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Topic: How to Please/Attract a Virgo Man
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quixotic_daze unregistered
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posted March 20, 2007 12:41 AM
Since these men are so difficult to decipher..here's what I've found out through random readings and experience:- Love starts in the eyes for these people. Make eye-contact. Frequently. Genuinely. - Be a little subtle. No overt flirting. - Be ready to put your thinking-caps on. Be prepared with smart quips, and be well-read and aware of relevant things. A lot of Virgos are into politics. - It would not hurt if you can cook/bake and happen to give him a taste... lol These people appreciate home-made things. - They don't care much for frivolties; if you want to give a gift, give something meaningful yet PRACTICAL. Hand-made is even better. - A little softness/gentleness doesn't do any harm, but don't be a door-mat. - An added bonus if you're emotionally stable and seem very "put-together." - Be humble around these people. Don't brag. Be genuine. - Compliment them when they deserve it. They can spot flattery easily. If you genuinely compliment them, chances are, they'll ALWAYS remember it. Ladies, these men have an AMAZING capacity in the cerebral regions that deal with memory. If they're interested in you, they'll remember EVERYTHING! (Which means, be careful of what you reveal, 'cause that Virgo brain will process, file, and remember ALL of that!!!) - Ever heard of projecting your own feelings on others? These men are pegged with wanting perfection...but have you thought of perhaps how inadequate they may themselves feel? - The key to loosen a little bit of the perfectionism is for them to realize that their own "imperfections" are okay and human to have. This need for perfectionism, I think stems from their need for security. And by making him feel secure with his own insecurities and "faults" you'll not only make him a more "human" individual (and not the robot some may think he is! lol) AND you'll have an easier time. This is all for tonight. Feel free to add more. Virgo is definitely the flavor of this month. Haha. IP: Logged |
Lynx Newflake Posts: 2 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted April 07, 2007 08:22 PM
"Virgo is definitely the flavor of this month. Haha."Can you elaborate? Gah. I never thought I'd say it, but I'm crushing on one right now. The eye contact always soothes my wounded soul. IP: Logged |
MoonDreamer81 unregistered
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posted April 08, 2007 10:56 PM
MMMM...and what a flavor it is!!! ;-)------------------ *Taurus Sun/Scorpio Moon/Gemini Asc.* IP: Logged |
hereisgone unregistered
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posted April 10, 2007 08:32 AM
Are you sure you didn't follow my Virgo around describing him? LOL This certainly describes him *almost* perfectly. Though he certainly is not neat and organized. His bedroom looks like a tornado went through it and he is constantly losing his work schedule someplace.Mmm, Virgo. And to think I used to prefer vanilla.  IP: Logged |
thedividedsky unregistered
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posted April 10, 2007 09:01 AM
i think virgos enjoy people that are upbeat easygoing and happy......not the depressive types......maybe our "seriousness" about life is already too much. IP: Logged |
hereisgone unregistered
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posted April 11, 2007 07:42 AM
My Virgo guy has seemed to pick up a lot of Schizophrenic friends (at least 3 or 4). Everything's fine when they take their meds, but when they don't, he's always complaining about how depressed they make him by whining, lol. Of course, he can't just stop being friends with them, he says - he'd feel too guilty.IP: Logged |
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 269 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 20, 2007 10:47 PM
Heehee... I have to laugh! My Virgo has an Aries moon. He's a sucker for a mean girl with a sharp tongue (A challenge for his Raminess) but he really loves it when I'm polite, soothing, and sweet. It's a balancing act, for sure! Maddening at times. To top it off, he's Scorpio rising. Now there's a curious twist to the mix. (I could talk Virgo men all day. Who wants to play?!) IP: Logged |
babeefoxx unregistered
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posted April 22, 2007 10:06 PM
Isn't that true? I've read so much about Virgo on the Linda boards this month. It's about time. I love learning more about my mate.  IP: Logged |
MoonDreamer81 unregistered
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posted April 22, 2007 10:58 PM
WOW....Virgo's are HOT these days!!LOL! ;-) MMMMM....thinkin of mine!------------------ S:Taurus ASC:Gemini M:Scorpio IP: Logged |
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 269 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 26, 2007 06:24 PM
Virgos are hot any day!  IP: Logged |
Everlong unregistered
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posted April 26, 2007 09:28 PM
Heh, I'm seeing a Virgo right now. He's gorgeous, has the most incredible eyes. I don't know his birthdate, but I'm pretty sure he has to have some Scorpion/Cancerian influences, as he's a bit clingy and possessive, and a bit more on the emotional side. And he has some more interesting Scorpio-like traits that I won't go into... hee. IP: Logged |
~jane_says~ Newflake Posts: 0 From: rapid city, south dakota USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted May 03, 2007 04:07 PM
My Virgo is lovely too and has the most amazing green eyes! Love him to deal. And ny the way about that flavor of the month comment. It is so true and beyond 'cause I could just eat up his scent! Have a good one all! ------------------ "If you believe, you can achieve." Tupac IP: Logged |
plutoprincess Knowflake Posts: 148 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 07, 2008 12:06 PM
bump! Any info on this? I have heard the the key word when trying to be with them is patience.And a question: a Virgo sun with lots of Libra planets is veeeeery picky, right? IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Feb 2010
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posted June 09, 2008 03:49 PM
The trick to a Virgo man is to form a mental bond first then the emotional bond..Yes if you are smart and can talk about all things it gets them. They are physical kind of guys so they show how much they care through nice gestures..They are very thoughtful and considerate when they like a girl..Also they like to be led some of them, they will follow your lead they may not initate much but if you do and they like you they go alond with whatever it is you want.. IP: Logged |
barbriallen Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 16, 2015 09:08 PM
*bump* anymore virgos wanna add?IP: Logged |
Jo B Knowflake Posts: 594 From: London, UK Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 04, 2015 06:40 PM
Virgos are sensual, tactile, love to connect on an intellectual/humour level, but also like their space on occasion. I think they gravitate towards energetic, light-hearted people to balance out their groundedness, as a previous poster mentions. I should know, I am one! I'd say this applies to Virgo men too. And re Virgos with other planet placements in Libra being picky, yep I'd say so.  IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 2969 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted March 05, 2015 06:49 AM
Don't become boring. Stimulate their intellect! The ones I know LOVE sex, once they have opened up, so take that whichever way you want From what I have witnessed they also pair fairly well with more outgoing signs see: leo, sag and aries. IP: Logged |