posted January 28, 2007 09:59 PM         

things have been pretty darn healthy during all of our seperations. conflicts are very low. stresses very low. the only stressor is just figuring out how we can make 3500 mile distance nothing for good. we talk everyday on skype at least. I am happy with her, to be with her. I find it more fulfilling than a relationship where the girl is in close proximity (I have been in three prior to this).

this has been as good of a relationship as one can be. yes she can nit pick. yes I don't pay attention to detail as much as this virgo moon would like. but we love each other for our faults.

I love this girl.

posted January 30, 2007 08:59 AM         

The distance between you causes a longing, a yearning....

If you were together all the time, this may disappear somewhat...

Do you in part, like the yearning...?

Arent you a Scorpio and she a Taurus?

posted January 31, 2007 07:30 AM         

You can dissect your relationship's trials and tribulations when your partner is in the next room.
Likewise, you can feel more distanced even at a close proximity.
I've been loving this relationship you've posted since you started talking about it.
You make a lovely couple, and just imperfect enough to give it a great go!

I am rooting from the sidelines, I can't help it.

posted January 31, 2007 10:46 AM         

Just hang in there until you graduate.

I always thought that if two fixed signs could develop the bond, it would take something pretty incredible to shake it.

Also, I have to be nosey and ask... What did you decide on for the Christmas gift?

posted February 01, 2007 02:12 AM         

Anyways, I keep thinking back to that one moment where we were in each others arms at the airport after two months in august and again in december. Those moments alone make the distance worth it. I also remember the first time we were apart, for just two weeks (a time I sometimes forget). she had just come back from seeing san francisco. she knocked on my door and we just hugged intensly forever. before this, things were uncertian as to weather we would countinue once she left the country. Our meeting that day, is an interesting fated story in fact if anyone is interested, otherwise I won't bore you with the details. but we found our anwser in that hug! we realized a lot, including how much we missed each other. Its one of her favorite memories, just leaping into my arms and hugging for more than an hour.

TDS, that’s a phish song btw isn't it. One of my faves.

Sue:
you are correct and we are stubborn as h-e-l-l though we don't like to admit it in front of each other. Its a running joke for us to say the other is more stubborn. It’s a running joke of our mutual friends as well to say either: a. "I know who is more stubborn but I am not telling" (started by our lovely cancer friend) or b. you two act like such a married couple.

Pixie:
thanks so much for your kind words they made me smile ! when we first met in march that’s how I would describe our time together - magical..well, surreal, than magical.

posted February 01, 2007 03:45 PM         

Thought and feeling was put into it. Good job!

posted February 04, 2007 11:09 PM         

Now I have to remember to ask her how she feels about Vday. I keep remembering that I need to ask her that. But I never remember when I am talking to her.

posted February 05, 2007 02:50 PM         

I won't buy cards because I've yet to find one that really expresses what I mean. I sort of find them cheesey Plus, I've never been good with words, so the one's that you have to write your own message in, isn't really an option.

However, you're right in asking your Taurus friend what "she" thinks about it. She might get hurt if you ignore it.

As much as my Capricorn friend and I are indifferent towards the Holiday, I'll still use it as an excuse to go out to dinner.

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Scorpio sun, venus, mars, mercury, and uranus
Libra moon, pluto, and asc.

posted February 05, 2007 04:28 PM         

Your relationship seems really sweet and pretty damned good to me. The distance doesn't matter, like you figured, it can work for you cos that annoying saying of "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" is true. Explains why marriage often begins the decline of a couple
Anyway, yeah I've known this to happen to people. My friend at the moment is dating someone she sees every fortnight (but they are just teenagers so this is relatively quite a feat!) But anywho it makes them more dying to see each other etc... maybe it helps build a better bond the longer you go on like this. Sometimes being sad when nothing is wrong for no particular reason after you've just seen the person happens, probably for the two reasons that a) Love is a mental illness, raises hormones, makes you act crazy etc and b) Goodbyes suck. You could have the best goodbye in the world and actually that would probably make it worse. On the other hand a less than perfect one is crappy too. You can't win.