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Topic: Aries sun/Gemini moon man... any ideas?
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maroon_flower Knowflake Posts: 227 From: S.E.A. Registered: Dec 2004
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posted February 10, 2007 09:58 AM
Hi y'all I usually dont post much as I'm infrequently online, but i do try to read and try to learn from the enlightening posts on Lindaland. But i'm still such a novice ...Anyhow,.. I've recently met this amazingly lovable man.. we hit it off instantly.. just so magnetic !!.. He is just so full on , a real macho man!( i guess the Aries energy coming to the front and all), loves hugging and being openly affectionate etc. Whereas, I'm a little more shy in public, but playfully intense when we're alone.. He told me that he is extremely attracted to me ( which is a pleasant surprise ) But.. I am not sure if this is merely a temporary phase for him.. as I did read that Aries + gemini tend to be restless, love the chase..and need new diversions/etc as they get bored easily. As a scorp, that can be heart wrenching! However, I do find myself caring very deeply for this man... he comes across as being very honest,no ulterior motives and I feel a desire to protect him/his ego/his ideals. Anyone care to shed some light.. I'd truly love to hear your ideas.. ............ Me........Him sun ... Scorpio....Aries moon.. pisces .... gemini merc.. scorp .... pisces venus. sag ...... pisces mars.. aries .... taurus jup ..... aqua .... leo sat..... cancer .... Aries uranus. libra .... virgo nept... sag .... scorpio pluto.. libra .... virgo asc. ...taurus.....(i think he's virgo asc) thanx so much... Alexandra IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1230 From: santa monica, california Registered: May 2005
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posted February 11, 2007 01:04 AM
It would have been better if your guy's suns and moons touched harmoniously. Scorpio and Aries seem similiar, except Aries isn't really secretive and is as penetrating. Anyhow, glad he has a Virgo ASC., and the rest of the chart is pretty earthy. If he said he is extremely attracted to you, then he means it, because Aries doesn't say anything he doesn't mean. Your guys' Moons go okay by the fact that they are both mutable so his restless nature may not bother you as much. Just saw you have a Taurus ASC...Aries and Taurus don't go too well. This attraction is obvious. Your Mars is in Aries, so you were naturally attracted to an Aries Sun. His Venus is in Pisces, and you are a Pisces Mooner. I'm sure you realized that. :] Just wanted to mention it...It's fun to see how it all matches. Strong physical attraction, as well as emotional. Don't move in a hurry though, his Aries/Gemini energy can make you nervous when he isn't sure what he's doing...so hang in there. As the relationship progresses, you will realize him being more subtle in his communication, make sure you don't come off as too direct...But I don't think that would be a big issue, because your Pisces Moon is Conjunct his Mercury/Venus...an indicator for great, smooth communication, which is probably what made you feel the 'instant' connection. I am still sort of a novice too, so that is all i can say of this... :] I'm sure others here could help you out better. Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer IP: Logged |
maroon_flower Knowflake Posts: 227 From: S.E.A. Registered: Dec 2004
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posted February 11, 2007 02:09 AM
Thanx Taurean_scorpion... That was rather insightful.. i truly appreciate it. Esp about our mutable moons.. Yup, I guess I'm hoping the pisces moon - venus/merc conjunct that we share will somehow help smoothen things a lil. I love his energy.. am just so wary about whether an aries/gemini can ever be as loyal/faithful and devoted as my deeply rooted scorpio/taurus nature requires. I dont mind a bit of lightness ( my venus in sag needs to be playful).. but, I do need to be assured of complete fidelity. I guess I'll just have to see how thigns betw us unfold... it does feel so good though to finally find a man who makes me feel/dream again.. my heart has begun to sing.. Once again, thanx for responding... Hope all's going good in ur end of the world too! Peace & Love, Alexandra IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75 Knowflake Posts: 1228 From: Registered: Apr 2006
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posted February 13, 2007 02:25 AM
Well this is a coincidence... I'm a Taurus/Scorpio and my man is a Gemini/Aries. It's reverse to yours, but it seems like the energies could be similar?Like you, he is the person who made me feel alive again. And I came along at the right time for him as he was becoming more introspective, and ready for a serious girlfriend. But I won't lie to you, over a year and a half later there have been some TOUGH times - I think, for me rather than for him. I KNOW that he's faithful and would not ever intend to cheat on me, but there's the "flirting" issue. Nothing too overt - just glances and looks usually, which I'm not so uptight about that I can't handle it every now and then (in fact at first I found it kind of eye-rolling humourous)... but in recent times it's gotten to be a constant attention-seeking device, and at one point the looks were getting a bit too suggestive, which I'm not too happy about. We're in the midst of that particular issue, and to be honest I'm not sure it can be resolved. Gemini's need to flirt vs Taurus' need for complete loyalty. It's actually turned into something like a miniature war between us! (And yet he wouldn't like it if I did the same thing to him - we're BOTH Venus in Gemini, so it's not as if I'm not a natural flirt myself - I just have more loyalty than to flirt around while in a relationship). Anyway good luck with your man! He sounds fun! IP: Logged |
