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Nihilive
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Posts: 112
From: Dearborn Heights, MI, USA
Registered: Feb 2006

posted April 07, 2007 11:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nihilive     Edit/Delete Message
I've always found it to be a big issue for me to spend money frugally. I like to save for a rainy day, and in my case, a regular day. I find it as though I'm always made to feel as if I need to go out and appease my Piscean queen either by taking her out or buying her things. No, she never asks for it, but I feel as though it is my obligation to show her a good time. I am stifled where I live now. It's a suburb/city hybrid with almost virtually nothing left to do that is new and invigorating. The things we do, such as go to dinner and a movie, seem exhausted and routine.

Sometimes I almost hate myself for not having any good ideas as far as what to do for entertainment. I feel boring to her and in my mind, I want the world for her. I just want her to see that.

Also, I have a tendency to get frustrated at my current situation (as posted above) about not really having extra cash to spare. My frustrations are always hidden from her, as not to burden her with my troubles, but yet sometimes it goes over the top, such as if we are sitting at my apartment and she says, "I'm bored," jokingly, I might get defensive and ask, "Well, what do you want to do?" I come off as very abrasive and crude when I defend myself, because I never want to be seen as lesser in her eyes.

Advice please?

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let ther b light
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Posts: 150
From: bombay, india
Registered: Aug 2005

posted April 08, 2007 06:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message
hey nihilive,

i can understand that u feel the need to do different things so things dont get mundane...that was often my complaint too. its not necessary to always do things that require a lot of money to keep yourself entertained. i no sometimes its unavoidable and i think its really sweet that your thinking of doing something about it without even being told!!! ...nyways...is it not possible for you'll to learn something together. for instance something like salsa. or a language you'll dont know but wanna learn. or a sport.
maybe you could even go for just a walk together....

infact i would get really irritated with my ex coz he would think that buying expensive gifts would make me happy(not that they dont)....but you dont always feel happy because someone has spent alot of money on you...and if she is a typical piscean, she surely must not be the kind to feel happy with just you spending money on her.... i think what she might apprecite more is you taking the time to think of better ways of making her happy(which actually, you already are doing )

so if you've not already tried all of that(dancing, sports etc) you could....it would be different from what u'll do normally(movies, dinner)...

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hereisgone
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Posts: 109
From: Neverland
Registered: Aug 2004

posted April 11, 2007 07:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
One of the best dates my Virgo and I ever had was staying inside playing video games and watching dvds.

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