mercury scorpio cancer Venus Virgo Virgo Mars Scorpio Cancer Jupiter Virgo Libra Saturn Libra Libra Uranus Scorpio Scorpio Neptune Sagittarius Sagittarius Pluto Libra Libra True Node Leo Leo Acendant Virgo Cancer 2nd House Libra Leo 3rd House Scorpio Leo Imum Coeli Sagittarius Virgo 5th House Capricorn Scorpio 6th HOuse Aquarius Sagittarius Descendant Pisces Capricorn 8th House Aries Aquarius 9th HOuse Taurus Aquarius Medium Coeli Gemini Pisces 11th House Cancer Taurus 12th HOuse Leo Gemini and i do not talk to anyone anymore ------------------ 26 male Sun Libra Moon Libra Venus Virgo Mars Scorpio Jupiter Virgo Saturn Libra Ascendant Virgo IP: Logged |
and Knowflake Posts: 1104 From: Meet me in Montauk Registered: Jun 2006
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posted November 07, 2006 01:05 AM
WHOA you talk to the other females in the office she works at? no wonder youre on her sh1t list, that would drive me nuts, you need to alter your behavior pronto.------------------ "WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"-Khalil Gibran "The only people I would care to be with now are artists and people who have suffered: those who know what beauty is, and those who know what sorrow is: nobody else interests me."-- Oscar Wilde-- "De Profundis" IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 6910 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 07, 2006 03:26 AM
I was wondering if she had Moon Leo, and I was thinking, if she did, then you had better be aware of this...Something I found which may explain things:- """With Moon in Leo you are gregarious to the point of getting even others to perform; you love display and dramatizing situations. Always managing to find a creative environment or the creative in the environment, you're great with kids, animals sports, and the outdoors. You're an umbrella of warmth, friendship and self-expression, but need to learn to govern your emotions. You want your own way, and strive to have it. You're proud, easily offended, and need to be the center of attention. You have a subconscious desire to be in authority as well as a hidden drive for power—"hidden" and "subconscious" because that's the nature of the Moon, "authority" and "power" because that's what Leo demands. In a male chart this would attract a dramatic and positive mate""". * * * * ***** * * * * * Proud, easily offended, need to be centre of attention...I have known Leo mooners, who cannot stand to be upstaged, especially in love! She aint gonna like what you are doing with that Libra charm of yers... And she also has Leo Sun too.... I would think about not working together...it may prove to be very difficult for you!! Good luck!!!!!
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sue g Knowflake Posts: 6910 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 07, 2006 03:27 AM
My father told me recently something my mother said before she passed away.She said to my father..."she (meaning me) loves you more than she does me" I found this a very strange thing to say....when I looked at her chart she has Leo Moon...(her sun in cappy) Maybe this will explain what I am talking about... IP: Logged |
1scorp Knowflake Posts: 2000 From: Registered: Feb 2003
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posted November 07, 2006 09:13 AM
Eeeesshhh... I know what you mean. I've never been with a Leo (other than friendships) but the Libra placements can get us in trouble, can't it. I've been accused of flirting and/or being overly nice so many times... I think some people see being polite and friendly as threatening???? I remember talking to my Aries father once about how men will sometimes take my friendliness as flirting. He said "you smile entirely too much and you are too interested in others". I even went through a spell where I would restrain myself to prevent any mixed signals from occurring. Then I thought, I'm not doing anything wrong... if I can't be genuine and act myself, that's not my problem. The key is to always be respectful of the other person... then if she/he is still getting jealous, well, that's something they have to sort out. I know this didn't really help answer your Leo question... just wanted to say that I understand what you're talking about. Edit - There is a difference between being friendly and flirting. If the other person can't tell the difference and wants you to cut off a part of your personality... well, that's being pretty selfish really. Edit 2 - I also wanted to add that you may need to reassure her. I make it a point talk about the person I'm with in front of others. I'm always saying something positive about him. Others know without a doubt that I'm involved and appreciate him... Little things like this really help the other person feel secure... and if you like/love them, it's worth all the extra effort for them to feel appreciated. ___________________________________________ Scorpio sun, venus, mars, mercury, and uranus Libra moon, pluto, and asc. IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 6910 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 07, 2006 09:36 AM
1ScorpI too get accused of them things too....too nice, too charming, too open even... I think we do at times, get misunderstood...and people are kinda threatened by it too... Aaahhh well....WE know what we mean... xx Sun, Mercury, Venus, Neptune and Jupiter in Scorpio. IP: Logged |
adrialeotauruscancer Knowflake Posts: 7 From: Port Orchard, Washington, USA Registered: Sep 2006
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posted November 10, 2006 11:55 PM
To second, third, and quadruple, what other's have said. There is a lot to be said about her ego. Feed it, you'll be fine. She see's your flirting as a lack of respect of WHO SHE IS. In her mind, you would never stand in the presense of a queen and compare the queen to other lesser nobles in her land. Sounds like we can be horribly unfair, but we just know our worth (or pretend to).. at any rate: Let her know that she is GREAT and you chose her because of that. (often with flowers, words, dinner, a puppy...) Leo's are great people, but they need to feel appreciated and respected. IP: Logged | |