posted February 09, 2007 03:27 PM
Oh I feel so dumb! I looked and looked for this topic and must've looked right over it. Sorry if you see this posted in the Labours of Love topic. Feel free to ignore it.ANYWAY... anyone have any advice about just starting out with a Virgo Sun/Scorpio Rising guy?
Some info... he's 28 and a violinist who plays with 3 symphonies in 2 states. He lives 2 hours away so I don't get to see him between dates. (We've went out 4 times since the end of December and have talked about 5 times on the phone, and last week he took me to hang out with his friends). He is a bit on the messy side - hotel room and car both have stuffed thrown askew, which is a trait of an unhappy Scorpio. Could this be the result of his (unhappy) Scorpio rising overriding his Virgo need of order?
Me - I'm 27, Scorpio sun/Gemini rising, and work in a catering office. I have some self-esteem issues (have not told him this and prefer not to), which means I can be very jealous. Again, I've worked very hard at keeping my jealousy steak in line and subdued while he is not here.
Other than that, we get along great and haven't found anything we disagree on (except whether or not Heineken is a "real" beer, lol!). So far we haven't gone further than a kiss on the cheek, which I like (my first/last bf was trying to get in my pants on the first date), but it makes me wonder if maybe he views us a just good friends (which could explain why I rarely hear from him when he's not here in town?).
So... thoughts, comments, opinons? I'd prefer to avoid any mistakes instead of learning from them, so I'd love to hear what all of you have to say.
Thanks!