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eightdegrees
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From: Columbia, SC, USA
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posted May 06, 2007 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for eightdegrees     Edit/Delete Message
I've been dating a Cap for a few weeks, after being friends and coworkers for a year, things have moved fairly quickly. I'm feeling a bit dampened by him at times, and I don't know if it's just a Earth-Fire dynamic (I'm a Sag) or what. Being a Fire sign, I'm run by possibilities and dreams, and it seems like things are so concrete with him that I get "deflated," which for me is a terrible feeling. But at the same time I like his earthly ... solidity and presence. I've never dated an earth sign, and I know Caps are difficult to understand. He's a Cap Venus also, Taurus moon, Mars in Sag and Sun-conj Jupiter, Not sure of his rising. I'm a Cancer moon, Aqua Venus and Virgo Mars, Aqua rising.

If anyone has any insights about Caps in love, or fire-earth, I'd love to hear them!

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Gooberzlostlovefound
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From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake
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posted May 06, 2007 02:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
As a capricorn, I've always gotten on well with sagittarians. Two of my best friends are archers, and my first boyfriend was, too.

I, do, however, worry that I can be a bit too "doom & gloom" for them. (Although even at our gloomiest, capricorns always keep a strange sense of humor about things...)

Your moons are both in feminine signs, so that should be helpful.

So why didn't you two start dating earlier? Why were you "just friends" for so long?

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eightdegrees
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posted May 06, 2007 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for eightdegrees     Edit/Delete Message
Well, Gooberz... there was an attraction that would come and go, but I never wanted to act on it partly because I wasn't sure about getting involved with a coworker, and partly because I wasn't sure it was "real." But at a certain point it became pretty obvious that there was something there, and so here we are.

It hasn't been that long, but I'm finding it hard to emotionally connect with him. Our friendship connection is good, and there's good chemistry, but I don't feel like we've really bonded emotionally, and I don't know whether the Cap and Cap Venus is just hesitant and reserved and will just take time to unfold...

I agree, the Cancer moon-Taurus moon combo is great- Ive always felt really at home with Taurus moons.

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Gooberzlostlovefound
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From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake
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posted May 08, 2007 01:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
Oh yeah -- I like taurus moons, too.

Anyways, the chemistry....I tend to believe chemistry is either there, or it's not. Are you saying it's probably not there, or that he seems reserved, like he's holding back?

Because let me tell you, capricorns hold back. A lot!!

If you do really like him, just give it time. It will take time for him to trust you enough to open up.

Good luck and keep me posted!

GLLF

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