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geminilibrarising
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posted September 12, 2007 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminilibrarising     Edit/Delete Message
I very recently

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Mama Mia
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posted September 12, 2007 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Its good and he knows trust me..Just leave it at that let him bring it up..He sounds ok with it but you never know they are ruled by Uranus...

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annaf
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posted September 12, 2007 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for annaf     Edit/Delete Message
well it's quite obvious what he meant!! And considering that his emails are generally on the cold side, as you mentioned, I guess this warm email couldnt be a better sign that he IS actually in touch with his feelings....jut not very expressive.

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geminilibrarising
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posted September 12, 2007 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminilibrarising     Edit/Delete Message
"well it's quite obvious what he meant!!"

Annaf, so you're saying it seems he feels the same way I feel?

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annaf
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posted September 12, 2007 04:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for annaf     Edit/Delete Message
I would definitely say so!! But as Mamma Mia said, leave it at that, so he can take his own sweet time communicating what is only implied right now. All sounds great, so try to relax! Oh I'm jealous, if the guy I like was half as responsive I'd be floating! :-)

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posted September 12, 2007 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlloveboy     Edit/Delete Message
He surely does

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geminilibrarising
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posted September 12, 2007 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminilibrarising     Edit/Delete Message
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!

lol

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girlloveboy
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posted September 12, 2007 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlloveboy     Edit/Delete Message
Just do not jump on him

Good luck to you

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geminilibrarising
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posted September 12, 2007 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminilibrarising     Edit/Delete Message
LOL at Girlloveboy.

It's kind of strange that I even sent him that email. I just suddenly thought, hell, I could die tomorrow. I am CRAZY about this guy so why not let him know? Why not just swallow my pride for ONCE in my life and make myself vulnerable. Even if I'd never heard from him again I would not have regretted putting myself on the line just once and letting him know (in a slightly coy way) just what I'm feeling. I'm sure he has a very clear idea of how I feel at this point, lol

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posted September 12, 2007 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlloveboy     Edit/Delete Message
Yup, he surely knows how you feel.
Aquas are very intuitive, dont be surprised if you would feel like he can almost read your thoughts...
So, be careful

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posted September 12, 2007 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for annaf     Edit/Delete Message
did you just have the courage to send another email today to make things clear? or was it the same mail you had mentioned in the other thread and which he had ignored at first? I seriously admire your guts to just jump!!

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posted September 12, 2007 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminilibrarising     Edit/Delete Message
Anna: I only sent one email. Took about 2 days to get a reply

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Lucia23
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posted September 13, 2007 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
I think it's a really great response from him!

My vote would be to totally play it cool now...if you email back, just be warm and friendly, don't try to "clarify" the unsaid part by saying it...and see him in person as soon as possible!!!!

Email sucks...so much of this should happen in person.

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geminilibrarising
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posted September 13, 2007 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminilibrarising     Edit/Delete Message
Hey Lucia, I'm not even thinking about asking him to clarify that email. I'm just feeling very happy right now!

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posted September 13, 2007 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ribbons of color     Edit/Delete Message
Just play it cool now, don't push, even though it sounds wonderful now, the smallest push, just might send him running in the other direction, he'll come around in his time, not yours, when he feels safe, and its anyones guess when that will be.

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etoile03
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posted September 14, 2007 03:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for etoile03     Edit/Delete Message
Hi GLR

yep i'd also go along with the others and say he knows what you mean and he's cool with it. congrats - now take it easy so he doesn't get freaked out lol

I've been in a similar situation just recently with a guy with moon in aqua, lots of virgo and scorp and 12th house stuff going on and I have SO many times nearly blurted out YEAH BUT IM PRETTY SURE I LOVE YOU - HELLO IN THERE!!!
somehow and with great difficulty i resisted that temptation and said it in other ways,bloody chicken that I am.

anyway little by little I'm getting the affectionate stuff back in increasing amounts, so Im feeling pretty optimistic about how he feels.
Like ya said, u only get one shot at "this" life so you gotta go with it if it feels right. I can think of nothing worse than looking back on the dvd of my life after i pop my clogs and seeing that yes "mr x was totally in love with you, just shy, and if you'd acted on it you would have been in heaven on earth"

just my 2 euros worth
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posted September 14, 2007 08:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminilibrarising     Edit/Delete Message
"yep i'd also go along with the others and say he knows what you mean and he's cool with it."

That's a funny concept - somebody being "cool with" another person being in love with them. I'd say that depending on how you feel about the individual who loves you, you'd either be feeling ecstatic about it, or you would not be into it at all and would feel awkward about it.

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etoile03
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posted September 14, 2007 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for etoile03     Edit/Delete Message
hi GLR

for the sake of clarity i'll define what i meant by cool with it lol, ie it hasnt freaked him out.

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geminilibrarising
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posted September 14, 2007 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminilibrarising     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Etoile.

He is out of town for a couple of months now. I am not sure whether/how to reply to his email. I guess just go back to light-hearted chatty stuff? God I wish he was here right now!!

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posted September 15, 2007 12:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpio Chick     Edit/Delete Message
Ahhh, can you feel the Air-iness of all of this.... The hint of the unknown, the reading between the lines. This is the trine of the Aqua-Gem... They feel it, and they may try to mislead themselves, but everyone else already knows...


It's Love.

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Lucia23
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posted September 15, 2007 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Absolutely go back to lighthearted, chatty emails...although I'd shoot more for "warm but not too personal, yet fascinating"...and I hope the time flies until you see him next!

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tifavirgo85
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posted October 31, 2007 02:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tifavirgo85     Edit/Delete Message
sweets every woman knwos the rule is dont ever tell a man you love him first... its jsut bad...

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joy
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posted October 31, 2007 10:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for joy     Edit/Delete Message
LOL

I read that and from my experience with Aquas "I think/believe I care for you" works very good. For aquas like to know
1. That you think
2. That what you say is what you believe
3. That you are a friend first, which 'I care for you" implies
now, that is less scary than 'i love you',

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posted November 02, 2007 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
to hear "I love you" from an Aqua will shake the earth..I have experienced it twice---from the same Aqua...

To hear him call you his "very good" friend is more of the norm...

Either way is just a blessing!!!

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