posted December 23, 2006 09:01 PM         

Do you think this is the reason why I'm currently single?

Here is my birth information

May 8th 1984
Queens, NY
9:48 am

Thanks in advance

posted December 23, 2006 10:25 PM         

A bit from Liz Greene:
The Birth Chart
Any understanding of the language of astrology must commence with a realisation of what the birth horoscope [and transits] can and cannot tell us. The horoscope is a highly complex astronomical map, based not only on the date of birth but on the time, year and place as well. We must first, therefore, discard all preconceptions and prejudices based on popular magazine astrology, which has virtually nothing to do with the real study.

The birth map does not plot the fate of the individual in a predestined way. Rather, it symbolises the basic lines of his character’s potential development.

This is from www.cafeastrology.com --
When Saturn transits square Venus:

*A sobering experience in a love relationship occurs around this time. You may be rudely shown ways in which your attitude and behavior towards a loved one is based on misguided principles.

+A time to be patient and tread a little lightly when it comes to indulgence and overextending yourself. Things could be tight. You may find it hard to appreciate or enjoy very much just now, and times may find you feeling lonely and at odds with life.

IAmLove, the key thing to remember in any transit is that these interps are what MIGHT happen in your individual unique life. No black-and-white transit interp will apply to EVERYONE (that's why they write "may" and "might" in them ). People are MUCH MORE than their astrological charts. The positions of planets in your birth chart, and transiting planets do not CONDEMN you to a certain fate. Strictly speaking, for instance, transiting Uranus in hard aspect to natal Moon can mean a relationship breakup. HOWEVER, if a bond is strong, then it will survive the Uranian need for freedom. There are many extenuating circumstances which modify YOUR situation. Perhaps an adjustment of your perceptions is in order (such as, that you "attract losers") before you can attract the type of partner you so yearn for.

Please don't allow your understanding to be limited to these cookbook interpretations of transits. It seems that you are ready to latch onto anything to blame/explain for the fact that at this moment you don't have a serious boyfriend. The reason you are still single is YOU -- not planets in the sky. YOU just haven't bumped into the right fella for YOU yet

This is a fascinating, intriguing, exciting and wonderful world to explore -- could it be possible that getting/keeping a man in your life is the primary reason you chose to incarnate?? Is this all that you wish for yourself in this lifetime??

There are others here who've given you some great advice (I liked ILWL's chasing-the-butterfly metaphor ). It would probably help to stop searching frantically for something to blame/excuse, and instead throw all your energies into making yourself the best You you can be, finding out who You really are and what You really want -- then you will be ready to share yourself with someone who deserves a wonderful person like you!!

posted December 23, 2006 11:04 PM         

I don't know but I was single for almost 2 years and it felt damn good!

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