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sthenri
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posted January 27, 2007 09:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
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Xodian
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posted January 27, 2007 11:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message
Me personally; I have one philosophy... Never show lack of confidence Lol! Even if it means fake it till ya make it.

Confidence is a total turn on. Its something that naturally attracts another being on the premise that you have enough self worth to know who you are and nothing can change that . That is an obvious sign of strength and its something a life-partner generally would desire in you.

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hippichick
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posted January 27, 2007 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
I see it as an expression of the soul~~~

I would and do, go with the flow...go with what you are feeling at the moment~~~

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Happy Dragon
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posted January 27, 2007 11:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
~ natasha ~

moon transits maybe .. as you have cancerian moon ..
cancer is a bit like that .. very changeable looks wise ...
.. just thinking about an ex-neighbour .. cancer sun ..
some days she would look fantastic .. other days quite the opposite ..
maybe her moods reflected in her face ( don't know her chart just the sun sign)
.. other cancer suns seem to exhibit a similar trait ..

i get like that with my cancer asc .. somedays feel ok on that level ..
other days i just don't wan't to look in the mirror ..

transiting moon at this moment is conjunct your sun ..
just about to conjoin your descendant ..
so should be a good feel-factor for the day ..
.. t.moon also trines natal urans..
( sunday and monday it transverses your 7th house )
that's apart from t.Jup conjunct your mars and
t.venus squares the sun .. t.mars opposes lillith ..

so maybe the moon transit as it's the shorter term one ..
just a suggestion .. keep an eye on your moon transits ..
you may notice things re-your query ..

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sthenri
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posted January 27, 2007 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
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OzMeg222
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posted January 27, 2007 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message
How weird I feel those moods too. It obviously affects the people around me because sometimes I don't even realise I feel beautiful that day until I catch other people looking at me, especially men lol. I can be dressed like a bum but it doesn't seem to matter.

Other days I feel so fat and ugly people don't even notice me, they look right through me. I was like that every day for almost 7 years with my ex, I thought it was because I'd gotten fat but it was just how I felt that was showing on the outside.

I don't let how I feel I look stop me from going anywhere though cos if I feel I look good I get the attention I deserve and if I don't nobody notices me anyway.

I've been told I get a glow about me. Weird.

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themysteryclub
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posted January 27, 2007 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for themysteryclub     Edit/Delete Message
Just by holding my chin up and looking at the people around me I get attention right back...even if I feel like I look like a worn-out dish rag.

I often experience the same thing! Somedays I feel gorgeous, and somedays I feel average, at best. I am a cancer sun and moon, with sag rising as well.

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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted January 27, 2007 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
Ill be honest and say there are times when I just feel like crap and then there are times im on top of the world. Usually at random intervals. Last time Venus was conj my ASC i felt i was the prettiest thing on earth (ok im not that narcissistic but you know what i mean). In High School i believed openess is good and just acted how i felt. In college i more developed Xodian's philosophy.

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Me personally; I have one philosophy... Never show lack of confidence Lol! Even if it means fake it till ya make it.

And i will second him on that. Never show lack of confidence. Even if you feel like crap and everything goes wrong, go out and act like you are on top of the world. If you act like it others will believe it and when others believe it so will you. But i definately understand, we all have such days, its quite natural.

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InLoveWithLife
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posted January 28, 2007 01:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for InLoveWithLife     Edit/Delete Message
i feel that way about myself too!!! but it has more to do with the state of my hair than any moon transits my hair makes a lot of difference to the way i look.

but the main thing is to remember who you are from inside. i dont think i can ever fake it. i sort of convince myself tht it doesn't matter bcoz i am who i am.

but i can definitely relate to 'must be seen' and 'can't be seen' moods

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Happy Dragon
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posted January 28, 2007 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
*Natasha* ... hi

.. I'm looking in to it .. i.e. trying to figure it .. i.e that's re the post subject and your chart ..
for mr.pisces stomach upset .. well from the 15th 'till the 29th he had a minor aspect from Saturn to his natal Venus ..( post edit 1/30/07.. aspect dates corrected due to miscalculation .. apologies .. ~ hd ~ )
a 'tetranovile' .. and i don't quite know what that is .. but shall do some more research ..
.. when venus squares your sun .. it conjoins his .. ( your suns are square ) .. and also venus when it squares your sun will .. by default .. also square your 12th h. neptune ..
as to the good bad and the ugly .. will look into it .. ( apart from the moons travels) .. i was just looking at the 27th transits ( ie the post date) .. t.mars is opposing natal lillith .. so that means it's about to oppose your moon ..

so at the moment i'm not sure what to look for re the post subject .. well .. surely t.Venus must play a part ..
am thinking down those lines as madame.v be the taur ruler ..

not too long back A.G. posted a thread regarding a mood he was going thru .. it related to t.venus aspecting his natal chiron ( i think .. as i've lost the bookmark at mo. ) .. a couple of days later t.venus opposed my natal uranus .. and .. by default she transits over the wide grand cross in my chart .. so i followed it and wrote down the sequence .. she aspects uranus then venus then chiron then sat-nept .. .. when she aspected natal venus by square i came down with ( i assume) was a minor virus for that day .. .. anyhow t.venus has a cycle of about a year around the zodiac wheel .. i figured that i get that opposition to natal uranus either nov/dec or jan .. depending on the year ( sort of explained a few things re my moods over x-mas new year period on many occasions ) ..

