posted November 25, 2006 01:17 AM           

Sun in
Moon in

"Mr. Leo"

Sun in
Moon in

posted November 27, 2006 11:10 AM           

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"-Khalil Gibran

posted November 28, 2006 02:22 PM           

Welcome to Linda-Land....!

posted November 28, 2006 04:56 PM         

Well, looking at it strictly from an astrological point of view, I think what has helped it work between us is that fire and earth are the most prevalent elements in both of our natal charts. Plus our ascendants are trine (in water signs).

Although his sun and moon are both in earth signs, his venus and mars are both in fire signs. Conversely, my venus and mars are both in earth signs. And we both have venus trine the other's sun.

Oh, and another thing is I have more planets in Virgo than any other sign, so I do definitely feel a bit Virgo-ish. And Virgo is his 7th house sign. Taurus is my 7th house sign.

So, I think all of those things help make us more compatible than we would seem by just our sun/moon combos alone.

In terms of challenges...I don't really know enough about astrology to know which aspects to attribute our challenges to, but we certainly have our share. I'd say early in our relationship, our biggest problem was jealousy. Also, we're both very independent, and sometimes our independence unintentionally hurts the other. Another problem is I can too easily become pessimistic about our relationship (my Venus in Cap?) and withdraw, and he's been hurt by how easy it appears for me to give up on us. But I've become much more secure in our relationship and am not so quick to doubt the security we feel together. I think I often felt things were too good to be true and that it was only a matter of time before the sh*t hit the fan. I get those feelings still sometimes, but I don't let them overwhelm me like I did in the past.

Overall though, I think what's helped it work is that we truly love and like one another, naturally communicate very well, both strongly value honesty--to ourselves and each other, are sensitive to each other's feelings, make each other laugh very hard on pretty much a daily basis, and are sexually attracted to one another to an insanely strong degree! I should've mentioned that one first! There were sparks from the start, but we knew each other for about a year or two before we became romantically involved. It still feels like we're making up for that pent-up sexual tension. I'm not sure what in our charts I should attribute all that good stuff to, but the last might be from our mars-pluto and venus-pluto aspeects. (But, on the downside, that probably also contributes to jealousy). Also, we have mutual eros-asc conjunctions. Whatever the cause, me likey!

Good luck with you and Mr. Leo! Do you have good synastry in other ways? If you don't feel a strong bond, just have faith that there's a better match for you and be open to welcoming the one who feels right. Take care and sorry about the book! Mr. Taurus is one of my favorite conversation topics . Make mental note never to ask me about him again.

posted November 29, 2006 10:49 PM           

How long have you two been together?

posted November 30, 2006 08:47 PM           

because no one cares

posted December 08, 2006 05:59 AM         

I never got to see what's been edited, but anyhow...

We cannot possibly "know" what you've been going through. Only you yourself can feel it.

You may feel utterly alone in all this, or not understood, or no one's really listening-

But there are people who do care. Please don't give up hope.

Judging from only you two's Sun and Moon signs, it's hard to make a complete analysis, one can only say they don't look the worst, and there's a chance that there's some good in this.

But ultimately it is your decision whether you want to go on with this relationship or not, whether you would open a little bit up and let others in.

I think you are a very private and very sensitive person. I understand you consider discretion very important.

We may not understand fully, but some of us are trying to listen. There are folks who care.

posted December 08, 2006 01:25 PM           

It's nice to know some people DO care. Sometimes I lose sight of that.

How have you been doing? I hope all has been going well for you.

Life can be pretty hard, you know? I think it's important that people reach out to each other.

posted December 08, 2006 04:41 PM         

I don't know that it means that no one cares, maybe there are only a limited number of people that have had that kind of experience. The other problem is that they may not have much to share that will make you feel positive.

For example, my worst experience was with an Earth Sun (Taurus) and Earth Moon (Virgo). I have a Fire Sun (Sagittarius) and Fire Moon (Aries).

posted December 09, 2006 03:52 AM         

Gooberslostlovefound,

Thanks "The" guy and I talk to each other quite a lot, still just talking, but talking is better than not talking at all, and I'm serious here.

I'd been thinking about "It wasn't love...what was it?" Then I thought, "It's a mystery." So I guess I'm doing okay at the moment...he and I will just go with the flow...

posted December 09, 2006 02:14 PM           

Thank you for checking in, it means a lot to me.

