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Topic: Love Is Being There
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Gooberzlostlovefound
Knowflake Posts: 1140
From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake
Registered: Jan 2002
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posted January 15, 2007 07:48 PM
 
When was somebody really there for you?When were you really there for somebody else? What nice thing do you wish somebody would do for you right now? What nice thing could you do for somebody else right now?  IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 4906
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted January 16, 2007 12:48 AM
That's very nice.
I'd have to think on that for a little while, and while I am thinking, I'll bump this!IP: Logged |
D for Defiant
Knowflake Posts: 1242
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Registered: May 2006
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posted January 16, 2007 03:56 AM
Good questions, Gooberzlostlovefound 
Q: When was somebody really there for you?
A: When that somebody protected me against a certain kind of external forces attempting to transform my life forever for worse- he prevented that from happening, upon his gentle, quiet but firm insistence.
Q: When were you really there for somebody else?
A: When he was having trouble remembering how to write a specific word while demonstrating his assignment- he needed a hint or clues and I was trying to help him with that word- but that doesn't count, does it?! I think I've always been on the receiving end so far... Q: What nice thing do you wish somebody would do for you right now? A: Mmm...nothing, at the moment. As long as he takes good care of himself. I'd love to see him happy. I don't want to see him unhappy. That's all I know. But in the future...I hope he could become more at ease with human emotion and sexual desire- he's got lots of air and he hasn't been into those...I believe we will still have the chance to be in each other's presence more harmoniously. Q: What nice thing could you do for somebody else right now? A: I can try to dilute my emotional intensity somehow, and improve out interactions enormously. IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8581
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 16, 2007 07:09 AM
I was there for my Dad when my mum passed and still am...he tells me I am the only one he can talk to. We have an understanding, both emotional, both passionate and compassionate.And am here for our son when he struggles...he says "you are the only one i can talk to...what would I do without you mum". Kindreds for sure. I am here for my husand who is going through a rough time...I help him as much as I can. Hug him, sit and talk with him....make him coffee and meals etc. He says "i know you are there for me" Am here for a friend who needs me....he opens up to me like he cant to another....he says I soothe him I am there for my clients when they ask for healing. I listen and try to help with words and touch. A friend was here for me when our house almost burned down and I was in total shock...she came in and sat with me and talked....it was a huge help I would like someone to be here for me more, but I figure I am able to help more than I can take. Would love someone to take me in their arms and totally embrace me for who I am....someone who didnt need to change me, or feel overwhelmed by me.....please God And I would like to do the same to another..... But real life isnt ideal....things get tough and our needs arent always fulfilled.... But.... Love is being there, albeit that its very challenging at times   IP: Logged |
mezzoelf1
Knowflake Posts: 74
From: Somerset, England, UK
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted January 16, 2007 09:49 AM
I am there for the children I teach everyday - despite the fact that they annoy, frustrate, upset and entertain me in equal measure. I love them all (430 odd of them) and pray they have a better future than some of their pasts. I would do anything for family and friends. I pray daily for all lost souls to find some peace and happiness IP: Logged |
Gooberzlostlovefound
Knowflake Posts: 1140
From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake
Registered: Jan 2002
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posted January 17, 2007 05:03 AM
thank you
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GeminiLover75
Knowflake Posts: 1139
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Registered: Apr 2006
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posted January 17, 2007 05:18 AM
When was somebody really there for you?
Online, BUD is always there for me. I love her! 
In real life... my bf's sister, who straight away rushed into town on a bus from the other end of town when I had a fight with my bf... and then offered to come back again at like midnight when I felt upset again!When were you really there for somebody else?
Online, I am there for BUD whenever she needs me...
In real life, when I made a beautiful young lady finally realise that she could no longer put up with physical and emotional abuse from her bf... took her to the police to report him, stayed with her while she filed a report and took her to stay with her mother. I was there at just the right time. What nice thing do you wish somebody would do for you right now?
... wholeheartedly say they are sorry and actually mean it. What nice thing could you do for somebody else right now?