*re post subject* .. maybe if you could notify .. either on the forum .. or email .. when you feel that way .. i could look at your chart and maybe figure what the pattern is ( is it frequent ?? i.e. a few times per month .. or more? .. or less? ) .. i.e. re notification .. just an "u.g." will suffice or some other abreviation .. i say that 'cause when i get those really bad days i don't even feel like switching on the computer .. never mind trying to write anything .. :-))

i guess tommorow till mon. i get to see if my moon-mood theory is right ( well . 'Z pointed it out to me one day re. a moon 'void of course .. so have been taking notice of the moon cycles since .. but i think the moon and venus operate differently in a guys chart .. so am still trying to brain-munch the info as i watch and feel the transits ) .. only thing i've noticed recently is that as she transits my 11th house .. i do a bit of LL posting/replying ..

anyhow i'll get back here later as i'm shutting this comp. down for a few hours or more ..

take it easy .. ok ..

'later
~ HD ~

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Happy Dragon
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posted January 28, 2007 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
.. hey moody k.f's :-))
.. an idea ..

i have a couple of charts here ..Terri and ILWL .. but if you fancy trying to suss moody days ..
post the day or days you feel 'moody' and/or 'not feeling most beautiful' .. with birth data .. ( preferably not chart img )
.. just a short notification will do as to how long the mood lasted .. hours or days .. ( in another thread if preferable to you all .. whichever) .. and i'll take a look at what's going on that day re. transits .. (it could be midpoints which i cannot calculate on the moment) .. and maybe we can figure the astro info behind the moods .. .. the moon transits btw only last a few hours so one has to be quick .. so maybe a brief (or otherwise ) notification .. and i will try and write down notes .. ( and maybe find a conclusion to the query of moody/ugly days ) .. it may take a while .. as it means gathering info for a month regarding the moons transits .. and other transits have to be taken into consideration .

~ HD ~

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Dulce Luna
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posted January 28, 2007 01:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message
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Has anyone had days where they felt really ugly , and had days where they felt beautiful? I mean really believed that this was the day they couldn't be seen, or the day they must be seen?

I think everyone has those days...especially me with vain venus in the 5th!

Like I've been having fat days all week and low and behold, its my time of the month.

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Happy Dragon
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posted January 28, 2007 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
quicki Moon report:
6:58pm gmt .. wow what a buzz .. just got out of nice hot shower .. put some music on the cd player ( jackson browne "the naked ride home") .. got really emotional listening to it .. tears in eyes .. but a real High feel .. the music volume slowly went up .. feel really Up .. manic dash up to the computer .. check transits .. t.Moon 00.38 before conjoining natal mars ( gemini 11th ) and not too far off sextiling natal venus ( aries 9th ) .. super feel to it :-)) .. ends 9am tomorrow :-() .. hah .. maybe some nice dreams tonight :-) ..
a musical evening for moi methinks .. :-)

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Mama Mia
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posted January 29, 2007 10:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
I had those feelings, but only in the cold blustery winter here in Chicago. I don't feel as attractive as I do in the spring and summer. Only thing I feel really beautiful when the sun sets in Pisces no matter what the weather is. But before that or after that when its cold really cold I feel like the ugly duckling..

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Happy Dragon
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posted January 29, 2007 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
... just a notification ...
transiting Lillith is currently at 11 deg Libra

( EDIT 2nd Jan '07 )
i.e. transiting Lillith square N's natal Moon
.. and conjuct P's natal Mars ..
by feb 12th .. Lillith has advanced one degree to 12 deg Libra ..

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hippichick
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posted January 29, 2007 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
Wow..

Mia~~~

"Only thing I feel really beautiful when the sun sets in Pisces no matter what the weather is."

Just had to say that statement struck me as SO beautiful.....


Terri

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InLoveWithLife
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posted January 29, 2007 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for InLoveWithLife     Edit/Delete Message
hey HD, i have noticed a correlation between my moods and the moon's phase. i am mostly in an upbeat mood when moon is waxing, and have irrational irritability/depression when it wanes. not tht my mood won't ever be off when the mood is waxing. but it wud be with a good reason. and pass over soon.

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Mama Mia
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posted January 29, 2007 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Hey Hippi My Pisces sister whats up???

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hippichick
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posted January 29, 2007 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
Pisces Princess~~~

Am well~~~

Blessings....

Terri

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