Pid, wise words, I know you're probably right.

DFD, I know what you mean...about talking. So true. Anyhow, right back atcha.

AG (and anyone else interested)...

I've given up on Mr. Leo. I felt that there was something incredibly special between us, but....oh well....

Too many mixed signals from him. He's told me he has feelings for me, we kissed (once)...but whenever things are about to get more serious, he heads for the hills. He disappears, I won't hear from him for, like, two months. And I don't think I come on too strong, either. Although I guess I can't know for sure.

His best friend told me that he (Mr. Leo) hasn't had a girlfriend in a loonnnnng time. (3 years). And this is someone who is very attractive, charming, smart, etc. He could definitely get himself a nice girl, but it seems like he chooses not to. Maybe he got really hurt in the past. I don't know.

I feel like I've done everything I can. He knows I have feelings for him. But I can't force anything, you know? He's been popping in and out of my life since we met a year and a half ago.

Even just three weeks ago he called me up late at night and told me he had feelings for me, and asked me for plans. But it's the same old story, he gets spooked. I just won't hear from him.

So I feel like I need to give up! It's too painful to keep hoping for something that will never come.

Any thoughts/advice would be so appreciated. (You can be honest!)

If you say, "there is no hope here"...believe me...I understand. I think it's true. Maybe I need to hear it from somebody else? I don't know.

Hope you're all well.............

posted December 11, 2006 02:47 PM         

Although Fire and Fire in his chart go well- he has that stable "love seeker" Leo paired with the love of adventure and independence- Saggie.

When he feels that he is losing you- he calls, tells you he has feelings, then he runs again.

There is nothing wrong with you- he just needs to grow up and mature. BUT, you should tell him how you honestly feel and how his game is affecting you.

I hope this helps. You seem like a pretty straight forward and caring person

Good Luck!

posted December 12, 2006 05:52 AM         

I'm sorry for being late to get back to you until now. Often I become rather too self-involved, and fail to reach out to those who I know (whether well or not with such familiarity, and either offline or online) that really need someone to be willing to listen and to talk with.

I was late to notice that I was too careless to mistake your Moon sign, which is Virgo (same as mine!), for Aquarius (!) Initially, when I had found out about it, I was thinking- with Mr Leo's Moon in Sagittarius, which square your Virgo Moon, and Sag, symbolically (but only symbolically! Sorry, I still have yet to learn typing in italics- lazy me and I'll try)meaning bluntness, sheer enthusiasm for the dream world/the kingdom of imagination and adventure; and ruled by Jupiter, which basically represents anything, any aspect in life that is more than large...while the sign Virgo, symbolically meaning sensitivity to, noticing and appreciation for small things in life, cautiousness and at times apprehension, at ease when having sustained and maintained sense of security in the reality world...plus Mr Leo's Leo Sun quincunx (in general...sorry about the generalization here) your Capricorn Sun, which is not really the worst, but not really the most harmonious, aspect...

I'm really sorry that it didn't work out, and I'm more sorry that so far in this post, what I've done here is giving an untimely "analysis", which comes from someone who's not a professional astrologer and by no means authentic...I'm sorry.

But, all in all, please try looking forward to every tomorrow with the thought that the sun rises again in all mornings of eternal tomorrows, there are all kinds of possibilities, and I know it's hard (speaking from a Moon and other multiple luminaries Virgo here ), but please hold on, and try looking to the bright side

I know it's rough, Gooberzlostlovefound- I used to encounter guys who I simply never really figured out. Not that I'm implying that men are all mean, but my previous personal experiences gave me much heartache, and with time passing, I grew more and more mistrustful and insecure about romantic relationships with males. But with "the" guy I've been sort of "hanging out" with (well, not in the strictest sense of just casually hanging out and have some fun...you know, we're having serious stuff, but in a more worldly sense, we're more like having a platonic relationship)...all I can say is so far so good...

GLLF, you have such bravery inside you that only you know the tremendous strength you have that has brought you thus far; and in search for true love and a real home, still, I say- wishing you all the best

posted December 12, 2006 05:01 PM           

I am sad but I will be fine.

People come into your life, and people go out. And that's just the way it goes.

I'm glad your situation is going well. It sounds nice. enjoy it!

Anyways thanks for taking an interest, I do appreciate it so so much.