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From: Charlotte, NC, USA
Registered: Oct 2006

posted December 12, 2006 10:45 PM         

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If you feel deeply connected to someone that you've never even hugged, although you were close friends for quite some time, is it likely that your souls have similar vibrations?

It's kind of long, but please hear me out; I really screwed up by TRYING to make a Scorpio jealous...

About three years ago I ruined a friendship between someone I still have deep feelings for, although I have been dating my darling for about six months now. I know he still feels SOMETHING for me, whether it's a grudge or what (He's got Four planets in Scorpio: Sun, Mercury, Venus, Pluto) I don't know, but when our eyes connect we both know that we SHOULD make up, but we never do. At least that's how I feel. I'm not sure what he's thinking, but I can tell a bit because I can tell what's behind his eyes. Our paths cross a few times a day since we're still in school but we STILL don't talk, although I've tried a few times to reestablish our friendship. My boyfriend visited me at school while he was here from the military and now my old Scorpio friend has been looking at me and sighing heavily and such. I actually saw him banging his head on his locker today! (Lightly, mind you.) I know it seems self centered to assume that it's about me, but he glances at me more often now... and I think he can tell that I still have some feelings left for him although my feelings for the guy I'm dating are SUPER (duper!) strong. I think it's an underlying connection... even if we aren't soul mates, perhaps we knew each other in a past life? I don't know... ANY imput would be TOTALLY appreciated! If you want birth info, just ask! Please respond, and thank you.

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From: former land of the leprechaun
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posted December 13, 2006 03:44 AM         

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If you cannot talk with him, have you thought of writing a note or emailing him.

You could just explain how you feel and apologise for hurting him. He would probably respect you for this.

If you carry on like this, things may get worse and nothing will be resolved.

You could have a connection, lots of us do...unresolved karma maybe?

Good luck with this Gypsy

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posted December 15, 2006 03:18 PM         

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Many soulmates come and go in our lives to teach us about ourselves. I'm sorry this has been painful for you, but there's may be a larger lesson here that you're resisting.

I don't think you're going to find the answers you are looking for without a bit more open-mindedness (and less self-scenteredness) as well as soul searching. And it will take time. How much time? As long as it takes. Sorry. You're young, and probably very impatient, and that's likely part of the lesson you could learn from this soulmate.

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From: Charlotte, NC, USA
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posted January 03, 2007 07:58 PM         

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Thank you both! Actually, before I read this, I decided that I was GOING to tell him that his friendship meant a lot to me and I'm going to confess, even though I don't know that he remembers (He's a Scorp, but he's also had two concussions in the past two years). I'm going to try to do it tomorrow right before school starts; I'm going to walk with him, whether or not he wants me to, to the staircase where our friendship ended (he was halfway down the stairs and he looked up at me and said, "I won't talk to you again unless you tell me" and... we just stopped talking) and ask him to hear me out. I just hope he doesn't ignore me... thank you for your support! I know soul mates come in and out of our lives for different reasons, but that saying "if you can't get someone out of your head, maybe they're supposed to be there" keeps haunting me... so I'm gonna talk to him, and if he's still in my head and he still doesn't talk to me... then maybe I'm supposed to help him with something and I'm failing or something... anyway, THANK YOU!

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