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Got Gemini?
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posted August 22, 2007 12:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
Just out of curiosity, how does moon conjunct venus help a relationship? (Within an orb of 0.32) (The man's venus in cancer and the woman's moon in cancer/ his sun in gemini, her sun in aquarius)

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posted August 25, 2007 04:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
Comfort and ease within the relationship...a feeling of relatedness...

Especially with "compatible" suns

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posted August 26, 2007 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysticMelody     Edit/Delete Message
Maybe it means she deeply and intuitively understands and accepts his flirtatious side, but... that is probably more the trine. The conjunct is the mirror and reflection of yourself, so you have to deal with seeing your self in the things that bother you about that side the partner....
So, it is still good, but more work for both of you. If you are both mature and do the work, you will raise and refine your vibrations. If you don't... YAY you get the same lesson again (in a new and interesting package) again and again through this life and even lifetimes.
If you are both aware and mature enough to handle it, give it a go. I think that even if you are the only one trying, your next package might have some extra goodies that make it more pleasant to learn the lesson you WILL LEARN.

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just disregard anything that doesn't apply

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posted August 27, 2007 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
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Comfort and ease within the relationship...a feeling of relatedness...

Especially with "compatible" suns


Yeah, we have compatible suns that are trine. Hers is Aqua and mine is Gem.

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winky_winky
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posted April 06, 2008 11:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for winky_winky     Edit/Delete Message
Ggemini i have this VERY powerful aspect in synastry with someone i fancy A LOT and i suppose that it depends on the rest of the chart as our rship is not easy or comfortable at all quite the opposite... so uhmmmmmm...... dunno really

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posted April 18, 2008 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
Well, her and I never argued. And for some reason, I always felt like we understood each other. We didn't make it but the time we spent together was GREAT.

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GrlyGirl20
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posted April 26, 2008 06:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl20     Edit/Delete Message
I have this placement with a boy I am CRAZY about and to be honest it's a very nice placement, I'm the venus, and I've never really been the venus before. Usually when I have this placement with someone I'm the moon, and as the moon I'm way more attached and emotional about the person. But he dosen't seem it at all, however our placment (which is at my 27.00 deg venus, and his 26.54 deg moon) is in taurus afterall.

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posted April 28, 2008 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutoprincess     Edit/Delete Message
how do "softer" aspects such as a sextile or a trine between venus - moon affect a relationship?
The result definitely isn't as obvious as in a conjunction, or is it or does it something totally different?

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Arnicka
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posted April 28, 2008 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Arnicka     Edit/Delete Message
[cross posted to the main site moon conj venus thread]

This one may be a bit lengthy

Natally I have the conjunction and I've actually experienced both another's Venus hitting this pt as well as another's Moon. Very strange the way it plays out for me because even though I have the conjunction the responses [more or less] are true to form to what you would "expect" with this aspect, meaning that I take on different roles in dramatic turns. I've found that the sign it occurs in is -crucial- in finding out how this would play out. Now keep in mind my conjunction [2 deg] natally makes a strong square to pluto [moon venus mp conj pluto within minutes] and loose squares to mars and saturn:

When I'm Venus - There is a profound urge to want to nurture and comfort any "negative" emotion emanating from the moon person, not to mention the fact that I find them insanely sexy and attractive [the smaller the orb the more prevalent the nurture and care is that i feel]. There's like i said a definite sexual component but it's borne out of "let me take care of you, let me know where you want to be touched, etc." not a crude sexuality at all, there's a strong element of care [keep in mind that we'd have moons conjunct as well so that could add to it]. my conj is in capricorn and this sign as the moon can have big problems in letting their guard down - so I've noticed very strongly that these men would show their vulnerable sides to me in very endearing ways [ something that the avg cap moon man is not comfortable with by nature - speaking from my experience]. Most of them expressed an urge to want us to move in together and in many instances they would display "needy" behavior [ok keep in mind my moon is in cap so this is where i'm coming from and also working on...]. For example one man would claim [and i believed him] that the only way he could feel improved about a situation/problem that had presented itself was by talking to me [so to me this seemed needy and semi-claustrophobic - you can tell i have a fear of intimacy ]. If anyone wants more examples feel free.

Being the Moon person - ok Moon in cap is IMO insanely riled up when things are not going accdg to plan, when others are not pulling their weight, and as a rule feel much more comfortable expressing "negative" [ie bitchy] emotions than something more vulnerable [disagreements welcome but this is my very varied experience]. I can not emphasize enough how every shred of insecurity and negativity seemed all of a sudden like a distant memory when I was around those who had venus in cap conj my moon. It was as if, finally someone gets it, someone understands how serious i am about these things and they don't berate me for it. It was almost addicting. And like you can guess I hated to admit it but I became needy of that comfort that I sensed from being around them. I was also physically attracted to them but it wasn't as engrossing as in the previous situation. Around them I felt as if I could finally breathe and that it was OK to have the worries and concerns that I had but they are not the end of the world, it's nothing to get so insanely caught up with.

It's strange going from one of these roles to the other because I become the nurturer / "seducer" in one and then the emotional basketcase in need of understanding in the other. You can pretty much tell from this that I prefer being the Venus person - much more in control

p.s. It's at the point now where i can meet someone and know instinctively that this aspect is in the charts, the feeling is that strong.

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posted May 22, 2008 02:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
Yes I can definitely relate to the "caring for you" feeling with this aspect. I was the Venus person and our conjunction was in Cancer. Whoa! You want to talk about nurture? Whew, there was a LOT of care between us.

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girlloveboy
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posted May 22, 2008 04:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlloveboy     Edit/Delete Message
I also have this with someone...his Venus EXACTLY conjunct my Moon and South Node.

And i also feel the caring side and the familiarity what you've already mentioned.
And beside that i just feel i WANT to be close to him (physically) cause it just feels SOOO natural to do so. As if there would be a magnet between us, or sth.

But since i dont want more than being friends with him, its a very strange situation...

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posted May 22, 2008 04:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah I can also relate to the wanting to be around the moon person and be near them. We were around each other almost everyday for months in a row. I still miss her. Maybe i'll post our synastry here tomorrow.

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posted May 27, 2008 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for winky_winky     Edit/Delete Message
this guy with whom i have venus conj moon in synastry regularly says i am the only person he can talk to and seems quite needy- i, on the other side, am very much attracted to him and quite fed up with his neediness, not that i am put off, it is just that i would like to have more fun-time instead of him pouring out his worries to me constantly

on the other hand, i am CRAZILY attracted to him in a physical way, but that might be more coz our moon (his) conj my mars

he doesnt seem so hell bent on our physical connection, it was the part i enjoyed the most i must say............

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