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Topic: Scorpio+Libra=fail?
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wolfbaby
Knowflake Posts: 17
From: Shenzhen/HK,China
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted February 11, 2007 12:25 AM
 
We are in different cities(He is working in shanghai right now). I planed to move to shanghai this July or Aug. so we can be together. but something happend lately starts drives me huts.He seems different after the Taiwan crip.or maybe i am thinking too much, he could be just being too busy. But, after he back shanghai, he did not give me any phone call (few texts), 2 days ago, i was sick and alone, thirsty and hardly to move my body to get some water, so i called him and just wanna hear something nice. He was in the KTV and he told me that's too noisy, so he would call me later, but later... i found my mobile battary runs out. The next morning when i get turn on the phone, there was no message,usually he will text me every morning... i got upset and thuresday morning i emailed him, just telling him i was disappointed about the calles during my sickness and he could just text me. i asked him if he is really ready for our relationship... 1.5 hours later after he sms me he will go to dinner. i called him, he was still on the dinner with his colleagues. and i asked him , will he calls me later.he said yes. and i also told him read the email before calles. Evening...there was no phone calles. I texted him, 'will you call?'no reply, 20 mintustes later, i texted him'please give me a good reason, and i do not wanna hear that sorry again'. 30 minutes later, i texted him'tell me you wanna break up, so i do not need think about this damn thing again,it kills me'no replys, and i called again and again, no answeres. i did not slept on thursday night, and i start to call 5:30am, cause he usually wake up this early. i called again and again till 9:00am. i start to feel i am getting crazy. ... no answeres!
I really start to worry about if he had any accident... I brought the airplane tickets for both of us to the North trip. and for me to go to shanghai by 14th Feb. Saturday moring he text me back, he felt bad about the email and he needs time to think about it. and he will not go to north with me. Guys, please help me. does he means break up? IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 1176
From: santa monica, california
Registered: May 2005
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posted February 11, 2007 12:38 AM
Sounds like he is trying to break up with you. So you're the Scorpio, and he's the Libra? Anyway. As of now, I think you should wait until he contacts you unless you want to tell him that you want to end things. But if he's not answering your calls and waiting too long to reply to your texts, then he isn't the guy for you...esp. if you're a Scorpio. What are your guy's Moon/Risings? Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer IP: Logged |
Pluto's Muse
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: New York City
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted February 11, 2007 12:56 AM
Are you a Taurus?
Just curious.
I have dated many Scorp men. You have to let them come to you sometimes. My current boyfriend is a Scorpio but he's very intense and calls me almost ever hour. The other Scorps I was with never did that. Also depends a lot on the person. I think you need to give him a bit of space. They can be very intense..but only when they want to be.
What are your birth dates, birth CITIES, and birth TIMES?
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wolfbaby
Knowflake Posts: 17
From: Shenzhen/HK,China
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted February 11, 2007 01:36 AM
I am the Scop. i am Nov. 4.1978.(7:45 am)and he is Oct. 19.1975. i remember he was also AM time. but i need check it out. have to say he is a very sensitive and different person, he does not lies, this is what i loved him the most, if i think he does have another girl, then i definitely will not go to shanghai and just stop it. He is just always try to protect himself too well. There was one time we went to a bar in shanghai with his friends. because i talked to a stranger sit besides me for few sentences(that guy is also work in hk and shenzhen, and his company is one of our supplier) my BF just felt bad and asked why i talking to that guy, and that needs him 1.5 days to heal.Another time we had small arguement(through msn), he felt hurt, instead of talking and fix it ,he just went to bed and i wasn't able to sleep that night, cause i wanted talk and fix it ASAP. He said he had a relationship hurt him deeply once, so i always try to becareful not do anything may make him feel bad, i guess i lost myself. and now seems this is what he returns to me. What a good Van. gift!
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Pluto's Muse
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: New York City
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted February 11, 2007 01:48 AM
Oh yeah Scorpio/Libra I'm such a goof LOL.
I want to check your charts out.
Do you know your Ascendant, Moon, Venus, and Mars?
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Pluto's Muse
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: New York City
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted February 11, 2007 01:49 AM
He's on the Libra/Scorpio cusp. http://www.astrology.com/allaboutyou/cusps/librascorpio.html IP: Logged |
wolfbaby
Knowflake Posts: 17
From: Shenzhen/HK,China
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted February 11, 2007 02:10 AM
oh Pluto's Muse,I dont know much about it. would you please tell me? IP: Logged |
wolfbaby
Knowflake Posts: 17
From: Shenzhen/HK,China
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted February 11, 2007 02:15 AM
sorry i was wronghe is Oct.19.1972 not 1975
I am Nov. 4.1978 7:45AM IP: Logged |
Pluto's Muse
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: New York City
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted February 11, 2007 01:15 PM
Read the link I gave you about the cusps. He's born on a certain day where he will be considered both.I don't have an exact birth date for him so his Ascendant might not be accurate.
I need both of your birth CITIES ALSO.
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Xodian
Knowflake Posts: 293
From: Canada
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted February 11, 2007 06:27 PM
Ok you have to understand one thing very clear when it comes to Libras wolfbaby. Just because we tend to flirt up with others doesn't mean we are disloyal. Its just... our way of being social Lol! Innocent flirtation doesn't mean a brewing relationship. However... Him being kinda distant and busy with work; That is something he needs to addess you on. I had to break off my last relationship because of my studies and work. It was a mutual decision and we still are good friends  . IP: Logged |
Pluto's Muse
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: New York City
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted February 11, 2007 07:04 PM
This isn't based only on the sun sign.IP: Logged |
wolfbaby
Knowflake Posts: 17
From: Shenzhen/HK,China
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted February 11, 2007 08:36 PM
I emailed him my flight info. and i got his email this morning,I need to ask you not to visit. I still feel very bad. I need some more time to think. I hope you can understand. I do still love you, but I need to be alone for some time.
Please...
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wolfbaby
Knowflake Posts: 17
From: Shenzhen/HK,China
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted February 11, 2007 08:42 PM
Libras,
PLEASE!I really need to hear all of your suggestions,I really wanna fly to him by Feb.14 to fix this. has been 4 days, i can't eat and only sleep 4 or 5 hours each day.I am suffering and i gonna die if keep like this! IP: Logged |
Pluto's Muse
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: New York City
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted February 11, 2007 08:45 PM
Give him space.Please. Just let him be alone.
If he comes back then see what can happen. Do not suffocate him. Please.
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wolfbaby
Knowflake Posts: 17
From: Shenzhen/HK,China
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted February 12, 2007 01:28 AM
Thanks Pluto's Muse!
Thank you for your suggestion!I emailed him back, i just think over and i maybe over- reactive. i will return the tickets. i love you just remember it. IP: Logged |
wolfbaby
Knowflake Posts: 17
From: Shenzhen/HK,China
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted February 12, 2007 01:30 AM
Well, and you know the love from a Scorpio is suffocated, but i am under the control now!
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