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Topic: Scorpio male/ Cancer female/ Aries male
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sister golden hair
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: WA USA
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted August 12, 2007 01:51 PM
 
Hi all. I am hoping for a little dating advice. I am finishing up a divorce, and have been working on being single for the past year and a half. I don't know much of anything about dating. I met a guy I really liked, and we started emailing and texting each other. We made plans to go to a on a date, and tried to get together a few times before the event, but we are both really busy (He has a full time job in another town and is in local band. I am a single mother and college student with two kids.) He had to cancel the date, because family showed up unexpectedly....but I had to call him the night before to find that out. He never called to cancel. He's a Scorpio, and I hear that's typical. I saw him last month, he was all ears, hugs, and smiles. We had some great conversations, and then I told him to call me at the end of the night, and he never did. He had told me to call him a few times previously, but it always ended in me leaving a voicemail, and getting a text apology for not answering. So, I being a Cancer who put myself out there, backed off and gave up. Now he emails a month later asking if I'm gonna be at an event this weekend. He is really nice when we are in contact, but I am baffled by his inability to make any plans. I thought Scorpios are pretty bold about what they want. My friends who have seen us together think he seems really into me. Any advice?Secondly, I had met another guy last year who is an Aries. He is a really nice guy also, and we email occasionally because we are both starting the same program at our college. I halfheartedly asked him out last year, and he ignored the invite. Then I saw him out last month, and he was friendly and we talked for a while. The next morning, he emailed me asking if I'd had a good time. I replied and have sent him an inquiry regarding our program admissions since then, and he hasn't answered either. I know Cancer and Aries aren't usually a great match, but I have read the "beginning" is firey. I could go for just a beginning right now. (smile) I appreciate any insight you all might have. Thanks! IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
Moderator Posts: 4862
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted August 12, 2007 02:10 PM
Hi sgh ~Bremerton, eh?? Is "Hobbit House" (near Belfair) still standing??
Are you an America fan??  If I were to offer any (non-astro) advice, it would be to keep in touch, but casually, and infrequently, and see if they come to you..... Astrologically, and just by Sun signs (which is a small but integral part of the whole) Aries and Scorpio can be a good match, as your ruling planet is Mars (Mars co-Rules Scorpio). There's no reason Aries/Cancer can't work, but it would depend a lot on the other aspects in your intercharts..... Zala IP: Logged |
sister golden hair
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: WA USA
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted August 14, 2007 03:00 AM
Yes, I am an America fan.Thanks for the input. A Scorpio friend of mine pointed out that Scorpios tend to either go for "one nighters" or very serious relationships, and that they know this about themselves. She thinks he might know I'm not a "one nighter" and knows he doesn't have time right now, so he's keeping me on the back-burner. Thoughts? IP: Logged |
Love
Knowflake Posts: 539
From: Canada
Registered: Feb 2006
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posted August 16, 2007 06:30 PM
I know it's just generalizing about Sun signs here, but in general:I agree with your friend. I'm a Cancer female with a lot of experience with Scorpio men and they really will let you know that they're into you, if they are. They will also be very clear about what they want. He may be hedging his bets at this point. How old is he, btw? Scorp men are pretty black and white when it comes to one night stands vs. long term relationships as well. If they want a serious relationship with you, you'll know. Alternatively, once you've become a one night stand, that's likely all you'll ever be to them. There's usually not a lot of halfway in these areas, for better or for worse. The good thing is at least you know where you stand. If and when he decides that he wants you, he will (very intensely) try to woo you. Of course at that point you might be having a very lovely affair with the Aries. But as for Aries men, I'm not a lot of help in that department. IP: Logged |
sister golden hair
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: WA USA
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted August 17, 2007 12:10 AM
Yeah, I know the sun sign part can be vague or not apply, but I don't know his exact birthday. He in his mid 20's.IP: Logged | |
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