maroon_flower Knowflake Posts: 227 From: S.E.A. Registered: Dec 2004
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posted February 17, 2007 06:01 AM
Hi geminilover.. Cool that our men have opposite placements! Ah..yea.. I did notice the occasional glances/looks at pretty women that pass by. Havent completely fallen for this aries man for it to adversely affect me yet. But.. i have venus in playful Sag.. so..I dont mind appreciation of beauty but just as long as it seriously stops there.(scorpio sun) Well.. here's wishing us fixed sign women lotsa love and luck with our fire/air men ! Alexa Scorpio sun/pisces moon/taurus rising
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GeminiLover75 Knowflake Posts: 1228 From: Registered: Apr 2006
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posted February 17, 2007 04:32 PM
Ahh yep, that's how I started out too! And I have Venus in Gemini and Sag rising, so I can somewhat understand it (the flirting - it comes easy to me, too). However it did get to a point where I was getting very annoyed/upset at the casualness with which he would openly be looking at other women and giving flirty looks. After I talked to him about it he realised that things like that were not gonna fly with me if he continued to do them so incessantly. Like I said I'm not so uptight I can't handle it every now and then, because I do understand. But there's a line of respect that shouldn't be crossed, so keep an eye on that! Aries do literally put themselves first very often. That said, I've been with my guy for over a year and a half, we had some terrible transits to our composite chart which really made things difficult last year, and now we have Saturn transiting our descendant - it's now retrograde so we're revisiting past issues. It's worked out that we are in relationship counselling right now because our feelings really got worked up last year - and so far it seems to be working out well. Saturn does bring helpful lessons! Anyway I'm so with you on this relationship - I know how wonderful they are, so I wish you all the best and please do keep us up to date! How funny that they are fire/air and we are both water/earth. Not exactly the most compatible combination, but I don't believe it's impossible when you take the other placements into account!
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maroon_flower Knowflake Posts: 227 From: S.E.A. Registered: Dec 2004
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posted April 16, 2007 12:25 PM
Gosh... I dont think i can ever be so attracted to another man... its a really nice feeling to be able to express freely, and know that its ok. Only time when we disagree is when I am not of a similar idea as him..and then he gets all sulky! Goodness me.. definitely the child of the zodiac! (yet, it creates a yearning in me to protect/love him all the more for his child-like innocence in his reactions...albeit,once my irritation/temper has subsided ) He has such dreamy eyes.. I can get so lost in them ( must be his venus/moon in pisces). Then again today... as always.. he keeps telling me he cant believe the amazing effect I have on him. [I have mars in aries = his sun in aries, hence why i would desire him]. But what aspect does he have that seems to make him feel very very attracted to me? As flattering as it is.. i oft wonder how long it'll really last...and if its just a case of me being a new girl on the scene thingy (there goes my runaway suspicious scorp nature). But.. hey... I reckon i'll still remain fascinated by this fire man! How's everyone else been doing? Alexa
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maroon_flower Knowflake Posts: 227 From: S.E.A. Registered: Dec 2004
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posted April 16, 2007 12:26 PM
ooops: double post. Sorry.He tells me he has always been very moody/cranky (gemini moon). But surprisingly, he says his twin sis is nothing like that at all. Hmmm? IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75 Knowflake Posts: 1228 From: Registered: Apr 2006
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posted April 17, 2007 12:25 AM
Hmm... his twin sister will have a different rising sign, that could make the difference. How many minutes apart were they born?IP: Logged |
maroon_flower Knowflake Posts: 227 From: S.E.A. Registered: Dec 2004
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posted April 17, 2007 09:14 AM
Aaahhh.... rightly so GeminiLover. No idea about their birth timings. Will try ask..would be interesting indeed. I was guessing he was virgo rising coz he is so 'clean'..as in enjoys his lenghty showers, and getting himself all readied up with the latest creams/hair styling things etc.His home is also really spick and span..mainly in themes of white. Really picture pretty actually. But.. perhaps i got his rising wrong. Hmm... 'runs along to digest some new info'.... Always love a puzzle Hope things have been going good for you Gemlover.
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