posted January 17, 2007 09:48 PM         

No sooner than my tears dried did I meet a NEW ARIES guy!

He's attractive, intelligent, outgoing(he followed me down 6 city blocks to talk to me), successful, mature, wants all the same things I want in a relationship(friendship first, possibly leading to marriage, fidelity, etc.), and he's PURSUING ME VERY AGGRESSIVELY!!! lol

It's just sooooooo funny how things work out.

I'm going to take my time and see what happens with him.

But just for those who worry that they won't get what they want in a person:

Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it. (and sooner than you expected )

posted January 18, 2007 10:30 AM         

How very exciting....enjoy the ride girl......he sounds fab!!!!

posted January 19, 2007 07:16 PM         

Oh, and may the force be with you as well.

sue g - thanks for the encouragement girl!! And exciting doesn't even cover it. Either I'm sending out all kinds of vibes or MysticMelody's kind thoughts are seriously kicking butt! Cuz I'm meeting all kinds of guys nowadays. It's amazing!

Maybe I just had to let go of the old to allow the new to come to me.

Ooooh, that was deep.

posted January 28, 2007 06:52 PM         

Sorry for the delay, my girl had a stomach bug so I've been busy. All better now though.

The "New Aries" is turning into "Old Aries #2" lol. He was getting a bit annoying with the phone calls and trying to get me to go over his house or trying to come over mine. I don't move that fast. Also, I think he wanted me to pursue him. He kept telling me about how all these women wanted him and threw themselves at him.

That sort of thing doesn't phase me cuz I go through the same thing with guys except I don't usually talk about it. But I think he may have been trying to make me want to pursue him. He kept trying to get me to call him more, but I'm not doing that. I'm kinda old fashioned and I figure if a guy likes me, he'll call. Well, I guess he's getting tired of me not blowing up his phone cuz he hasn't called me in a few days.

If we never talk again, meh. I don't care.

posted January 28, 2007 07:53 PM         

I don't like to be the chaser either.
I like the chasee role better.
I don't mind calling a guy... but it just seems to mean more when they call me...
I know i am on their mind..
Especially in the beginning.

So yeah, "hard to get" is good...

Sorry to hear about your daughter
Can't think of anybody better than a Virgo mother when someone they love is sick
Glad she's feeling better.
There has been sooo much going around lately.
I don't know where you live, but winter has officially arrived here.
Up until a few weeks ago it was fairly warm.
Trees were budding and stuff at Christmas.
The back and forth with the temps makes the bugs more numerous....

posted February 04, 2007 02:16 PM         

I've tried to reply on *3* different occasions but for some reason I keep ending up with a blank screen and no added post to show for my typing.

Going to try this one more time though.

I'm happy to be the "chasee" especially when you want the "chaser" to chase you. But it's not so much fun when you don't(more on that later).

My girl is all better, but now my boy is sick. Meh, what can you do? It's that time of year. At least they held out past the holidays, that's a new record. lol

That's sweet what you said about having a Virgo mother. My girl is a Leo and is learning. She can be so sweet and thoughtful sometimes it surprises me. I'm hoping one day her own kids will say about her what you said about Virgo moms.

I'm in Pennsylvania so it's officially winter here too. Every winter I look up Hawaiian real estate and fantasize. lol

I feel a vent coming on so I'll post it in the next reply.

posted February 04, 2007 02:32 PM         

Ok, I've exchanged numbers and talked with quite a few guys lately. It's been fun and interesting but nothing serious.

The old Aries is still calling me. A lot. More than he ever called me when we WERE talking. That ish is seriously p*ssing me off. He doesn't leave a message either. Ugh.

I know there's nothing new.

I know he isn't trying to come around and offer me some sort of relationship or anything of the sort. I'm guessing if he actually HAD something to say he would leave a message show up at my door. But instead he just calls. I don't answer.

I'm torn though.

Every time he calls it brings up sooooo many different feelings .

I'll be angry that he called with nothing to say, happy that I didn't answer, sad that he doesn't want anything with me, hurt that as much as I loved him(and still do ) he either never loved me or does and doesn't care how his actions affect me.

It kills me cuz I never felt this strongly about anyone before him or after. I never wanted to kill someone -AND- have babies and live 'happily ever after' with them. I never wanted to do whatever I could to help someone else excell all the way to the stars -AND- tear them down until they're under the ground.

I can get over anything and anyone with lightning speed if they just get the heck out of my life!! But he won't go away!!!

I don't know what to do. I kinda want to cuss him out, but I know it won't do anything. He'll still call. He'll still act like it's because he cares even though if he cared he'd be there for me in a way that's good for me -or- he'd go away when I asked him too. I also don't want to give him any attention the same way you don't give a kid throwing a tantrum attention. I feel like that's all he's doing.

He doesn't want anything with me, but he doesn't want me out of his life. He wants me within arms length. His arms. Which are longer than mine, so he can reach me and take from me what he wants, but I can't reach him or get anything from him.

I'd change my phone # but it's so easy to find numbers now-a-days I feel like it would be a waste of energy. Plus I don't want him to know he got to me so deeply that I had to change the number.

I don't know what to do. It's making me crazy.

sigh.

posted February 05, 2007 04:50 PM         

I feel the same way about someone.
The love/hate relationship is the worst!!!
I know there has gotta be something better!

***"He doesn't want anything with me, but he doesn't want me out of his life. He wants me within arms length. His arms. Which are longer than mine, so he can reach me and take from me what he wants, but I can't reach him or get anything from him."****

This too!! Great day in the morning!!!!
That was the perfect way to put it!!!
I think you are right! He's just messin with you! If he had something to say, especially being an Aries, he would! Via message or in person!

I'm to tired to play those games!
If I'm playing...its for keeps!

posted February 05, 2007 05:53 PM         

I wouldn't wish these sorts of feelings on anyone else.

I just want a "normal" love. lol

You know, the kind where **2** people love each other and aren't playing games and eventually they either get married and live happily ever after(or boringly ever after) -or- they just date until they get bored with each other and end up friends.

I would settle for something that ended in boredom or just plain ENDED! This dragging crap out is torture for me!!!