posted June 19, 2007 12:18 PM         

The first clue is the seeming familiarity one has of the other, like you have known each other forever. This is because a very small portion of the one is in the other and we recognized that part of ourselves in the other person. There is a soul bond between the two that has each one attuned to the other. They know and feel things about the other that no one else knows. Not only is there a familiarity, but also a sense of safety, peace, and confidence.

Second, the meeting of your other half is always under circumstances and in a manner least expected and in a way not resembling anything that could be imagined. That chance encounter at a place you were only spontaneously 'moved' to go to, and wondering possibly why you were even there, till 'they' showed up and it all became clear. This particular clue has to be used with a great deal of discernment, because 'the other side' can orchestrated these type encounters, as well, sending someone to you designed to take you from your path.

Third is the level of the dynamics of the relationship itself on all levels of our existence; mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. All of these aspects of ourselves are heightened in such a way that perceptions of the world around us are clearer than ever. Just the opposite is true in most other relationships leaving one with confused perceptiveness at best and down right foggy perceptiveness at worst.

Fourth, upon meeting there is a vibration, a tingling, that moves through our entire being that is in response also to that part of us in the other mentioned before. This is not the bio-chemical 'tingle' but rather an electro-magnetic type tingle that gets your attention and has all levels of your being on full alert - saying "pay attention".

The fifth clue has to do with lying. When we are in the presence of our other half we cannot lie; to ourselves and to each other. Again, I think this is in response to holding a piece of the other person inside of us and it acts as a truth meter. We know when the other person is lying to us, and know the other will know if we even tried - so why try.

The sixth clue is that the other half of us is better defined as our polar opposite, much like the old adage "opposites attract". Not opposites in the sense of being so totally different; opposite ends of the various spectrums. It’s my understanding this has more to do with complimenting and completing each other; where one is weak the other is strong and together they demonstrate a wholeness of being. There is a filling in of blanks like two hands clasping filling the voids between the fingers of each hand.

The seventh clue deals with the act of making Love itself. The act of sex between two halves of the same soul takes on a whole different level of intimacy than all other sex. Maybe this is due to the "do unto others." factor, where, on some level of understanding, you know that the person you are making love to is your other half and is literally a holder of a piece of you. I suspect, in sex with your other half, more time is taken to share thoughts (though it seems timeless), the intent behind the touch is to nurture and there is a feeling of emotional security and physical safety. The focus is on the sharing and the pure joy of being in the embrace of one you truly love on all levels and loves you. Any attitude or approach or anything other than just BEING is left at the door.

Eight. There is a true wish to be supportive of the other - a desire to be of service to them and they to us always in a balanced and nurturing manner. There is no feeling to possess the other in any way. No jealousy or need to control. There is a desire to encourage each other to 'BE' all they are, as they are, and only desire they make the changes in themselves they wish to make, and are supportive of their efforts. There are no pedestals, wishful thinking, rose colored glasses, expectations, or conditions. You both see each other as equals and have honor and respect for each other without requiring/demanding it.

Nine. There will have been a 'co-linear' aspect seen in the personal history. You will see that the other has had very similar (if not identical) experiences at or near the same points along the time-line for such major events as marriage, divorce, children (number and sex), turning points of all kinds. You will probably see where you could have met at some earlier time. You can also see from the lessons you learned from that point, why it was just right that you met when you did, and seeing that the time was not right before, and it would not have worked if you had met then.

posted June 19, 2007 04:35 PM         

You said it all

So true all things that you´ve said.
If anyone had a doubt of you hav or have not knoed your soulmate..now there´s no doubt.

posted June 19, 2007 11:23 PM         

I have given this thought from time to time, but in the final analysis I decided that the Power of God can create beauty from manure, and even from poisoned ground. Speaking from an experience or two I have lived myself that were brought to mind when reading the above.
Interesting info... I have experienced a few "soul groups" although I haven't felt a close part of all of them. I have read that your soul group is recycled and you switch off roles, so you might be the father in one life and wife in another life, regardless of relationships or gender, and although that isn't exactly settling, it makes sense in its way. I haven't decided it is the Final Truth, however, and I have read a lot on Soul Mates in a Twin Soul type of way on and off over the years and I don't really know how that fits in or what I believe of that either. Its a nice idea...
I enjoyed your research here. Some nice ideas. I believe in instant connections, instant Knowing, recognizing someone from a past life, etc. I believe that everything you've shared here indicates "soul mates" but does it indicate the One, the ONLY Twin Soul/Soul Mate? I just don't know since I haven't met enough people who really meet these guidelines who aren't possibly related to the above quote I mentioned.

