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hereisgone
Knowflake

Posts: 95
From: Charleston, WV
Registered: Aug 2004

posted March 29, 2007 12:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
Not really sure what to make of this and I really need some advice. Sorry this is kinda long.

Last Friday, Mr. Virgo and I hung out after I got off work (about 10:30pm). We ended up driving around talking until about 4:30 and decided to just crash at his place. Before going to bed I had looked out the window and was looking at the cars (I have none so I was looking at them with envy, lol!). I noticed how similar in shape some of the cars were, then went to bed. He said he had to run downstairs to talk to his friend the desk clerk for a few minutes, then came back.

The next day we got up about 1pm and I looked outside to see what the weather was like. That's when I noticed his car was in a different spot in a different row. I'm not crazy - I'm 100% positive it was moved. The thing is... when I mentioned it, he didn't even seem concerned. He just said "No, that's the same place it was last night" without even coming over to look.

I didn't think anything at first, just got ready to catch a bus home and he got ready to go to work.

So I'm not sure what I'm asking; I just need some advice on the situation. What would you do/think if you were in my shoes? Would think he's lying/hiding something? Would you just pass it over and forget about it? I'm afraid if I confront him, he'll get freaked out and leave (both of us are generally shy and have a tendency for nervousness). I really do want for us to work, but my trust issue is getting in the way again (I'm a very untrusting person).

Please help!

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hereisgone
Knowflake

Posts: 95
From: Charleston, WV
Registered: Aug 2004

posted March 29, 2007 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
Just wanted to add...

I think this is my problem.

If someone came up to you and said "Hey, your car's in a different place from where you parked it." wouldn't you be concerned and come look just to make sure? It's like he knew I was right and didn't want me to know he had actually went somewhere 10 minutes he was gone the night before. The only way he wouldn't be concerned is if he knew it had been moved and knew it was ok, right?

I think I'm losing my mind! Dang, this Scorpio jealousy.

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hereisgone
Knowflake

Posts: 95
From: Charleston, WV
Registered: Aug 2004

posted March 29, 2007 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
Ok, I now have some astro info that may help.

Him:
Sun Virgo 26°33'38 in house 5 direct
Moon Taurus 6°17'41 in house 12 direct
Mercury Virgo 17°22'51 in house 5 direct
Venus Scorpio 10°29'07 in house 6 direct
Mars Scorpio 0°00'06 in house 6 direct
Jupiter Leo 2°38'27 in house 3 direct
Saturn Virgo 6°53'19 end of house 4 direct
Uranus Scorpio 13°49'36 in house 6 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 15°41'15 end of house 6 direct
Pluto Libra 15°48'18 in house 5 direct
True Node Virgo 26°44'34 in house 5 direct
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Gemini 16°11'55
2nd House Cancer 4°44'08
3rd House Cancer 21°31'14
Imum Coeli Leo 10°47'15
5th House Virgo 7°55'19
6th House Libra 22°17'49
Descendant Sagittarius 16°11'55
8th House Capricorn 4°44'08
9th House Capricorn 21°31'14
Medium Coeli Aquarius 10°47'15
11th House Pisces 7°55'19
12th House Aries 22°17'49

Major aspects
Sun Sextile Jupiter 6°05
Moon Opposition Venus 4°11
Moon Opposition Mars 6°18
Moon Square Jupiter 3°39
Moon Trine Saturn 0°36
Moon Opposition Uranus 7°32
Mercury Sextile Uranus 3°33
Mercury Square Neptune 1°42
Mercury Square Ascendant 1°11
Venus Sextile Saturn 3°36
Venus Conjunction Uranus 3°20
Mars Square Jupiter 2°38
Uranus Quincunx Ascendant 2°22
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°07
Neptune Opposition Ascendant 0°31
Pluto Trine Ascendant 0°24


