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Sunny Mavericks
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posted July 20, 2007 10:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunny Mavericks     Edit/Delete Message
Well, it's a long story so I'll just say this- I love an Aqua (my ex) who says that he doesn't know what love is so he doesn't know if he loves me. He shows his love through sex and has a hard time showing affection in any other way. I think that he loves me back, but just doesn't realize it.

Anyway, I was wondering what aspects in a person's chart would cause someone to be so out of tune with their emotions?

Moon- Aries
Mercury- Cap
Venus- Aqua
Mars- Pisces


If it helps, I think that this is his chart. I wasn't sure about the time or location... but I think it's right.
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3;btyp=w2gw;cid=oezfilebPT61J-u1184740431;nhor=2

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hippichick
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posted July 23, 2007 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
A male with an Aqua sun is all you need to know..

They feel and they feel deeply, but can not emote...can not express....

Bless them all....

BLess us...

For I love one too...

T~~~

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miss_muffet
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posted July 23, 2007 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for miss_muffet     Edit/Delete Message
It's the Venus in Aqua...

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miss_muffet
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posted July 23, 2007 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for miss_muffet     Edit/Delete Message
It's the Venus in Aqua...

MM

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Diandra23
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posted July 24, 2007 07:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diandra23     Edit/Delete Message
Both Sun and Venus in Aqua yes...my bf has an Aqua Moon imagine that!

At first i was very surprised cause he sometimes doesnt express his emotions the way i needed him to;or when he does,its a little abrupt and not in so much a cancerian way ( asc) :P - then, i started reading Linda+s Book about sun signs and i realised it was the way he is ( his aqua moon).
Its not that he doenst feel; he sureely feels it, but he doesnt know how to express it.

That way he has of expressing through sex it was the way he maaged to show you his love.
One thing: did toy looked to asteroids love,valentine and lust in your sinastry?
If lust conjuncts the otherīs venus;valentine or amor/love,then it might explain that his expression of love to you comes from that conjunction

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Sunny Mavericks
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posted July 25, 2007 04:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunny Mavericks     Edit/Delete Message
Ah, hippichick, blessings to you. It's hard isn't it?

Diandra, an aqua moon, that sounds horrible! lol. Do you think that they will ever learn to express themselves?

I haven't looked at our asteroids. I'm very confused by synastry, but I will give it a shot.

Thanks everyone for your reply.

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Diandra23
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posted July 25, 2007 06:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diandra23     Edit/Delete Message

Itīs not horrible,its just dificult sometimes...binding emotions(moon) with Aqua, well, i think you have an idea on that!

Its maneagable though, and specially its important when we are aware of specific placements that the person we love has,then,when we start thinkin of stuff we shouldnt like "OMG,if he says he doesnt know what its love, then he doesnt love me.." or " i really needed to feel more emotions expressed from him so that i could feel more secure.."

The moment we start to doubt, we should remember that he has Aqua hihihi - and so he needs us to show what Love is and what we need from them to make us feel secure

Dont worry its a matter of previous awareness and then understanding!

About the asteroids: just look on 447-Valentine;Lust-4386;Amor 1221;Love:4091 - they might make tight aspects and it would help you understanding why he express love through sex - look at his natal too

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darkdreamer
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posted July 25, 2007 06:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for darkdreamer     Edit/Delete Message
I have an Aquarius-moon myself, which is also unaspected and a Capricorn-Venus and a retograde Saturn in Cancer in the 8th house. *rolls eyes* I have it all, don`t I?
Well, even though I am female and should be more easily be in touch with my emotions I am not.
What "Should" love feel like this?
I have learned to express my feelings, but I do it in an almost analytical way or by writing poetry; I can express feelings with words, but not so much in other ways.
However, there`s always this doubt. Is this really love?
There has only been one time in my life ever, that I was dead-sure it was the real thing, real love. But since then, the doubt has always been with me.
*shrugs* But probably that doesn`t mean I donīt love at all, it only means I sometimes don`t know that I do.
I know this is not very helpful. But Aquarians do feel, they are just a bit helpless when it comes to emotional things.
Maybe other people can see more clearly if they love someone than they know themselves, judging by the way they act or what they say, how they say it.

DD

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Diandra23
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posted July 25, 2007 07:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diandra23     Edit/Delete Message
DD,

Hi!How are you?

=)Of course Aqua feels Love!They believe in it also, as i see that in you also, and on my bf.

Its a matter of expressing, not of feeling.
The feeling is there, but not the howīs to express it.

My bf sometimes is very romantic but suddently analyses feelings and starst to act like if he was a virgo on that hihihi ( has a virgo venus then..)but me being a virgo, im aware of that tendency :P

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Aphrodite
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posted July 26, 2007 12:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
I just looked at your friend's chart. He's still a young man and it is natural for young people to ask questions and question . . .

I think he's actually a very intuitive and complex individual. With 2 T-Squares and nearly all but 2 planets above the horizon, he just has to be someone who has a need to integrate with others and study them, it's a very Aquarian trait. He would be a natural in a field requiring him to make assessments on based on instinct, as it is easy for him to give unbiased opinions. He can remove himself from situations and communicate in abstracts and theories.

Jupiter conjunct Uranus in the 7th house indicates that he probably has a tendency to attract women who are unpredictable and over promise. Mars squaring that conjunction is an indication for volatility in relationships.

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Juno
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posted July 26, 2007 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Juno     Edit/Delete Message
sun square saturn in his chart might be a bit of a dampner on him, though Aquas can be mysterious without any planetary help. Moon opposed pluto...well that suggests a lot of emotions I would have thought..but the need to intergrate them might prove difficult?

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Sunny Mavericks
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posted July 29, 2007 10:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunny Mavericks     Edit/Delete Message
Aphrodite, Juno. Thanks for checking out his chart. Very interesting stuff that explains a lot.

Sunny

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