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Topic: Pls help- I feel rather "torn" between these two men
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D for Defiant Knowflake Posts: 1295 From: Registered: May 2006
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posted January 06, 2007 10:22 PM
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Dew Knowflake Posts: 129 From: UK Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 07, 2007 10:12 AM
D, what answer do you expect from us here? Have you made up your mind and are just looking for reinforcement? We can give you a straight up astrological answer...but then it isnt enough right? You cant say whose compatible with you solely based on the stars.In matters of the heart, the only way to really know is to be vulnerable. But that doesnt need to be painful!! I say just date the two guys and see who tickles ur fancy more.
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D for Defiant Knowflake Posts: 1295 From: Registered: May 2006
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posted January 07, 2007 11:32 AM
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Dew Knowflake Posts: 129 From: UK Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 07, 2007 12:25 PM
Maybe its because I used the word 'reinforcement'?!!! Really, I didnt mean to pi$$ you off. I was trying to be...I dunno....direct, straightforward, non-BS, thought provoking.You know there are some questions you ask even though you know what it is you desire. Sometimes its nice to have confirmation that you are making the right choice. Thats why I asked. Although, reinforcement is an ugly word. It makes it sound like you are a building or something!! Peace?
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D for Defiant Knowflake Posts: 1295 From: Registered: May 2006
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posted January 08, 2007 01:05 AM
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sue g Knowflake Posts: 8591 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 08, 2007 05:49 AM
DWerent you with an Aqua man? * * * * Dew You seem calm and level headed....any Libra in your chart? IP: Logged |
D for Defiant Knowflake Posts: 1295 From: Registered: May 2006
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posted January 08, 2007 06:15 AM
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sue g Knowflake Posts: 8591 From: former land of the leprechaun Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 08, 2007 08:44 AM
DJust a thought..... Before you run away with your emotions, just take a break from writing and then come back when you feel calmer. Some people get a weird kick out of lashing into others. but I dont think you are one of them... You just get carried away sometimes... And at least unlike some others, you are learning... IP: Logged |
miss_muffet Knowflake Posts: 611 From: Registered: Mar 2004
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posted January 09, 2007 07:46 AM
This advise might come a little late since it looks like you have chosen... but... I totally sympathize with you D. It's not easy choosing between these two. The second guy has his Mercury conjunct yours. This energy will feel like the two of you seem to have the same thought process - to a point where no words needed to be spoken. It's like telepathy almost... you think alike, just "get" each other like noone else can. You also have Venus conjunction. This indicates that the way you express and feel love is very similar. These are two great aspects in a relationship. Lots in common in those angles. Then, you also have his Mars conjunct your Sun. Wow. Very nice indeed. There are a lot of nice aspects in this match. Energy matches. The first guy and you also have a lot of nice aspects. To begin with, you have a Sun-Moon conjunction which is one of the best in any relationship. To boot it off, your ASC conjuncts his Sun and his Venus Conjuncts your Moon AND Mars. If this is not an awesome match, then I don't believe there is one. Now, in my humble opinion, (all things being equal; i.e., both have good jobs, both treat you well, etc) for the long run, I would go with the first guy. The second guy seem very earthy. This might be such an attraction for you right now when the relationship is just starting, but might not be so attractive when you want to go out and have fun with friends and he's too busy at work (he's a Cappy, afterall). The only thing to remember D, is that you are soooo blessed. I am sure a lot of people would give a right arm to meet just one guy that matches you so well, let alone two! I only pray that you are wise enough to decide and then strong enough to stick to your decision. I mean, you wouldn't want to lose them both... due to mis-step... Truly and sincerely, MM
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D for Defiant Knowflake Posts: 1295 From: Registered: May 2006
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posted January 10, 2007 06:14 AM
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D for Defiant Knowflake Posts: 1295 From: Registered: May 2006
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posted January 11, 2007 03:18 AM
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