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Topic: Am I THAT insecure?
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Kamilla
Knowflake Posts: 684
From: NJ USA
Registered: Apr 2006
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posted November 09, 2006 12:16 PM
 
Last night I was at my BF house and something came up in the conversation about the place he visited several years ago. He wanted to show me photos he has taken there and we ended up going through a couple of albums before he found them. Naturally, we came across some pictures where he was with woman that he was dating at the time (2003)and then - with another one in 2004. Nothing too personal - various sites, parties, etc. He did apologise for not taking these photos out before showing me the albums and said he was hoping I wouldn't get upset. Of course, I said "Don't be silly, once in a while we can asknowledge the fact that you had a life before you met me...lol" But then.... I kind of did get upset and thought it was pretty insensitive on his part.... This morning he e-mailed me "Good Morning! What are you doing, etc. " My first thought of responce was "... looking through My Pictures folder to make sure I have pictures of all guys I was ever sleeping with so I can show them to you as a part of our next romantic evening...lol" ...but I didn't send it..........yet. .... I guess, this is typical "Mercury retrograde" thing - something from the past causing stupid argument in the present and I should just let it go. My Venus in Scorpio is having a little trouble with that though...lol. Am I being unreasonable here? IP: Logged |
Stargazer
Knowflake Posts: 845
From: Columbus OH USA
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted November 09, 2006 12:42 PM
Hi Kamilla...I did the very same thing....I got excited about a topic of conversation in which I had photos of (scuba diving)...you know? something in common.. and we started looking at my pictures and the next thing ya know.. we are looking at others that contained "other people"...He was really cool about it and never said anything... but that flush came over me when he was about to look at them and so "I" felt the need to apologise or something..
He said, "As long as it wasn't on purpose"
And of course, it wasn't.... If there was no motive behind it...
I say let it go...  IP: Logged |
Kamilla
Knowflake Posts: 684
From: NJ USA
Registered: Apr 2006
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posted November 09, 2006 04:29 PM
Thank you  You are right. The whole thing was spontaneous and meant no offense. And he did apologise directly and indirectly - under pouring rain he decided to clean all leaves off my car before I went home. Which was a pretty hopeless endeavor...lol... since his driveway surrounded by trees and the leaves kept falling. He knows how I feel though because he is exactly the same. He doesn't like talking about my ex and definitely prefer to have my attention all to himself. I took some goofy/naughty Halloween pictures with some guys from my office and he didn't even want to look at them. Even that he knew we were just goofing off. IP: Logged |
pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 6010
From: Arizona - Moving to Germany to be with Bear the Leo
Registered: May 2002
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posted November 09, 2006 04:48 PM
I don't think it means you are insecure, I think it means Merc retro is an ugly booger that blows things out of our orbit. If my husband were to look through my albums there will be pics of guys I dated, an ex-husband and a few men that meant a lot to me. My albums are packed up and I have no desire to run over to them and pull out any pics of guys because I think he'll be offended. There is nothing dirty or suggestive - nothing kinky (ewwww) so there is nothing to worry about. If he got angry with me over it, I would be offended. But, I have seen pics with his ex-wife and I know he had a serious relationship with another before he met me. The real a-hole was my ex-fiance I call a$$face. He had pics of "friends" in frames in our bedroom on the dresser. At first I thought nothing of it because I am not a jealous kind of person- then I read the details on the back and there were 8 more pics behind it with dates and descriptions. They were all women he screwed and he got his jollies off of having their pics in our bedroom. LMAO... The joke is on him though. If it wasn't for dealing with "He whose a$$ is his face" I never would have met my Sexy Leo hubby. He is my heartsong and I could never imagine my life without him. "Thanks A$$face" I think it will all blow over Kamilla You seem like a reasonable person. DO you two share any Venus Pluto aspects? IP: Logged |
Kamilla
Knowflake Posts: 684
From: NJ USA
Registered: Apr 2006
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posted November 09, 2006 05:13 PM
You are the best  Thank you.I just was reading some other topic and thinking how much I like your posts. To think about it, I wouldn't even hear about taking something / someone out of MY albums...lol We both are Sags with Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Leo. So we both want to be kind of "free to roam" and at the same time keep the tight rein on the partner...lol. In synastry we have Venus in tight conjunction and square his Pluto. IP: Logged |
Venus
Knowflake Posts: 202
From:
Registered: Sep 2002
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posted November 09, 2006 06:23 PM
HiI really dont understand this post. Why should someone have to apologise and remove photos of their past relationships before letting you look? Venus IP: Logged |
Venus
Knowflake Posts: 202
From:
Registered: Sep 2002
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posted November 09, 2006 06:25 PM
But I would see it as a problem if it was the same scenario Pidau had!Glad you had the last laugh there Pidau. Venus IP: Logged |
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