posted June 20, 2007 07:06 AM         

The twinsoul is the most rare relationship we can have and red that only in centuries passed,sometimes we can or cannot meet our twin.
Soulmates is another different thing.
For instance i feel that my bf, being my soulmate,also was my father in another life,and i was his mother! - its a feeling i have cause theres really a very porfound nurture feeling torwards each other and uncondicional - and also dreamt we were married in a century having that knights and castles

But one good thing i consider to have is to do hypnosis in a recognized clinic.My mom did it sometimes and say is very good for us to know what kind of karmic links we have torwards other people we love.

posted June 20, 2007 09:42 AM         

This is awesome.

I agree with everything except for this:

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This is particular clue has to be used with a great deal of discernment, because 'the other side' can orchestrated these type encounters, as well, sending someone to you designed to take you from your path.

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Great work!

posted June 20, 2007 07:58 PM         

"From the moment you meet, there is a certain familiarity, a knowing you cannot describe in words.You feel that you share something unique, something mysterious yet so familiar. You understand each other instinctively,intuitively, and easily, as if you had known each other for eons, as indeed you have.You see right through to each other's core, and you see
each other's best. Each of you is amazed, captivated, even abilities; yet, at the same time, you see all of the other's
weaknesses, the areas in which growth is needed. You are not bothered by these weaknesses, however, because you know or believe the other has what it would take to meet these challenges and grow through them.Yet in your core you each carry and sustain a comfort level,
a feeling of safety and innate understanding you can never put into words. For how can you possibly describe understanding the very depths of one another such a short time after
your physical meeting in this life. You cannot. It is inherent. Natural. It simply is.And it is what you share: your souls, your energy, how in sync you are with each other, how you can sometimes finish each other's sentences, how you have a psychic connection that you have never experienced before.(That last sentance really got to me!!)You have chosen to meet to support each other, to be the best friend, the one who understands. You can show every side of yourselves to each other, and it will always be perfectly all right. Soul mates cannot deceive or hide from each other because they can see right through each other.

Your soul mate feels your energy. You communicate on a spiritual level that is difficult to describe; you have an innate, intuitive, psychic connection.You "know" the other, but your knowing is much more than an understanding; as rational as you try to make it all, you cannot come up with any logical explanation."

Here is my blog address for those of you who want to read the whole thing...
www.myspace.com/moondreamer81

posted June 21, 2007 06:38 AM         

Just want to let you know that I went to your blog and got this message:

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This profile is set to private. This user must add you as a friend to see his/her profile.

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Thanks,

posted June 21, 2007 06:28 PM         

That was a great article. I really appreciate you posting it. Thank you.

posted June 22, 2007 02:23 AM         

I don't mean to be a wet blanket...but i genuinely have this question.

posted June 22, 2007 08:07 AM         

that also might happen.

Cause we all are different souls and spirits and i think when that happens it as to be with evolution and time.

posted June 22, 2007 08:15 AM         

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There is no feeling to possess the other in any way. No jealousy or need to control. There is a desire to encourage each other to 'BE' all they are, as they are, and only desire they make the changes in themselves they wish to make, and are supportive of their efforts.

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posted June 22, 2007 04:32 PM         

Things you even didnt wanted to know about yourself! - things you uncounsciously know, but for a reason or another,didnt came out to the surface

I know what im talking about,be sure hihihi

posted June 22, 2007 05:06 PM         

at least tht's what i tell myself to allay my fears

Also, I agree with MoonDreamer that until we actually reach that level of maturity, that level of self knowledge, we are unlikely to meet our twin soul. I would hate to meet my twin soul(assuming he exists) when I am not ready for it. And then have the relationship fail. That would be painful beyond words.

The question that bothers me, is how long after we feel we have come into our own, would HE materialize ?