posted December 19, 2006 09:32 PM         

Well here is the scoop:

I have had quite a few dates and what some may consider "flings" in the past but never have managed to get that deep connection with a person.

The senerio usually always plays out the same:

1) We meet.
2) We become good friends.
3) She and I date.
4) We get a deep connection going.
5) We suddenly see other priorities and part ways.
6) Still remain good friends.

Now usuing non-astrological reasoning, I can say that more important things come in the way of love and offcourse I don't think its fair that my relationship partner plays second-fiddle to other priorities.

Though just out of curiosity, is there an Astrological reasoning behind this? Is my Venus being in Libra have something to do with it? Lol!

My Chart:

posted December 20, 2006 01:38 AM         

Plus i think Mars in Sagittarius might...man i have been so envious of people with such placements as Venus in Gemini and Mars in something like that lately...my Venus in Taurus in the 8th and Mars in Cancer are a no no when Sun opposes Uranus in synastry.
In fact I wish i had "fun" relationships...i go from flirting to "married" in 2 seconds and then all hell breaks loose...

posted December 20, 2006 11:48 PM         

This time I uploaded it into my photobucket account:

BUD:

Thanks for the input . Well with the powerful influence of Scorpio, I can definately say that I am not a procastinator Lol! Once I set myself to work, it will get done. Period. Its great if you you are a client. It ain't so great if you're a friend or a loved one.

According to them, quote:

"You become a totally different person."

Well, you gonna have to deal with reality sooner or later and I rather deal with it sooner.

As for an intese relationship... Yes, I did have one... Her heart is as pure as her love. That is why it was better that she be with someone who can cherish her totally without other priorities getting in the way. Love is love; It can't be compromised by anything else.

posted December 21, 2006 12:13 AM         

You have 3 planets in the fifth plus venus conjunct pluto in libra though...maybe you just haven't met the right person yet or maybe you need to wait for your priority load to lighten up, perhaps???

That second house sun could be a lil driven for security reasons...nothing wrong with that though.

posted December 21, 2006 07:42 AM         

That's why!
Simple. Also, having Mars in Sag would incline you to take flirtations lightly, along with your Libra Sun/Venus

One day your Ascendant and Moon will team up and become unified and push for a dramatic love fest, but it looks like no one has touched you to the extreme that you'd feel that passion to love and hate intensely. Right now you've experienced light and airy feelings... this is preferable to you anyway, your Desc is in Aqua.
The lower section of your chart is tightly bound, making you concerned with private matters, instead of more broad world matters., the ASC to the Desc are filled with energies, and the rest of the chart only focused on the handle of the bucket.. your MC.

My chart is very similar, in that I have Leo rising and tight planets in the same sectors, yet balanced by my MC.
Once you add some asteroids and angles for interpretation, you'll probably be further enlightened.

*gosh I haven't done this in a while*

Mars and Neptune in Sag.... Actually Sag is pretty loaded....
Mars and neptune have very different ideas they bring to the table....
One is action and demands while the other one is more ethereal and dreamy and not centred in action.
Theyre both channelled similarily. Your romantic life, pleasure centres, making you possibly feel at odds.. wanting action yet not feeling it.

You say you are very Scorpio rich.... I know those energies are powerful when you feel them, and that PLuto is home there, making making it stronger.....and they are your only water planets, but it seems by your chart you are actually more airy and fire driven... which would sort of explain your original concern.

posted December 22, 2006 12:34 PM         

Lol! Now I know where Linda made the observation as to why Libras end up breaking hearts.

Well no doubt BUD is a wonderful girl. However do keep in mind that she already has someone in her life and the fact that she is 3 years my junior Lol! But she has deep selfless intentions which is quite a rare quality in a person these days .

Dulce Luna:

Thanks for the input . So far I am getting the feeling that the stars are telling me to actually lighten the load up a bit... That can't be helped; Yet anyway Lol!

I can just see mom unloading on me now:

"What?! You haven't found a good Girl to settle down with yet?!" When she says good, I am pretty sure she means Spanish or Middle Eastern background Lol!

pixelpixie:

YAY! Another Canadian! How its hangin on your part of the Tundra? LOL! I miss the Snow . I just don't get the same of warmth sitting down in a Timmy during December this year.

Thanks for the analysis . Welll... Yeah, seems like to me right now, being not-so-uptight when it comes to love and relationships really helps out taking the stress off work, school and a hectic life. Since its a mutual understanding that the relationship is more open-ended, the resulting experience is worth its weight in Gold. Though it doesn't last long, it always leaves a positive effect. Would I have prefered it to last longer? Sure! Without a doubt, but circumstances dictate otherwise so therefore I have no regrets.

The Scorpio aspect only plays an minor role in my life but its always good to indicate it.

BUD:

Nah! Couldn't the nicest thing anyone has ever said Lol! And that's a good view.

posted December 22, 2006 07:18 PM         

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"What?! You haven't found a good Girl to settle down with yet?!" When she says good, I am pretty sure she means Spanish or Middle Eastern background Lol!

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LOL thats all mothers! For some reason every I know their parents want them to already find the "good" boy/girl and yet not settle down till all the schoolwork/career is settled for.

You guys have snow ! Man there isnt even sign of snow here, we get October like weather. Kind of rainy though.

posted December 22, 2006 07:53 PM         

*Xodian snaps out of trance* Aye Caramba! Sheez girl, you're a looker. I am guessing Irish background? Lol!

Nah! With a mind like that, you can't get "less hot" Lol!

Yeah! I know what you mean! Sheez if its getting warmer in winter, I suppose we can expect another Sahara during summer.

BUD:

I am just worried that they'll wanna jump in and find that girl for me Lol! I love my parents deeply but... I am not the type for arranged marrages. Heck I even insist on my own team meeting times Lol!

Oh we are getting everything BUT snow which is kinda depressing. Cloud coverage, rainfall, yet not an ounce of that fluffy white stuff...*Sad.*

posted December 22, 2006 08:06 PM         

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I am just worried that they'll wanna jump in and find that girl for me Lol! I love my parents deeply but... I am not the type for arranged marrages. Heck I even insist on my own team meeting times Lol!

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Ooh i can relate. Not for me but for my bf...that word arranged marriage makes me cringe. Possible with my bf and DEFINATELY possibly with my ex. Though i do have some "concerned" grandparently neighbours who insist on finding me a husband...

posted December 22, 2006 11:07 PM         

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"What?! You haven't found a good Girl to settle down with yet?!" When she says good, I am pretty sure she means Spanish or Middle Eastern background Lol!

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*chuckles* I know what that's like! From the day I was born, they've wanted to hook me up with A Mozambiquan, or maybe Cape Verdian (lots of them around here) , and they might even be okay with a Portuguese guy...who knows?? We all share a language in common but you never know with rivalries and all. Too bad I'm with a Spanish guy now