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pinkleo
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posted August 13, 2007 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pinkleo     Edit/Delete Message
his bdate is oct 25 1960 in ny, ny. i think mid afternoon but we don't have an exact time. it would be greatly appreciated. he says he wants to be committed/serious with me now and loves me etc. and is begging forgiveness. i just don't know what to do.

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Peri
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posted August 13, 2007 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message
cheating is cheating regardless of his natal chart or placements; I hate it when people do such things and then plead for forgiveness and swear they will never do this again! argghhh!!!!!

my condolences to you, pinkleo think twice before you decide to forgive him, is he worth the pain and the heartache? Is he worthy of your love when he breaks your heart?? is he????

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capnsag
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posted August 13, 2007 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capnsag     Edit/Delete Message
I don't know. On the one hand I'd think 'once a cheater, always a cheater' but if he would be willing to do serious work with a therapist and find out the underlying reasons he's doing this, I'm always thinking people should get one chance. Does he have a history of cheating? Is he willing to look at why he does it?

My heart goes out to you. Having a pretty scared heart from betrayal myself, I feel for you.

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let ther b light
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posted August 14, 2007 02:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message
hey pinkleo
i think you should give him one chance on the condition that he does not keep in touch with the girl he went out/made out with.
if he does want to keep in touch with her then maybe you are not so important to him.
i broke up ayear back with my boyfriend of seven years because i found out that not only had he cheated on me but he also did not cut contact with the girl inspite of promising to do so.
hope things will be better for you

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GeminiLover75
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posted August 14, 2007 03:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
So sorry to hear about this.

If you take him back, you're likely to have serious trust issues with him. Can you ever really trust him again? Can you live your life with him, wondering and worrying what he might be doing behind your back? Even if you forgive, and even if he really does commit to you, you can't ever forget. Many couples go into counselling to work through the broken trust and regain the trust and security that needs to be in place. If he's willing to work through the effects of this with you, maybe in couples counselling or maybe not, and to give YOU time to heal from the betrayal, then you might be able to believe him and give him another chance. If he's not willing to acknowledge the betrayal as something deeply serious and not willing to do WHATEVER HE CAN to make this right, then move on.

Either way, you will get through this - the choice whether or not to get through it with this man in your life, is up to you.

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pinkleo
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posted August 14, 2007 06:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pinkleo     Edit/Delete Message
thanks everyone. the last two days have been just awful. i had gotten back together with him in the beginning of july and apparently he was still seeing someone he said was previously over. i'm still thinking about it. could someone look at his chart in any case to see what it looks like for me? thanks

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GeminiLover75
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posted August 14, 2007 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiLover75     Edit/Delete Message
If you post it, I'll try - but I'm not that great at it. Maybe someone else will be able to analyse it better than me. How about also posting synastry and a composite, as that would let us see how the energies between you and him interact?

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