posted December 13, 2006 07:40 AM         

well the cancer i've been trying so hard to figure out ...i guess it makes sense know why i never could. he's dating someone new.

does anyone want to explain this to me? i've know him for five months. the first three months i basically lived with him we saw eachother so much. and in this time he's felt heart broken because of his ex[ which made me scared and coy to tell him what was on my mind]. it looked like things were progressing and then the stopped. and it was as if we had taken four steps back. and then something happened that it shouldn't have. and i haven't heard from him or seen him in the past couple weeks. i found out that he ment an aquientence of my of mine a couple weeks ago. at that time he didn't even have her number. and now they're together[indirectly]!

i just don't understand how someone could be hurt so much and then get over it and move on with someone they hardly know. and all that time i spent trying to help him..........

i dunno. i always thought that if these two people meet they'd be very compatiable i guess i was right. basically i always imagined his ex and her having a lot in common, so i guess thats what stood out.

posted December 13, 2006 08:22 AM         

If they like you they will make an effort in a thousand little ways.

That's always the rule. Unless they are playing games and then through their effort to keep them up reveal their interest.

Most of the time though if someone doesn't call you, doesn't make time for you and doesn't consider your feelings they just don't care.

This guy seems rude, but who knows, maybe your role was to bring them together?

I hope you're ok. I know how this one feels.

Swerve

posted December 13, 2006 08:41 AM         

Swerve great "counsel"