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Topic: Soemeone make this stop...
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BornUnderDioscuri Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Never Never Land Registered: Oct 2006
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posted December 11, 2006 09:46 PM
I dont care about Saturn transiting the DC or being in the 7th house for 2 more years! Just this has got to stop. How can you love someone so much and have them love you back, but HATE the relationship. I dont want to end it but I think i should...ugh...maybe its just today IP: Logged |
Gooberzlostlovefound Knowflake Posts: 1098 From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake Registered: Jan 2002
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posted December 12, 2006 12:57 AM
hope you feel better, sorry to hear it's been so hard for you. IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75 Knowflake Posts: 713 From: Registered: Apr 2006
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posted December 12, 2006 02:33 AM
Yes, I know what you mean. At this point I'm inclined to think, it's Saturn on HIS descendant, so it's his problem... and not just Saturn, but those two T-squares to his chart. His problems, that he needs to work out for himself... we can't solve their problems for them, they have to do the work. Personally I think he needs counselling to work out the way he communicates with other people and especially with you. You are not to blame for any of what's going on! I think a healthy thing would be for you to distance yourself emotionally... maybe even tell him that the way he communicates with you is not what you want from a relationship and that you won't be in a relationship with him until he can communicate better and treat you right. I've done a similar thing with my bf and it automatically changes his behaviour. Then again your bf might react totally different than mine. If you say anything you have to really mean it, don't say it if you don't. How about first trying some emotional distance... meditating, maybe trying the cutting the ties visualisation? It's hard with a Scorpio moon to be detached so really try... all of this isn't worth your sanity! Believe me I know how you feel.
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sue g Knowflake Posts: 7379 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted December 12, 2006 04:42 AM
Did you ever hear the Beatles song I dont like you but I love you Seems that Im always thinking of you Oh oh oh you treat me badly, I love you madly Youve really got a hold on me Baby I dont want you but I need you Dont want to kiss you but I need to Oh oh oh you do me wrong now, my love is strong now Youve really got a hold on me Baby I love you and all I want you to do is just Hold me, hold me, hold me, hold me Tired of, tired of... I want to leave you, dont want to stay here Dont want to spend another day here Oh oh oh I want to spit now, I just cant quit now Youve really got a hold on me Baby I love you and all I want you to do is just Hold me please, hold me squeeze, hold me, hold me Youve really got a hold on me Youve really got a hold on me * * * * I understand what you mean too Born....its very difficult isnt it... Was married to someone who I really needed to get away from... I loved him and me him....but the relationship was hateful... I got away in the end and never looked back!! to you IP: Logged |
BornUnderDioscuri Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Never Never Land Registered: Oct 2006
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posted December 12, 2006 07:26 PM
Thank you soooo much guys! And that song is very very perefect for the moment. Dear Sue, I dont think our relationship is hateful, we just tend to not control our emotions and whind up acting like children. We both love each other but its just weird. I dunno maybe it will end. I honestly dont want it too. I thought he was the one. Though everyone tells me hes not. Not that im listening to anyone else but it sure is starting to look that way IP: Logged |
D for Defiant Knowflake Posts: 994 From: Registered: May 2006
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posted December 14, 2006 06:49 AM
BUD,I hope things are going a lot more smoothly now, and looking brighter Best of luck in love IP: Logged |
BornUnderDioscuri Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Never Never Land Registered: Oct 2006
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posted December 14, 2006 11:16 AM
Thank you D IP: Logged |