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Topic: ARIES WOMAN CANCER MAN
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fieryaries
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: New York
Registered: May 2007
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posted May 11, 2007 02:38 PM
 
HELLO AND BLESSINGS TO ONE AND ALL - I AM NEW TO THIS POST BUT I GIVE EVERYONE A WARM HELLO!! BUT, I NEED HELP I AM AN ARIES WOMAN BORN 4-19-63 WHO IS LOVING A CANCER MAN BORN 6-23-67, WHEN I SAY LOVING ITS BECAUSE HE IS ALL THE THINGS I WANT IN A MAN BUT AS WE SAY BE CAREFUL WHAT ONE WISHES FOR--LOL I CAN'T UNDERSTAND HIS BEHAVIOR 1 MINUTE HE IS SO INTO ME THEN THE NEXT COLD AS ICE--BRRRRR
I DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM BUT I ALSO DON'T KNOW HOW TO CONVEY HOW I FEEL AND NOT SCARE IM AWAY. AND AS AN ARIES ITS HARD FOR ME NOT TO COME OUT SWINGING BUT I FEEL LIKE SHAKING HIM AND SAYING "HEY YOU ARE LETTING A GREAT THING SLIP RIGHT OUT OF YOUR HANDS" SO IF ANYONE CAN HELP ME UNDERSTAND I THANK YOU!! PEACE AND WHITE LIGHTIP: Logged |
*MISS*ARIES
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: EARTH
Registered: May 2007
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posted May 11, 2007 02:50 PM
WELL MY FELLOW ARIES, DONT YOU THINK IF HE WAS ALWAYS, ALWAYS INTO YOU, YOU MAY NOT BE QUITE AS INTERESTED? MAYBE HE KNOWS HOW TO KEEP YOU INTERESTED  JUST LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU CARE ABOUT HIM AND WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF HE FEELS THE SAME. THEN LEAVE IT AT THAT AND ACCEPT HIS ANSWER. YOU KNOW THAT WHATEVER THE ANSWER IS YOU WILL MOST DEFINATLY BE ON THE PATH THAT YOU SHOULD BE ON.IP: Logged |
NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1995
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted May 11, 2007 02:56 PM
IS TODAY CAPS DAY?  AHHHH!!!! THOSE CANCER BOYS! I FEEL FOR YOU.
I HAD ONE FOR A LITTLE WHILE BUT IT DIDN'T WORK OUT  ------------------
Sun in Cancer
Moon in Cancer
Sag Asc. IP: Logged |
fieryaries
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: New York
Registered: May 2007
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posted May 11, 2007 03:02 PM
THANK YOU SO MUCH MISS ARIES YOU KNOW IT WELL THE CHASE IS ALWAYS MORE THRILLING THAN THE ACTUAL CATCH-LOL AND HE KNOWS THAT I DO LIKE HIM ALOT AND I HAVE PURSUED HIM IN A TRUE ARIES FASHION--HARD!! AND I GUESS ITS THE REJECTION I FEAR MOST WHICH IS NOT EASY FOR ME TO SWALLOW--BUT IM SURE I'LL CONVINCE MYSELF THAT IT IS HIS LOST AND MOVE ON--AND HE HAS SAID HE WILL NEVER BE AS GENEROUS, SWEET, THOUGHTFUL OR ROMANTIC AS ME--SO WHY
DO I WANT HIM U ASK? MAYBE BECAUSE HE DOESN'T WANT ME-LOL BUT, I ADORE HIM ;-)IP: Logged |
fieryaries
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: New York
Registered: May 2007
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posted May 11, 2007 03:07 PM
Sorry Nam - you know Aries everything in a big way - LOL Well then you know what I'm going thru he thrills me and chills me all in one - LOL I guess this won't go to far
;-(, but I was hoping since stranger things have happened!!!IP: Logged |
*MISS*ARIES
Knowflake Posts: 54
From: EARTH
Registered: May 2007
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posted May 11, 2007 04:56 PM
I don't think you should give up hope at all! Where would we be w/out hope in our lives? I think that many of us Aries do go all out when we see what we want and when we dont get the reaction we would like and as fast as we'd like (our darn impatience!!!) we tend to give up and go on skipping down a new path while listening to our own personal drum beat playing away in our head. What I'm saying is sometimes we may need to just step back and let things happen in their own time. You told him your feelings and may not have gotten the answer you were hoping for...at that moment YOU wanted it. But that doesn't mean that moment is NOT going to come at all. And when it comes to a Cancer it's more difficult for us fire signs to see through their deep wells of emotions. I found this an interesting little blurp on Cancers. It's from a book I've fallen in love with...