There's no one here with me or awake that I could do anything nice for... sad. :-| IP: Logged |
themysteryclub
Knowflake Posts: 282
From: United States of America
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted January 17, 2007 05:37 PM
My boyfriend was really there for me when I read him one of my poems..a huge risk that was painful to take. My mother was there for me when I was suffering so terribly..every time I have suffered terribly. I was really there for someone else when they were having a bad moment..I made them a sandwhich, lit them a candle, and hugged them. I brought them a peice of my mothers homemade pie the next day...I have been there for those that wish to share their suffering. Everyone has been very nice to me today...but I wish that somebody would tell me that they believe in my dancing, that I am a strong dancer and person. I could write a letter to my best friend right now..I could clean up the downstairs living room for my mom how interesting  IP: Logged |
ALeonine
Knowflake Posts: 209
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Registered: Apr 2006
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posted January 18, 2007 07:54 AM
When was somebody really there for you?When I was in school and living with my parents, my parents were always there for me, more in a way my Dad has always been there for me. even to this day I know that no matter what I always have my parent's house to goto When were you really there for somebody else?
I was/am always there for my fiancé.
I was there with him when he was passing through a difficult stage of his life. What nice thing do you wish somebody would do for you right now? Get me chocolate mousse cake  What nice thing could you do for somebody else right now? I am always there for people who need me, I am there with them in their happiness and also when they are sad, and need to vent out.
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geminstone
Knowflake Posts: 998
From: Golden, CO
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted January 18, 2007 02:51 PM
... aww.. Sue g... if you'll have the 'arms' of the heart, then my warmest of hugs therein hold you... for all you are I've actually always admired you,
...and thank you GLLF  , for the opportunity to finally tell you that Sue  ~ geminstone IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 8581
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 18, 2007 02:56 PM
geminstonehow beautiful.... thanks for the offer...I will take it.... and you too are a very special woman.... thanks  to you xx IP: Logged |
Gooberzlostlovefound
Knowflake Posts: 1140
From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake
Registered: Jan 2002
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posted January 19, 2007 01:08 AM
These are beautiful responses..........IP: Logged |
Gooberzlostlovefound
Knowflake Posts: 1140
From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake
Registered: Jan 2002
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posted January 19, 2007 01:12 AM
you're welcome, geminstone by the way it's good to see you around
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HappilyJinxed
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: Neverland, India
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted March 08, 2007 01:25 PM
Q) When was somebody really there for you?
A) My friend, call her S, was there for me like 24X7 when I broke up with my bf last year...
And when my next bf broke up with me, another friend of mine, lets call him D, was there for me whenever I needed someone to talk to, just bcz I dint want to be alone...
And my then friend, now bf, was really there for me for my third and fourth thesis evaluation last semester...I cudnt have done it without him! And my darling sis, has always always been there for me, no matter wot!Q) When were you really there for somebody else?
A) I was really there for my friend S when she was going through really tough times with her bf. I was really there for my mom when she was in the hospital and was really ill. And I think I am really there for my bf, helping him in every way I can think of to prepare for an important upcoming interview... Q) What nice thing do you wish somebody would do for you right now?
A) I just wish my bf would be a little more expressive and just for once talk about his feelings for me. Q) What nice thing could you do for somebody else right now?
A) I really really wish I could help my mom get over her phase of being sullen and unhappy. It breaks my heart to see her like that. And I wish I could get myself to say sorry to my bf and really really mean it ------------------
Keep smiling, it makes people wonder what you're up to :) IP: Logged |
Scorpio Chick
Knowflake Posts: 44
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Registered: Jun 2006
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posted March 08, 2007 02:35 PM
When was somebody really there for you?My sweet aunt Debbie, lovely Pisces. We talked a few weeks ago and she was so inspiring to me and listened to me like no one else in such a long time. I felt refreshed after our conversation. When were you really there for somebody else? I think I encouraged my mom in her journey back to school. What nice thing do you wish somebody would do for you right now? I wish a really nice mechanic would offer me a free oil change. Or a new car, lol. What nice thing could you do for somebody else right now? I could call a friend and check up on her.
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