posted May 16, 2007 03:00 PM         

Well I said I needed some assistance. Here's what I'm asking about...

9 years ago i met a Pisces and knew I wanted to have something w/ him. We dated and parted ways due to job's in other towns, but through the years including now this Pisces manages to keep coming back into my life. The part that is interesting to me is it ends up w/ us always being involved romantically although I know if we were to be just friends I would adore that also. He always manages to pop up whenever I'm ending a relationship to....very interesting. This is a person that is interested in so many of the same things as I am, and whenever we are around eachother we stay up til 7 or 8 in the morning talking. so here it goes...

me - 04/03/1981 great falls, mt 7:25am
him- 03/25/1975 helena, mt 3:00pm

posted May 17, 2007 03:32 AM         

I'm not really an astrologer, but I am an aries woman that's fallen for a pisces man... he's a dear friend of mine. So I know the glorious things that a pisces man is... and I feel EXACTLY like you do in the sense that I am just thrilled to have him in my life at all, even though it kills me every day to WONDER what might be if I was willing to take a chance...

If you haven't already, you should check out astro.com. You can punch in your info and get a fairly good synastry... of course its simplified but it may help you with some of the basics.

FInally, I wish you luck with your guy!!! (Aren't pisces men incredible?!)

posted May 17, 2007 03:33 AM         

I'm not really an astrologer, but I am an aries woman that's fallen for a pisces man... he's a dear friend of mine. So I know the glorious things that a pisces man is... and I feel EXACTLY like you do in the sense that I am just thrilled to have him in my life at all, even though it kills me every day to WONDER what might be if I was willing to take a chance...

If you haven't already, you should check out astro.com. You can punch in your info and get a fairly good synastry... of course its simplified but it may help you with some of the basics.

FInally, I wish you luck with your guy!!! (Aren't pisces men incredible?!)

posted May 17, 2007 05:08 AM         

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(Aren't pisces men incredible?!)

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Answer: No.

posted May 18, 2007 01:40 AM         

Here's another one to try:
http://www.cosmic-imperative.com

It kinda takes some getting used to (it's an audio report - the voice is a little odd). It's fun to punch in the info and just sit back and listen. (Don't look @ your screen b/c it will distract you from what he's saying!)

posted May 18, 2007 02:12 AM         

Actually, considering Venus and the Moon are significant of a man's perfect woman and they are both in Aries.. he probably loves you for you!
Reminds me of a Pisces friend born near my best friend (also Pisces) - with Venus right on my Sun who said once, out of the blue 'you're beautiful just the way you are'.. I thought it was the sweetest thing. That's probably how he feels about you.

You have some deep aspects so you are probably extremely in tune with one another.. You are both more than a little psychic.. Your Moon/Mercury conjunction in Pisces and his Piscean Sun make for that magical - no words need be spoken - connection.

posted June 11, 2007 04:33 PM         

Yes I agree that both signs do get along very well. I had a best friend that was a Pisces as well. Although we don't talk anymore I still care very much about her and wish her nothing but the best.

When it comes to the Pisces guy I'm dealing with right now, I feel confused, but ok w/ the confusion. I know that when Pisces have something going on in their lives they tend to withdraw from everything. I am dealing w/ a Pisces that is in the process of doing that right now. It's hard to not take personally, but at the same time I know that no matter what the outcome is w/ this guy, I will be glad he is or was a part of my life. He always ends up coming back into it at some point or another, I think they(Pisces) tend to do that w/ people they connect with. So in the meantime I'll wish him nothing but positive light and hope everything is ok in his world. However IF he does come back into my life I think I may not allow myself to feel the same as I have in the past. I need some protection also....sigh

posted June 19, 2007 01:59 PM         

I think you need to do what's necessary to protect your heart. I mean, it's all a choice for us how much we want to subject ourselves to and we have no one to blame but us. So, if he is just being who he is, you need to decide at what point you are NOT feeling okay about waiting around for him, and at that point refocus your attention on yourself. (This is what I'm trying to do, as hard as it is). When your little pisces comes up from his murky waters to get some sunshine and a breath of fresh air, you can be there waiting for him with a big smile on your face. Just know that loving him will be a lesson in letting go... which can be so liberating once we master this. He'll come back so long as you're a great place for him to come back to, and part of what makes him who he is is this need to retreat and get his head on straight before he can be truly present with YOU.

I too struggle with all of this stuff, my emotions, my desire to be with my pisces but also show him that I don't desire to constrict him... it's all very hard. But at the end of the day, I try and remind myself that I ONLY want to be with a person that comes to be with me on his own, so I'm not EVER going to manipulate the situation so that I get more of him. I want him to WANT every second he has with me...

posted June 19, 2007 03:06 PM         

I so agree Scarlett w/ you saying you want him to come to you because he wants to, not because of manipulating the situation. So well put. I guess where Im at w/ this person is 3 times now I've heard how sorry he is for how he's treated our situations and how this time he's going to be different. Then pouring his feelings out to me and TRYING to make me believe that they're true. I think I'm just done w/ it. I would hear what he was saying and just have this feeling that He would be doing the same song and dance again. And he did!!

I don't want to constantly wonder "what did I do to make him go away....AGAIN?!!" I don't call too much, I don't stop by unexpected, I don't pour my heart out w/ word vomit. But w/ that I'm not cold either. I just think that he's got some growing up to do....but will he ever grow up?

Here's something I remembered that bothers me. I brought my son to his house twice. They got along just fine. He even gave my son a book and was telling other people how he met him...then....slowly...disappeared. So honestly if it has anything to do w/ that I'm fine w/out hearing from him. Whenever I brought up things about my son he'd always have some story about himself as if to top it off....weird....so ya I don't know if im convincing myself to lose the hurt or if Im remembering these things because I have no room for a guy in my life that feels like he has to top off my 4 year old little boy....I think I'm a little angry because why would you treat someone so with so much love and affection then so coldly? I don't need to have time in my life for someone like that. I don't care who you are, you don't tell someone all of these things, say you love them (thank God I didnt say it back) then....disappear.