posted May 29, 2007 01:12 PM         

New Pisces. Just friends...right now. I want more...maybe. Haven't got the SLIGHTEST clue what the hell he wants. He frustrates me because he plays it cool ALL THE TIME! But, I can't get mad at him for it, because he's so damn sweet! It never fails either...each time I've been ready to give up all hope on this ever being more, he does something that makes me think he might want something more after all.

Anyone want to put their .02 in on this? With the Aqua venus, is this just the way he operates? Does he act more like a "friend" even if he does want something more? He's got moon in Virgo, so that could enhance this aloof quality and add a bit of shyness I suppose. I can't get a reading on him to save my life. But...I ADORE him. Bottom line...I'll be pleased as punch if all we ever are is friends. BUT...I'd still like to know if it could be more...

posted May 29, 2007 01:42 PM         

J/K

But seriously, hon – I like those Pisces guys too. I think we respond to them because their Suns are conjunct (by sign if not by orb) our Moons. Something about them just feels like “home”. Other planet placements can totally undo the comfi-ness of the Sun/Moon conjunction of course. Your hard-aspect Moons can be part of the draw too – the allure of the “different” (as opposed to the easy energy flow of the soft aspects) is exciting, and can keep a relationship from stagnating as long as both parties can adjust to that “difference”…..

I don’t have any experience with an Aquarian Venus, but from my perspective with Uranus in XI and Aqua on the Dsc, any prospective lover has to be a good friend FIRST.

Now I’m going to go look at your chart/transits to see where this Impatience is coming from After 6 months of friendship, if the subject still has not been resolved, then perhaps ask him how he sees your relationship now and where he sees it going. It’s hard to be in some kind of limbo as to your status (“just” a friend? Possible romantic partner?) – to know there’s attraction there but not what kind…..

Be patient
Love & {{{ hugs }}}
Zala

posted May 29, 2007 02:45 PM         

Here's the stats:

Him: 3/12/79 11:07AM Columbus, Oh.
Me: 1/2/79 6:43PM Pontiac, Mi.

We have an 8th house stellium in the composite, including sun & mars.

posted May 29, 2007 06:39 PM         

With him, I don't know if it's a charm thing so much as it is that I just see him as one of, if not THE most kind, considerate, warm-hearted people I've ever talked to.

I've danced this little dance his way for 2 months now. I've probably been a bit more forward than he has over all, but still I think I've kept a guessing game going from my end too. I just see this guy as a fragile little egg. If I crack it open too soon...it could go sour. I have loads and LOADS of respect for this man. He's completely genuine.

posted June 05, 2007 04:02 PM         

How's it going with this guy?

posted October 03, 2007 09:15 AM         

Yes, things are going VERY well with this new fishie. It started out a little rough, but I think part of that might have been left over from my last (Pisces) relationship. We've made it to the 4 month mark though, and things are going really smooth.

Our moons are in very close opposition (mine at 10 deg., his at 8). My moon is not conjunct his sun, he's at 21 deg. Actually, I think I like that better. With all the conjunctions I had with the last Pisces, it actually made me feel uneasy, and I didn't feel like myself most of the time. I do like that we have a close trine between his moon and my sun...3 deg. orb. I think that gives the relationship more balance and give-and-take. It's nice to have a Pisces with a strong dose of earth, it keeps me in tune with my earthy self so I don't float off into the clouds! He has moon conj. saturn in Virgo. Most of the time I forget he's a Pisces. He acts soooo much more earthy! LOL...If it wasn't for the fact that he plays 3 instruments and writes songs...

Another cool thing is that his sun and mars both fall into the 10th house, which matches up nicely with my sun/mars in Cap.
His Mars is in 10 deg. Pisces, so it's in exact conjunction with my moon. That adds a nice dose of spice! And I LOVE that he has mercury in Aries. The other Pisces I dated had mercury in Pisces and would often get easily hurt or offended with my blunt, honest, Mercury Sagittarian ways. He just rolls with it, and jumps right back. He's very straightforward with me, and doesn't back off from necessary conflict.

So...that's the astro scoop. Other than that he's just wonderful! He's the first person I go to now for everything. I was stressed out of my mind last night and when I called him he said, "I'm so glad you're mine." When I asked him why he said, "Because you've got so much going on yourself, but you're more concerned about your mom...that's the sweetest thing." That kinda melted my heart that he said that.

posted November 20, 2007 04:42 PM         

His detachment (strangely enough) is no longer an issue. Probably because we rarely have a chance to see eachother as it is. In fact, I think that's starting to bother him, and he's been saying that if we only see eachother one or two days a week then our relationship is kind of a joke. But then he's quick to turn around and tell me that it is the way it is and he isn't letting it "bother" him.

I think the hardest thing now that I'm seeing is the combination of two very analytical/emotionally detached signs occupying the two most emotional, "feeling" planets - moon in Virgo & venus in Aquarius.

It is VERY difficult for me to get him to reveal any feelings whatsoever that may convey vulnerability. It's almost like this Virgo/Aqua combo completely kills the Piscean flowery, romantic streak. He gets that out by writing and playing music, but really for the most part he acts a lot more Virgo than Pisces in my opinion. With me being a Cap, I can certainly appreciate some of that earthy sensibility, but we're both workaholics, and work always comes before eachother. I go back and forth. My own Pisces moon and Scorpio venus long for a little more idealistic romanticism, and a little less logical, reasonable, analyzation of feelings and emotions.

On the other hand, he's really become my best friend over the last 6 months. He's understanding, supportive, assertive, and a great shoulder for me to lean on whenever I need it. I know I can call him if I've had a bad day, good day, great news or bad news...and that's really comforting. It just seems we need to work on really being a "couple." Put ourselves before work a little more, and concentrate more on giving eachother those gentle, thoughtful romantic gestures every now and then.