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zoso
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From: Death Valley USA
Registered: Sep 2004

posted November 26, 2006 04:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for zoso     Edit/Delete Message
I just got into my boyfriend's email and changed his password. I knew what the original password was and nothing was really juicy in his emails, so I got a little carried away and logged into his myspace with his email address and sent the password to his email. That's what they do when you forget your own password, and apparently it works quite well when you are sneaking around someone else's email too.


I'm in big trouble, I know. Honestly though (God honest truth from a Sag who should be shutting up right about now) I feel the worst about changing his myspace password after sending his ex a reply to a nasty email she sent about me to him. What the heck is she sending him trash-talking emails about me for?! That is just uncalled for and childish (ya, I know: "look who's talking" your thinking) But I guess I'm feeling a little extreme right now. I stopped taking prozac because I didnt feel like it was improving my pms (reason for prescription) and I guess its taking a toll on my mental health....My Scorpio side is coming out and being very bad! What's up with the sneaky sneaky I just pulled?

Is it planets in Scorpio activating this unpleasant side or prozac withdrawl? Should I tell him or just change his passwords back?

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lotusheartone
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From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005

posted November 26, 2006 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotusheartone     Edit/Delete Message
Everything happens for a reason...

this is Karma

But, what you did was wrong..a universal law of trust and respect...
in order to balance it fully, you need to come clean..and tell the whole Truth...

explain your reasons and feelings for what you did..and ask for Forgiveness. ...

I hope I am not being to harsh..
but where do we draw the line..

everything we do has a consequence,
our free wi11 choice...

LOve, Respect, Trust
in the Light... .

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Natural111
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From: Los Angeles, CA, USA
Registered: Sep 2006

posted November 26, 2006 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Natural111     Edit/Delete Message
Uh, oh, Zoso....

DOMmm, dom dom dom, Doooooommmmm....

I did that. And I just read the guys email and told him and he flipped.

So, eventhough I love lotusheart's reply I really do. It's so noble and true!! BUT, Geesh, I don't know about telling.

I say, just change it back...

BUT, you emailed his ex???? Yeah, that's where you went postal. And so, his ex is going to ask and you'll be exposed anyway.... I think you messed up big time here. So, yeah, now that I think about it, lotusheart, is right. You have to tell and be prepared for the fall out. But you might lose him. But beleive me, the ex, oh, she's going to let him know she got the email you sent. And he's going to know where it came from.

Wow...
Okay, somebody else, please give, Zoso better advice here!
Because I sound confused! LOL!!!

Well, thumbs up on lotushearts advice....I think it's the best way to go. The hardest, but the best.

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BornUnderDioscuri
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From: Brooklyn, NY, USA
Registered: Oct 2006

posted November 26, 2006 02:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
OMG Zoso! Thats so something I wanted to do last week to my bf's trash talking friend! Oh wow, did he find out?

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BornUnderDioscuri
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From: Brooklyn, NY, USA
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posted November 26, 2006 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
OH man that so is planets in Scorpio...Im a Gemini moon in Scorpio and like i said trully considered doing that last week ^_^ best of luck to you love. Just dont do that anymore, it could strain your relaitonships if your caught. On the other hand he should reply to the chick to shut up because she has no bussiness saying anything about you. Quickly change the password back if you can before he notices.

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zoso
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From: Death Valley USA
Registered: Sep 2004

posted November 26, 2006 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for zoso     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah, well she wrote back before he found out and it said something along the lines of "There's no need to be rude, I wish you the best of luck and hope things work out" which is way different than the original email "Zoso the crazy b!tch hahaha"

Which, yeah I know, I kinda proved her right. So he called up and was mad as hell. I changed his passwords back and explained that I felt like he was talking trash about me to her and not sticking up for our relationship. He wrote back another message to her that was SOOOO much meaner than the one I wrote (I basically said not to write until she can show respect for the "woman I'm with") He went on to call her all sorts of names I wasn't even going to say at all. Not sure if it was all for show, but it was mean.

He's really ****** and is not talking to me at the moment. I tried to remind him of the time I lost my phone at a restaurant and he called it, the waiter answered and told him someone had lost the phone, He went down to pick it up and went thru all my messages and later I found out he had taken any names he didnt know and stored them in his contact list on his phone (including many of my male cousins and family members) and then accused me of all sorts of wrong-doing. He's a Scorp by the way.

It doesnt matter about what we've done to each other since it's obvious we have some issues to work out...like TRUST for one. Oh, the woes...I feel pathetic. Im not good at sneaking around anyways...leave that to the Scropios. Its funny cus he said "If you were smart, you would have left my password alone and waited to check on what I'd write back to her" such a sneakier move I didnt even think of!!

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Dulce Luna
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From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006

posted November 26, 2006 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message
He's right, why didn't you just leave the password alone and do what you needed to do to her?


But on another note, scorpios (watersigns in general to tell you the truth) do get heated about that type of stuff....even when they do it to you. Actually, anyone would be heated at that. A leo guy went through my sag friend's phone to find out what I had said about him (they were "dating" at the time) and he stupidly told her "Ha, I went through your phone and found out what your girl said about me!" Let me tell you that my girl has a scorpio mars and she was heated. I would've been too. Your Scorpio will probably get over it though...especially if he's been done it to you before.

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BornUnderDioscuri
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From: Brooklyn, NY, USA
Registered: Oct 2006

posted November 26, 2006 05:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
OH WOW! Haha yeaaaa Scorpios are something. Thats the thing though with my Scorp moon, i will go through stuff spying but if someone did it to me then my Gemini sun freaks at the invasion of privacy. Guess that makes me bit of a hypocrite though but give him bit of time to cool off and he should come around I mean If he wasnt serious he wouldnt have told her off like that. ^_^ Best of luck, but try to avoid spying, i know its tempting and fun but i feel aweful after I do it because relationships are based on trust. Lots of luck to you hon, just give him time to calm down.

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Sun-Gemini
Moon-Scorpio
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Natural111
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From: Los Angeles, CA, USA
Registered: Sep 2006

posted November 26, 2006 11:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Natural111     Edit/Delete Message
Oh, wow......

He's a Scorp!!!

Yikes!

Yeah, they can do it but when you do it, they get amnesia.

Good luck with this. At least the truth is out. I hope he takes your admission as an act trust.

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