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Topic: Is this love for REAL????
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persian_cat Knowflake Posts: 3 From: UAE Registered: May 2007
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posted May 29, 2007 08:52 AM
I am a leo-sun/capri-moon/venus-cancer/mercury-cancer. My husband is sagit-sun/libra moon/venus-aquarius/mercury-aries. Our first two years together was fantastic until slowly things deteriorated. With two kids to consider, I am asking myself if this marriage is still worth saving for. If there's hope coming somewhere. Where does love fit into this? I don't understand why we are still both attracted to each other and yet we can't stand living in one roof for a week!Beautiful souls out there, I need to see my situation in the perspective of light and love. Right now, I see shadows all around me. Please help. IP: Logged |
Diandra23 Knowflake Posts: 341 From: portugal Registered: Mar 2007
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posted May 29, 2007 10:37 AM
Hi Persia what a lovely name Well, i dont know how to analise the astrological aspects or charts but i wanna tell you that to see how you bothe act and reatc to each other ( and your potencials) you can do the sinastry chart at www.astro.com and choose in the free horoscopes the sinastry.Must have also the time of birth.Then you can post it here on LL to knowflakes see it. But if you are searching to help i advise you to post instead on the Astrology forum cause it+s there that usually people see and probably help us on our astrological doubts Dont loose hope. Sure that you two are just passing through some nasty transits or something. Dont worry too much IP: Logged |
persian_cat Knowflake Posts: 3 From: UAE Registered: May 2007
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posted May 29, 2007 11:47 AM
Hi Diandra,Thanks so much for the reply. I know that I lost touch with my inner self/inner guide when I got married. Why is that so? I felt like I divorced "somebody" when I got married to this person. True enough, I am at a lost right now as to how to deal with the situation. I'm aware that a lot of retrogrades and bad transits have beaten my marriage in the last 10 months or so. It was so bad at times that I'm beginning to challenge all reason and logic just to keep the marriage intact. However, when I directed my questions inward, I feel like I am facing an enormous entrance to a dark and thick forest - I've lost touch with my spirituality. So now I am seeking and claiming it little by little and TRUST plays a huge role. That's when I asked the universe to lead my back to my spiritual path and it showed me Linda Goodman's forum site. I can feel that part of the resolutions I need I will get from the wise souls that are nurturing this site. Again, thanks for your insight. I will try your suggestion. cheers, Persian_cat IP: Logged |
Xodian Knowflake Posts: 575 From: Canada Registered: Dec 2006
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posted May 29, 2007 12:54 PM
Salam Persian_Cat I am guessing that you're feeling a sense of loss ATM; More specifically, a loss of your individuality. Its actually quite common in many marriages where one partner just feels as if he/she is being overshadowed by another for one reason or another. I don't doubt for a sec. that you love your husband, but obviously you want rediscover yourself in this new lifetime arragement and you seem to have trouble doing that. Have you talked to him about this? IP: Logged |