posted March 05, 2007 02:07 PM         

So where I last left off, Kevin called me (Friday) and we both agreed we missed each other. We didn't get a chance to talk much cause he as getting off work and asked if he could call me later. But after the phone convo he texted me a radio station to turn to and it was Keith Urban's "Making Memories of Us." Awww He called me that night and we talked briefly, as I was at a friend's bday party. Saturday night I lost my cellphone during a night out for a bachlorette party and missed 2 calls from Kevin. Sunday morning when I checked my messages there was a 3rd. I called him back that afternoon and asked him if he wanted to go get my cell phone from the strip club it was at and he said sure. Thankfully. We walked around the city and had a really good talk. And in the end we decided to stay together, take things slower and in a sense start over. I am soooo glad and happy and relieved... I missed my Kevin

posted March 05, 2007 09:52 PM         

It also gives him a 29 degree Aquarius moon.

Your sun falls in his 5th house, which is nice.

Also his moon trines yours, and both your moons trine each other's Pluto. This must be intense!

His Uranus and yours are both in your 7th house, so the relationship could feel a bit unstable for you. However your Chiron and North Node are in his 7th house, which could make this a healing relationship for him?

posted March 06, 2007 12:29 PM         

Whats intense about us is from day one we have had an intense connection that we both had a hard time explaining in the beginning. We still have that intense connection - and I love it. Its almost like when we make eye contact we see straight into the other. A little nerve racking at times to feel that vulnerable but its a feeling we both embrace. We can look at each other and just....know...

You mentioned a healing relationship for him... not too sure about that one. I see this relationship as one we will both teach each other a lot. In fact he asked me on Sunday night to be his motivator. He wants me to be the one to motivate him to be a better man. awww To stable his life. But being stable is what has him scared. I just realized its almost like an addiction. For instance. I want to quit smoking, I know I should - but I don't because I know it will be hard when I go out with friends and whatnot. I think this is how it is for Kev. He wants to be stable and grow up. But he is scared of what he may lose. He once told me that he hates dealing with things. So usually he runs. And he said he doesn't want to with me. He wants me to make him stick around. (though, I question, how can I do this should the need come up?) I've noticed this outside of our relationship with him, so it wasn't news to me lol Sorry, got carried away....
Anyway, healing relationship?...Before Kevin and I met he became intimate with a friend of his, he ended up really liking her then found out she was still with her boyfriend (she had told Kevin they had broken up). Once he found out he called it off with her... He has also gone through a lot with his family. Drug addiction. Abuse. Divorce. He is 3 years sober but I know he still struggles with the abuse he watched his mom go through from his dad. And then their divorce....so in that sense he is healing as well.

Oh and the heat is definitly hot

posted March 06, 2007 05:33 PM         

To be honest, I'm not that great with astrology! I'm learning all the time. What I have learned and what gets me through to be able to be somewhat accurate, is learning about the symbolism of each planet and applying it broadly to its related sign and house. Eg, sun=Leo=fifth house. I then interpret the energies of the planet in combination with the sign and house placement. So for example when I mention your 8th house placements, it goes like this:

8th house = sex, death, transformation. I also think of it as the house of turn-on's!
Moon = emotions
Venus = love and attraction
Jupiter = expansive, it expands whatever it touches

Having just about any planet in another's 8th house will add to the sexual attraction. Pluto the planet of extremes, if it was in someone's 8th house (it's the ruler of Scorpio, which also relates to the eighth house) could add a real intense, deep or obsessive quality to the sexual attraction. Moon, Venus and Jupiter are nice soft planets (I think these are called benefics) so they aren't as hard-edged or obsessive as a planet like Pluto, but having them placed in each others 8th house definitely adds to your sexual attraction in a verrry nice way!

Other than that, I also look at the aspects and whether they're hard or soft, a soft aspect adds a nice quality and a hard aspect either creates a challenge or adds to the energy in a more aggressive way. At least that's what I've found.

So for me at least, working out this stuff is like putting together a jigsaw puzzle of different pieces. Others may approach it differently, and I'm still learning - I learn a lot from the people at this site!