Me:
Sun Scorpio 28°00'13 in house 6 direct
Moon Sagittarius 12°22'25 in house 7 direct
Mercury Scorpio 26°14'40 in house 6 retrograde
Venus Sagittarius 20°28'14 in house 7 direct
Mars Virgo 0°27'55 in house 4 direct
Jupiter Virgo 8°16'40 in house 4 direct
Saturn Virgo 25°05'24 in house 5 direct
Uranus Scorpio 21°43'00 in house 6 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 19°23'50 in house 7 direct
Pluto Libra 20°35'55 end of house 5 direct
True Node Virgo 4°25'12 in house 4 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Gemini 6°18'43
2nd House Gemini 29°37'00
3rd House Cancer 20°23'16
Imum Coeli Leo 13°07'18
5th House Virgo 12°16'42
6th House Libra 22°01'25
Descendant Sagittarius 6°18'43
8th House Sagittarius 29°37'00
9th House Capricorn 20°23'16
Medium Coeli Aquarius 13°07'18
11th House Pisces 12°16'42
12th House Aries 22°01'25

Major aspects
Sun Conjunction Mercury 1°46
Sun Square Mars 2°28
Sun Sextile Saturn 2°55
Sun Conjunction Uranus 6°17
Moon Square Jupiter 4°06
Moon Conjunction Neptune 7°01
Moon Opposition Ascendant 6°04
Mercury Square Mars 4°13
Mercury Sextile Saturn 1°09
Mercury Conjunction Uranus 4°32
Venus Square Saturn 4°37
Venus Conjunction Neptune 1°04
Venus Sextile Pluto 0°08
Mars Square Ascendant 5°51
Jupiter Square Ascendant 1°58
Saturn Sextile Uranus 3°22
Saturn Square Neptune 5°42
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°12

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Isolaede
Knowflake

Posts: 316
From: Studio City, CA
Registered: Aug 2005

posted March 30, 2007 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isolaede     Edit/Delete Message
Hey girl

I wouldn’t stress about it at this juncture. If I read your story correctly, he was only gone for a few minutes – so if he ran out there’s really nothing he could have done anyway. He may not have gone to the window because he was distracted, or just clueless. People sometimes give the “*grunt grunt* Whatever you say honey” response without even really hearing what you said. There’s also a chance he picked up on your jealousy and just didn’t want to deal with it. I can be a jealous little bird from time to time myself. My boyfriend is very patient but there are times when he get’s frustrated and just shuts down. He can feel the jealous storm coming on so he starts giving super short responses and distancing himself. This is, of course, the worst possible thing he could do for ME at that moment as it just makes me feel worse, but it’s what he needs to do for himself to avoid getting angry. In truth, by shutting down, he’s trying to save me too – because he doesn’t want to say angry things he’d regret later. It’s taken me a while to learn to trust him enough to be ok with him pulling away like that, but I’m learning.

So, don’t fret too much, dear Scorpio. I really do understand why you are worried – I can’t stand it when there are pieces of information left out or actions that seem out of place. However it is my honest opinion that his car moving is in itself not any cause for concern considering the time line. Now if this is just one in a string of mysterious disappearances and poorly covered lies, then I’d say you may be with the wrong man (I think Scorpio is a sign that needs 100% full and honest disclosure all of the time – and some signs just can’t cut it). But if this is your first cause for concern, then lay it aside, or if you can’t then talk to him about it. Be honest about how it made you feel, express your vulnerability and you fears in a compassionate way and see what he has to say.

Good luck!

Hugs,

Isoalede

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let ther b light
Knowflake

Posts: 138
From: bombay, india
Registered: Aug 2005

posted April 03, 2007 09:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message
hey hereisgone,
i agree with isolaede that if he had gone for just a few minutes theres really nothin to worry about.

besides it just could be something completely different from what you think. for ex. maybe he wants to surprise u with something. im saying this coz the last time i was planning a surprise fr my sis she thot i was upto no good....she started asking all sorts of question and when i did not answer clearly, she got mad!!!....later she discovered it was a surprise party fr her!!! ....

i'd say just wait and watch...

love
diya

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