Secrets From a Stargazer's Notebook
by: Debbi Kempton-Smith
"Flaws? Claws. They hang onto old pain; they nurse old grudges. They collect hurts; the hurts fester, and they don't tell you about them-they make you guess. They're too shy to speak up. When they sulk or get moody, you can shovel on the cheer for hours and they never seem to fill up when they feel empty...They're cunning. They wear their vulnerabilities on their sleeve so you won't hurt them. Or they play the chameleon..." So maybe he has some issues that are holding him back. You sound like a lovely person, so i dont think you should take anything personally. Keep positive as we Aries do and just wait and see...as we Aries struggle with best of luck to you! IP: Logged |
fieryaries
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: New York
Registered: May 2007
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posted May 11, 2007 05:19 PM
Miss Aries thank you so much!!!! I am the eternal romantic and I love hard - sometimes to my own demise - LOL But, I am like Scarlett O'Hara always believing that tomorrow something better is going to happen or we can fix the mistakes of today. I really adore my Crab and though I really don't know how he feels about me Iam leaving it to the universe to decide, so maybe he will come around (I HOPE) but if not then it is just not meant for me. I should know aqll about cancers my mom is a crab, but she is so loving and protective. My crab guy is just the opposite regardless of how I have showered him with affection and attention he remains so unaffected. So we'll see I will keep you posted and I will try to find the book you have read. Thank you send me white light as I send it back to you!!!IP: Logged |
babeefoxx
Knowflake Posts: 415
From: San Jose,CA USA
Registered: Mar 2007
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posted May 11, 2007 09:23 PM
control issues.
That's what I think about when someone mentions cappy/aries.IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
Knowflake Posts: 283
From: Somewhere Out There
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted May 12, 2007 11:21 AM
I'm an Aries divorcing a Cancer.I wish you far far far better luck than I had
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fieryaries
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: New York
Registered: May 2007
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posted May 12, 2007 11:47 AM
Sorry to hear Moonwitch but I am sure that the universe has greater gifts in store for you. But, I must report that me and my crab guy will never go that far, last nite in his true crab fashion he showed his claws and clipped my heartstrings--in other words he kicked me to the curb, because of course it was me who just couldn't understand his detachment and he needs that in a woman --so it is with teary eyes and a broken heart that I write this.Babeefoxx I guess the control issue was all on his part I never wanted to control him though I am assertive-LOL But, I darn sure wanted to love him!!! IP: Logged |
cancerrg
Knowflake Posts: 2645
From:
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted May 12, 2007 12:23 PM
ok refreshing soup for the broken heart ! in my knowledge i know of two cancer -aries couple (but crab man and arian man) but i have heard of quite a few ( aries man -cancer female ) that have worked wonders . one thing that was common - all the woman were so much in love and possessive of their man . so cheer up ! IP: Logged |
panther
Knowflake Posts: 1
From:
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted March 19, 2008 07:12 PM
WOW its really interesting lol i was born on june 23 and the boy who i fell in love was born on april 19 and 4 years older then me. same as yours :P lol only differences is gender!! so hows it going? are you still interested in him? let me know cheersIP: Logged |
fieryaries
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: New York
Registered: May 2007
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posted March 20, 2008 08:28 AM
Oh my gosh Panther I had almost forgotten about this Crab until you just conjured him up, that was a heartbreaking lesson for me way back in May I will admit, and what I thought I wanted was not what I needed, and I have learned so much more about myself in the past few months, good and bad. To say that I loved him would be a truth, to say that I was being a spoiled Aries woman wanting what I knew in my heart was not good for me but hoping that he would come around- GUILTY AGAIN - and also because he filled a void for me that had been empty but I realized it had no substance. Now, I know how to really feel as if Im working towards loving someone who is of substance, principal, integrity, convictions and a man who stands his ground. THis has not come easy and it takes work and time to learn someone and I am being taught that by a gorgeous, sexy, smart aleck Gemini man. Who has not been the easiest to get to know, but I know so well worth it, I know how to really feel love now and crave it just from him. the Universe took matters into its own hands and has given me the man I need and best of all I want him with all my true Aries fire and heat, and we have had hard roads and we are still finding our way, but my Twins puts that Cancer Crab to shame. And now when I think about it I smile and think of what a funny sense of humore the Universe has, the man I love is nothing like me, yet I admire and respect him so much, because he is not afraid of the truth and he has made me face mine. Thank you Panther for alllowing me to say this...and I send you all the love you can handle for being you!!IP: Logged |
fieryaries
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: New York
Registered: May 2007
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posted March 20, 2008 08:35 AM
Oh sorry Panther did I say Virgo I think its Leo, no no no I know now...its a really sneaky Gemini yup that's him full of Wisdom he is and likes to have a good sense of humor as I do too!!!. But I always tell him I was born at night but not last night....LOLIP: Logged |
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