posted August 28, 2007 12:45 PM         

I am new to this site and to astrology. I was comparing my chart to the chart of a friend and I saw that his Eros is conjunct my Eros and his Psyche is conjunct my Psyche. I haven't been able to find anything so far about this type of connection. Does this mean nothing and that is why I haven't found anything?

posted August 29, 2007 01:08 AM         

There are some old posts i'm sure about it..but to get you started, check out this site

http://www.falconastrology.com/ use search also their forum

posted August 29, 2007 01:24 AM         

Eros contacts to each other in synastry comparisons highlight themes of erotic attraction, desires for intimacy, potent love, sexual union and creative passion. Having Eros closely aspected by synastry does not guarantee an intimate or creative union with the other person, although it does suggest that desires for intimacy and creativity awaken through contact with each other.

Eros contacts are often felt right away. People with these aspects will feel an instant stimulation as if something deep inside them dazzles. This may come as a wonderful and healing experience to someone with a dormant erotic nature or for one who is defensive and protective when it comes to inner passions. Eros gets in through most shields before anyone knows what hit them.

However, this connection does not always result in or resemble a sexual passion. It can occur as a creative desire that ignites between the couple and marks the beginning of an artistic association. It can also be experienced as an unrequited love that sustains an otherwise lonely writer or artist through the indefinite emotions of the creative project. People with this contact do not have to meet. They simply have to know that the other person exists.

When they do meet and the nature of the contact is sexual intimacy, the powerful forces at work tend to focus on a profound level of merging. The couple may not have a durable relationship with each other but they are likely to have one that neither will ever forget. Eros brings people together more for purpose than pleasure and the purpose here is to transform. Few entering this liaison will walk away unchanged.

Eros contacts to Eros in themselves make little comment either way on the duration of the relationship. They indicate more a sense of recognition by one or both people involved and also quite possibly a compulsion. The desire nature of Eros can be more than overwhelming, especially with the conjunctions and oppositions. Those with this contact may find themselves doing and saying things that previously had no place in their repertoire. Risks are taken, bank accounts purged, long term relationships abandoned and rules utterly broken.

Eros does not care for the socially correct attitudes, the hard earned objectives and the long term commitments. Eros cares for union, merging and the power of love to transform. If it takes a day, a week or a decade, no matter, Eros in contact to Eros almost always have its way.

Above references found at: http://erosastrology.proboards
You may wish to check out these links as well:
psyche
eros
another on eros

I hope this helps answer some of your questions....
I wish you luck on your adventure!
Now go explore

posted August 29, 2007 08:59 AM         

I'm just going to have a look at the other links you posted and see whats what.

posted August 29, 2007 01:02 PM         

That explains SOOO much! He and I worked together until last Thursday, when he left to go back to school for Art Education, which was really unexpected as he is 38 and worked there as an EMT! He and I rode the same parking shuttle and walked in together our first day, and that was it! We are practically mirror images when it comes to likes and dislikes, but total opposites outside (I'm a white female, he is a black male.) Now I understand why I've pretty much went CRAZY since he left! I start crying out of the blue and I can't stop thinking about him. I feel like my heart is gone if that makes sense.

I guess it is true, you don't know what you got until it is gone.