posted September 15, 2007 01:16 AM         

This is basically a cry for help, any help for winning a heart as time is running out like sand through your fingers in the summertime.

As the story goes.. boy met girl, boy fell in love with the girl and...

now boy needs help in winning the heart of a Scorpio lady. Tricky I know.

A bit of background information. We have been working in the same firm for over a year...
Never noticed her/had any interest until I had to look around
to name my follower (was I blind?). About 4 weeks ago as we started working closer together and i started to show her the tricks and how to's of the business. We felt like old-old friends.(she eaven commented on it, how comforatable she was with me) From that time I have been desperatedly trying to get to know her better, not an easy task, i must say. All I have achieved is a confession of making her speachless in every way – positively so (my 24/7 attention to her, flowers and other small imaginable favours etc ?), that i can make her smile and forget the bad sides of her current relationship, she enjoys my company, and a massage for her.

And still I have actually no idea where we stand... are we more than friends or...
There are times that within a single second I can actually stop excisting and she can be cold as ice, then sad and after that happy and playful..

and im desperatedly in love. I mean what should I do? Just tell her...
Try even harder? Or is there no hope at all.. We will have my promotion/leaving part, her promotion party on wendsday.. less than a week.. and then..
the excuses to see her would grow thinner and thinner....

Her chart:
planet sign degree
Sun Scorpio 22°13'34 end of house 5
Moon Cancer 1°16'17 in house 12
Mercury Scorpio 7°40'53 in house 5
Venus Capricorn 9°15'41 end of house 6
Mars Virgo 13°57'28 in house 4
Jupiter Libra 27°29'29 in house 5
Saturn Libra 17°29'51 in house 5
Uranus Scorpio 29°53'19 in house 6
Neptune Sagittarius 23°24'46 in house 6
Pluto Libra 25°21'38 in house 5
True Node Cancer 24°23'45 in house 2
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

HOUSE POSITIONS
Ascendant Cancer 10°53'05
2nd House Cancer 22°55'46
3rd House Leo 6°51'20
Imum Coeli Leo 25°58'29
5th House Virgo 27°28'15
6th House Scorpio 22°25'19
Descendant Capricorn 10°53'05
8th House Capricorn 22°55'46
9th House Aquarius 6°51'20
Medium Coeli Aquarius 25°58'29
11th House Pisces 27°28'15
12th House Taurus 22°25'19

and mine:
Sun Libra 16°06'05 in house 9
Moon Leo 12°56'07 in house 8
Mercury Libra 27°55'36 in house 9
Venus Virgo 21°15'00 in house 8
Mars Virgo 18°34'48 in house 8
Jupiter Aquarius 7°10'59 in house 2
Saturn Scorpio 25°40'40 in house 11
Uranus Sagittarius 14°54'09 end of house 12
Neptune Capricorn 1°02'53 in house 1
Pluto Scorpio 3°56'02 in house 10
True Node Taurus 9°24'51 in house 4
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Sagittarius 17°47'28
2nd House Aquarius 4°58'01
3rd House Aries 0°04'03
Imum Coeli Taurus 2°13'53
5th House Taurus 21°42'19
6th House Gemini 5°46'24
Descendant Gemini 17°47'28
8th House Leo 4°58'01
9th House Libra 0°04'03
Medium Coeli Scorpio 2°13'53
11th House Scorpio 21°42'19
12th House Sagittarius 5°46'24

Any help/thaughts would be highly appreciated.

Thank you,

posted September 15, 2007 05:16 AM         

Well, let me tell you of my experience and then lets see if one of the very generous (hint hint mods Lol!) will help ya out .

I was in teh same boat as you. After 5 very romantic, transformative yet unsuccessful tries at a solid relationship, I was all about ready to give up on settling down for even a week with a gal, let alone start up a committed relationship. It was getting quite obvious that I am not exactly the "keep your feet on the ground" kinda guy; and its kinda unfair asking the significant other to keep up with me while I am going at life full speed, where as they wanna slow things down.

However, through it all though, there was always the head strong scorpio friend of mines just usually always gave that sly smile of hers and was always supportive of my endevours. Heck we actually started doing a lot of things togather. For the longest period of time, I was so reluctant to see things with us on a more higer level then friendship. I mean, five relationship attempts were a bit too much for the time being. Don't get me wrong, all my previous relationships were totally wonderful in their own way, but never did I meet someone who had the same passionate drive at life like my own.

We had dated quite a bit before but I kinda played them all off as casual night outs; even when we both had the time of our lives. Guess the Libra procastination towards love kinda sticks out Lol! I just wanted to be sure... I wanted to be sure that this time around, undefined factors didn't come in the way for a relationship.

So once I had finally convinced myself that there were no hidden surprises that could drive a nail right at the tender tracklines of love, I decided to ask her that if was willing to take things a bit further then just friendship.

And you know what? She said yes (think it was more like "About damned time!" LOL!)

I couldn't be more happier in this relationship of ours. We just click in every possible way. Offcourse it does means being more open to other partner's needs without compromising your own dreams but being the independent spirits that we are, we do understand each other needs for self-exploration and developement.

So my advice? Ask her the big question . See if she wants to take things further. Scorpios generally like guys who actually show a bit of backbone and aren't afraid to be "men."

It all worked out for me, I wish the same happiness to you.

posted September 15, 2007 10:33 AM         

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i can make her smile and forget the bad sides of her current relationship, she enjoys my company, and a massage for her.

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And still I have actually no idea where we stand...

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Sorry to sound so harsh but, geesh! Get a flippin clue. Have you no morals, values, respect for yourself? How about respect for your employer? Your co-workers...
Stay away from this girl!
If later down the road she ends the relationship with her current partner (of her own free will) then so be it. You will have not been the cause and are free to pursue to your hearts content. You won't be guessing then! It will be perfectly clear by her words and actions.

posted September 16, 2007 07:23 AM         

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If later down the road she ends the relationship with her current partner (of her own free will) then so be it. You will have not been the cause and are free to pursue to your hearts content. You won't be guessing then! It will be perfectly clear by her words and actions.

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You're jumping to quite a lot of assumption here already YFIS. First of all, we don't even know yet of her prospects in her current relationship. For all we know, she wants to get out of a seriously abusive relaitonship but she might not want to because of moraily basis. Seen it happen wayyy too many time and the women who then come out of such relationships are so devistatingly scarred that they are just cripplingly reluctant to get into another relationship.

Second, he does needs to ask her. If she says yes then its obvious that she doesn't wants to stay in her current relationship. That is for her to decide.

posted September 16, 2007 01:38 PM         

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And still I have actually no idea where we stand... are we more than friends or...

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Might have something to do with her being unavailable???

I don't know why its human nature to go after what we can't have but anyways, just ask yourself if you would still want her if she actually was available.