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posted January 24, 2007 04:53 PM         

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Pid, CapGirl, thanks for your comments. They helped to an extent. I'm just overwhelmed by sh*t right now and I'm projecting.

CG - I know you're right. Believe me, you're not the first to say that to me. I just never seem to take the advice! Men are just such a weakness for me. Don't know why. I'm addicted to drama I think. Oh well, maybe I'll never change. I always say..."know your faults, and embrace them!"

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posted January 24, 2007 06:26 PM         

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What did he mean by this "He called me after that, and said although it was moving and strange for him as well...there really wasn't much he could do about it."

Is there another woman in the picture or does he live an incredible distance from you?

I have found that when my mind keeps dwelling on a past relationship it is because there was something missing from the closure process. Once that missing piece is found, then I no longer dwell on it. Sometimes it is as simple as saying "I'm sorry for hurting you" and other times it is as complicated as trying to find out where the relationship began to deteriorate.

Are you sure you can handle only "friendship" with him? The last time you said you were convinced he was your soul mate. Is there a possibility it is about "the one that got away". For example, if he showed an absolute interest in getting back together do you think you would rethink the soulmate issue and even not want to be close friends?

It is very complex I'm afraid. With most of my exes I retained a friendship but as time went on we moved on- as friendships often do. There were two main ones with men that knew me well, but friendship was not an option. It is my philosophy that no matter how strong the friendship was or how well someone knows me - a betrayal or a string of them will prove they didn't care at all and therefore I don't want or need their friendship.

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posted January 24, 2007 08:38 PM         

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Honestly, my advice is that you take some time to focus on you and be without a guy for a while... Seems like you're scrambling through one guy after another with no down time to recover. I hope you don't mind my saying this. I just know about your Taurus man history... then Scorpio... on to Pisces, back to Gemini. etc. Just some bluntness from a fellow Cap.

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posted January 25, 2007 11:55 AM         

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Hey, girl - email me if want. I read this and wondered if we've been living the same life - I think we react to things much the same. Hang in there.

CK

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posted January 25, 2007 01:50 PM         

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CK - I'd love to email, I think we have a lot of parallels as well. Don't have the address though...

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posted January 25, 2007 02:52 PM         

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CC, i thought it was on my profile, but apparently even if you say publish it your email address, they don't.

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posted January 26, 2007 04:50 PM         

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CC- It will get better. I wish there was something we (or I) could do to help you. We are here to listen should you need to vent.

~Pidaua

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posted January 30, 2007 08:23 PM         

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Oh man...does this guy have Gemini Moon.....I just broke it off with a taurus with Gemini Moon...he WONT LET there be closure. He likes to keep people hanging on. WellI closed it for him...said I was sorry in a christmas card along with his car keys. But listwen..if this guy is Taurus/Gemini...run away...make your closure and run away. LOLLL They arnt for keeps...they are just players. They are not liek other Taurus men.

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posted January 30, 2007 08:27 PM         

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HAve you read Carolyn Reynolds Book Of Lovers...she covers all the Sun/ Moon combos fpr men and women..its a very to-the-point practical application of astrology...and in my experience...she's not just whisling dixie..shes pretty much "on the money" Anyway..its a quick reliable guide for when one is pondering any relationship. I wish i had pondered it more before i got swept away. Sheeesh. LOL

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posted January 30, 2007 08:44 PM         

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CrabbyFish~ Can you say what it says about Cap sun/ Sag. moon? That's both of us- him & I.

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posted February 01, 2007 01:46 PM         

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Oh...I thought he was a TAurus...well..Im not in my own house...so dont have the book with me...I will let you though. And its a great little book to keep around...Linda Goodman thought well of her...she is the one who wrote the Rising Signs for Linda's Relationship Signs book. ( Carolyn Reynolds) She also has a web page. But she's currently writing another book right now..so shes not there.

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posted February 01, 2007 01:49 PM         

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http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ISBN%3D0875422896/ocampaA/

By the way CrankyCap...Carolyn Reynolds is ALSO Sun Cap/ MoonSag.

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posted February 01, 2007 02:28 PM         

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Hey CrabbyFish~~ You're confusing me with CrankyCap. Sorry for the mixup. Her guy is Taurus.

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posted February 01, 2007 02:46 PM         

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CF - I think you're getting me confused with CapGirl. She's the Cap-Sag with a Cap-Sag man. I'm a Cap-Pisces. The original post I placed here DID have to do with a Taurean that I dated for 2 1/2 years, and that I'm TRYING to attempt a friendship with now, almost 4 years after we broke up. The whole thing had me a little anxious at first, but now I could take it or leave it. I knew exactly what I was doing when I contacted him again after so long. He has been "the one that got away" for so many years, that it's almost comforting for me to feel that I'm not over him...if that makes any sense. When things crumbled with the Pisces I was seeing, I sought out the Taurus because I honestly wanted to know whether or not he had been "trumped" by the Pisces. I also figured that if I could bring the Taurus back into my mind, I could bypass the grieving period for the Pisces all together. Things don't work that way though, and it does seem (I think) that Mr. Taurus has been trumped...after nearly 4 years and countless dates and boyfriends, it was one little fish man that did it in a time span of only 3 months. I WILL get over him, but not as quickly as I was hoping to.

As for the Taurus, there is SO much history between us, mutual respect, and a deep understanding of eachother, that I would love to be friends with him. It seemed that he was quite optimistic about it as well at first, and we were emailing back and forth for about a week but then he disappeared again...don't know if I said something to pi*s him off or what. Who knows. We'll see if I hear from him again...

He's not a Taurus-Gem - he's a Taurus sun, moon, and mercury with venus and mars in Aries. Probably the least complicated man I've ever met. Everything's black and white with him. Still, he was a player too, so it's not just the Gem mooners...

I'm also VERY familiar with Carolyn Reynold's book. That was my FAVORITE book for the longest time! That thing was like my bible! I brought it to work with me a few months ago though, and haven't been able to find it since! I miss it! Guess I'll have to get another copy off of Amazon...

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