posted November 06, 2006 11:56 PM         

I'm in love with two men, and am uncertain which one (if either) I should choose. It's extremely selfish, and yes, the karmic fall-out from this should be immense. They are each wonderful, but with one I have a particularly close emotional and cerebral relationship, and the other a very physical compatibility and we have similar goals (same place in life.)

Sadly, a male friend of mine, is going through the same thing with his wife...she too has turned to another, and doesn't want to leave him.

Neither one of us are "that kind of woman".

Me: 3/21/68 4:17am Huntsville, AL
G1: 4/14/71 ??? Florence, AL
G2: 1/30/58 ??? Pensacola, FL

posted November 07, 2006 05:39 PM         

just curious, do they each know about the other?

Of course you realise that only you can answer your own dilemma.

posted November 07, 2006 05:55 PM         

Your topic header lured me in.....
Haven't looked at the astro, but did want to say that perhaps a small modification in vocab would help you -- ie, my belief is that karma is NOT "punishment". A better word (and I admit I'm a Libran ) would be "balancing". If you did something negative or caused pain to another in a past lifetime, at some point that negative energy will come back home to you to roost. Linda Goodman says that Love can even negate/balance karma (p. 196 of "Relationship Signs" I think). Oftentimes, it isn't what happens to us that causes the most pain -- it's how we PERCEIVE and deal with what happens to us.....

When I asked him what I should do when I had a tough decision to make, my wise Saggie dad said "Make a list." Write out all the positive and negative of each choice, then make your choice and don't look back with regret, wondering what the other choice would have been like. You can only walk down one road at a time.....

posted November 10, 2006 03:59 PM         

I understand your situation completely. I looked at your birthdate... you were born only 10 days before me on the same year... kewl.

Unfortunately, I can't offer any astrological advise; only practical one.

Imagine yourself 20-30 years down the road... who would you rather be with? Who do you see growing old with? If you have to live with one and not the other - who can you NOT live without. I know it seems confusing especially when physical attraction is involved. If you take that away, who do you think you are more compatible with?

posted December 11, 2006 03:25 PM         

I, too, was drawn in by the your punishment perception of karma...

Karma is NOT punishment,,but it is what it is.....

I also, had to decide at one point in my life between two men who I loved--each for himself as he would be for himself....

So I let them BOTH go......

Seemed like the only answer, since I could not choose, would not choose...

Blessings