Lindaland
  Soul Unions
  Soemeone make this stop...

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq | search

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   Soemeone make this stop...
BornUnderDioscuri
Knowflake

Posts: 446
From: Never Never Land
Registered: Oct 2006

posted December 11, 2006 09:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
I dont care about Saturn transiting the DC or being in the 7th house for 2 more years! Just this has got to stop. How can you love someone so much and have them love you back, but HATE the relationship. I dont want to end it but I think i should...ugh...maybe its just today

IP: Logged

Gooberzlostlovefound
Knowflake

Posts: 1098
From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake
Registered: Jan 2002

posted December 12, 2006 12:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
hope you feel better, sorry to hear it's been so hard for you.

IP: Logged

GeminiLover75
Knowflake

Posts: 713
From:
Registered: Apr 2006

posted December 12, 2006 02:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, I know what you mean. At this point I'm inclined to think, it's Saturn on HIS descendant, so it's his problem... and not just Saturn, but those two T-squares to his chart. His problems, that he needs to work out for himself... we can't solve their problems for them, they have to do the work. Personally I think he needs counselling to work out the way he communicates with other people and especially with you. You are not to blame for any of what's going on! I think a healthy thing would be for you to distance yourself emotionally... maybe even tell him that the way he communicates with you is not what you want from a relationship and that you won't be in a relationship with him until he can communicate better and treat you right. I've done a similar thing with my bf and it automatically changes his behaviour. Then again your bf might react totally different than mine. If you say anything you have to really mean it, don't say it if you don't. How about first trying some emotional distance... meditating, maybe trying the cutting the ties visualisation? It's hard with a Scorpio moon to be detached so really try... all of this isn't worth your sanity! Believe me I know how you feel.

IP: Logged

sue g
Knowflake

Posts: 7379
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004

posted December 12, 2006 04:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
Did you ever hear the Beatles song

I dont like you but I love you
Seems that Im always thinking of you
Oh oh oh you treat me badly, I love you madly
Youve really got a hold on me

Baby I dont want you but I need you
Dont want to kiss you but I need to
Oh oh oh you do me wrong now, my love is strong now
Youve really got a hold on me

Baby I love you and all I want you to do is just
Hold me, hold me, hold me, hold me

Tired of, tired of...

I want to leave you, dont want to stay here
Dont want to spend another day here
Oh oh oh I want to spit now, I just cant quit now
Youve really got a hold on me

Baby I love you and all I want you to do is just
Hold me please, hold me squeeze, hold me, hold me

Youve really got a hold on me
Youve really got a hold on me

* * * *

I understand what you mean too Born....its very difficult isnt it...

Was married to someone who I really needed to get away from... I loved him and me him....but the relationship was hateful...

I got away in the end and never looked back!!

to you

IP: Logged

BornUnderDioscuri
Knowflake

Posts: 446
From: Never Never Land
Registered: Oct 2006

posted December 12, 2006 07:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you soooo much guys! And that song is very very perefect for the moment.

Dear Sue, I dont think our relationship is hateful, we just tend to not control our emotions and whind up acting like children. We both love each other but its just weird. I dunno maybe it will end. I honestly dont want it too. I thought he was the one. Though everyone tells me hes not. Not that im listening to anyone else but it sure is starting to look that way

IP: Logged

D for Defiant
Knowflake

Posts: 994
From:
Registered: May 2006

posted December 14, 2006 06:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for D for Defiant     Edit/Delete Message
BUD,

I hope things are going a lot more smoothly now, and looking brighter

Best of luck in love

IP: Logged

BornUnderDioscuri
Knowflake

Posts: 446
From: Never Never Land
Registered: Oct 2006

posted December 14, 2006 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you D

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright © 2005

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a