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212cancer
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From: new york, ny usa
Registered: Mar 2007

posted March 17, 2007 11:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 212cancer     Edit/Delete Message
hi all,

this is my first post so please forgive me if i
haven't mastered the voice of it yet.

i have an ex 7 years my junior he's a scorpio and i'm the slightly older cancer female. the relationship was one of the best i'd had. he made me laugh, really intelligent, great with my friends, and it was more like a boy version of me. yet one day i had an accident which had me in bed for a week. he stopped coming around, and chose to stay with his friends partying. i find it so hard to believe after such an incredible chemistry that he chose to end the relationship siting he had "nothing to offer".

we have a lot of the same friends, and it's difficult to not want to see or speak with him, but that's the way it's been since september. he's not with anyone new, and nor am i. i'd like to see if this can work again, but i'm admittedly hurt and it sometimes comes out. he seems to want all the power and no responsibility.

what do you suggest dear friends? we never left it on a bad note, i just don't feel like it's really over.

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cancerrg
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posted March 17, 2007 12:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cancerrg     Edit/Delete Message
not a suggestion , just a persective .

do you really want to be with a person who left you in your hour of crisis ?
is it worth it ?

chemistry and wavelength all count very late .what actually counts is character !

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Dulce Luna
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posted March 17, 2007 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message
Even though I'm with a Scorpio too, I would have to agree with Rg: do you really want to get back with someone who left you when you were down? I know it may have had to do with his maturity level but still, I would think long and hard about this one.

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GypsyDancer1221
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From: Charlotte, NC, USA
Registered: Oct 2006

posted March 24, 2007 09:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypsyDancer1221     Edit/Delete Message
I do agree with considering whether or not you REALLY want to be with someone who deserted you, but being a Cancer who lost just a FRIENDSHIP with a Scorpio a few years ago, I understand. Scorpios are so magnetic and you can't help but want to be in their company. Don't ignore him since you're around him a lot; be friendly, but don't let him know blatantly that you have feelings for him. Scorpios can pick up on even the smallest subtleties almost every single time; they just don't typically let you know that THEY know. If you're meant to be together, try letting HIM persue YOU. Scorpios don't give up... and since he's not already with someone else, there's a big possibility that he still thinks quite fondly of you, probably often. Give it time; Scorps are fixed and they tend to take things pretty slowly at first so that they can maintain the advantage... hang in there, and good luck! I hope that things work out between you two. Whatever you do, unless he's got a lot of fire in him, do NOT try to make him jealous! That's how my friendship with a Scorpio ended... of course, THEN he had to go and get three concussions and doesn't remember me now, even though Scorps are supposed to have really good memories... sorry, just venting. It still bugs me. Anyway, ask if you want any more advice! Scorps are my traditionally favorite sign, so I've studied them a lot... take care, and good luck!

~ Gypsy

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