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Topic: scorpio & libra?
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jactare
Knowflake Posts: 26
From: providence, va, USA
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted December 26, 2006 11:28 PM
 
scorpio me
libra him
what is wrong?
7 nov 73
8 oct 74please help me figure it out IP: Logged |
jactare
Knowflake Posts: 26
From: providence, va, USA
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted December 26, 2006 11:37 PM
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Grasshopper
Moderator Posts: 357
From: Missouri
Registered: May 2001
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posted December 26, 2006 11:50 PM
Wow! You waited less than nine minutes before calling out for help. I'm so sorry  Scorpios and Libras really do have the capacity for a great relationship, but it seems like I've seen more than a few go sour. Without knowing more (and I haven't done anything with your charts) I can say that the failures I've seen in the past revolve around this: In every relationship, it's not so much about who's wrong and who's right. I think a scorpio/libra relationship can be tricky, because libras tend to make so much about who's wrong and right (mainly so they can wash their own hands ... teflon those libras). Annnnd, once you suggest to a Scorpio that he or she is wrong, well, it's downhill from there. Communication is tricky because for these basic reasons, you have two people being incredibly defensive in totally different ways. Now, I'm a Leo, and my advice to everything is just to shine on with some of the sun (and I'm telling this to a Scorp, gawd I'm dumb). For instance, Libras think they love more than they ever Feel love, where a Scorp will feel love deeper and more sincerely than a libra ever will. Now, don't tell your libra this ... just go out and give him or her some of that depth and let the good times roll. Water and Air, baby ... an oceanic breeze or an empassioned Hurricane ... these can be good things  ------------------
"The reason why birds can fly and man cannot is simply that they have perfect faith; for to have faith is to have wings." ~JM Barrie IP: Logged |
jactare
Knowflake Posts: 26
From: providence, va, USA
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted December 26, 2006 11:54 PM
ahemmmm...he just packed his stuff and left...when the going got to be not quiet his idea of perfect...(I could no longer afford him) after 3 years of marriage, and almost 6 years of my life....he left! ???IP: Logged |
jactare
Knowflake Posts: 26
From: providence, va, USA
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted December 26, 2006 11:57 PM
you got it right about the love/feeling part. and he did feel the love once, I think it scared him...our love life went to crap after that. I'm about to go home...I'm at work....bored out of my gore and not really satisfied with my own answer of what happened...I'm suppose to be able to pick/choose better than that! IP: Logged |
jactare
Knowflake Posts: 26
From: providence, va, USA
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted December 27, 2006 12:00 AM
I'll be back tomorrow night....IP: Logged |
cancerrg
Knowflake Posts: 2127
From:
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted December 27, 2006 10:06 AM
there ain't any rules in love and in life .but there are certain things and among certaiin things there is astrology , which i dont think is very much favourable about this realtion between an air and a water person . my feelings and experience says , among us , the water people , pisceans are the only one who can have a healthy matrimonial relation with air people .
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Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 1824
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted December 27, 2006 10:35 AM
Yeah I agree with that last statement CG, scorpio and cancer are too stubborn to "adjust" to an air person while pisceans are mutable and change to fit anybody. IP: Logged |
jactare
Knowflake Posts: 26
From: providence, va, USA
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted December 27, 2006 05:54 PM
hmmmmm..what about scorpio & tarus?
or scorpio and virgo?IP: Logged |
jactare
Knowflake Posts: 26
From: providence, va, USA
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted December 27, 2006 10:39 PM
thank you for the input...it has been very helpful for me... at least I have some 'reason' for occurances in my life.
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7667
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted December 28, 2006 04:04 AM
What about Scorpio and anyone......?????!!!!!!!I was married to a Libra....it was a total mismatch My Scorpio grandad was married to my Libra grandmother...he was very warm and affectionate, she was kind but somewhat cold physically. He had affairs. They seemed to be totally different. He was outgoing and flambouyant, she reserved and timid. I am now married to a Virgo for a long time. He is the most stable relationship I ever had......but we are not totally compatible... My advice.....work hard and long on yourself before expecting anything wonderful from another..I always looked to the man for comfort, reassurance etc. It doesnt work like that always.. I had to take off my rosy tinted specs where love was concerned....and if I am honest, it was a long time in coming.... I love being a Scorp, but it is very challenging....we live in a different dimension, dont we?  x IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
Knowflake Posts: 738
From: tucson, AZ, US
Registered: Jul 2006
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posted December 28, 2006 04:41 PM
It's good physically but emotionally it can be a test(had a couple of Scorp boyfriends). My parent are a Libra/Scorpio combo my Mom being the Scorpio and dad being the Libra. I think my Mom was wayyyyy to intense for my dad, she took things more seriously than my dad and that was a problem. They fought like crazy, let me tell you it was rough. Both love oriented signs, but in the end it's hard to see eye to eye.------------------
Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer I "FEEL" therefor I am IP: Logged |
Sweet Stars
Knowflake Posts: 288
From: New York City
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted December 28, 2006 05:15 PM
It can work depending on the chart.
Look at Rachel McAdams and Ryan Gosling.
They've been together for what 3 years now? They live together and are gonna get married.
She's a Libra with Venus in Scorpio.
He's a Scorpio with Venus in Libra 
It's not only about the Sun sign!
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Cancer Ascendant
Mercury Gemini
Taurus Moon *29
Venus Taurus
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