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GypsyDancer1221
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From: Charlotte, NC, USA
Registered: Oct 2006

posted November 26, 2006 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypsyDancer1221     Edit/Delete Message
Okay, this is about the guy I mentioned in my Cancerian Woman/Aquarian Man post. He came over for dinner at my house last night and it was VERY awkward; neither of us talked much. After dinner my mum asked if we wanted to go downstairs and play Ping Pong, and so, we actually did. My mum thought we would talk or something, but no, we actually spent an hour playing ping pong! And it was pretty fun, just awkward; I felt the most comfortable when we were alone together than when my family was around, but when I looked into his eyes, I had to look away because if I looked too long I was afraid of what I might say/do. I've had feelings for him for over two years, and after holding back those emotions for so long now that he's got feelings for me, I can't let them out slowly; it's like emotions pounding against a dam; if I open it a little, the entire thing will burst! If you want our planets and such, they're in my other post, and if you want our actual birth info, just ask. PLEASE HELP ME! I get to see him again in a few days, same scenario (except there will be two other people that I don't know there). PLEASE!!!! He leaves again in two weeks... I appreciate everything and anything you have to say!

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Alope
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posted November 28, 2006 07:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alope     Edit/Delete Message
I've always found just looking them deeply in the eyes to be the best way to get things moving. When you have powerful feelings like that, you just can't hide them in that type of look. So if you want him to know, but don't want to actually say something just yet, it is a good way to test the waters. He might be too shy to respond, but if he doesn't run away, I'd bet he's eager and just doesn't know what to do next.

Some boys are *so* shy with girls, ones that you would never expect. Usually, giving them "the eyes" will give them the confidence they need to make a move.

Good luck! I'm sure you'll figure out the right way to handle the situation. How long is he leaving for?

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GypsyDancer1221
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From: Charlotte, NC, USA
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posted December 03, 2006 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypsyDancer1221     Edit/Delete Message
THANK YOU FOR REPLYING!!! He'll be gone for about six months, but since he's only six hours away we might be able to see each other before then. See, I DO stare into his eyes sometimes, but he looks away most of the time. The last time I saw him (Wed.) *HE* actually looked into MY eyes that way, but he still didn't really do/say anything. I looked back, but it was kind of awkward. I'll try doing it again, though, and try to keep him from looking away. /THANK YOU, SOOO Much!!/ I appreciate it a lot! Be safe, and thank you!

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