posted September 15, 2007 03:42 AM         

will he take my request seriously? will he say yes??

can i even get him to notice me?

the thing is, he's a birth number 4 (and a capricorn) and i'm an 8. so is my son. and i'm sure he'll love having a ready-made-child, who wouldn't?

can we overcome our birth number differences?

(the other guy i thought i might love, currently, a rock star, is a birth number 4 also! another 4? why is that??...
but no, doesn't matter, i'm loyal to my future husband --
don't worry, i'd never look at another rock star if i had you Val. )

posted September 15, 2007 04:41 AM         

WARNING: Undecent language and suggestive themes Lol!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xHklGtW3rwU

Yeah it even fumed me up watching this (damn that Quentien) though he does puts up such brilliant (if not vulgar) arguments.

posted September 15, 2007 04:39 PM         

He just does not know it....yet....

O....Peter~~~

posted September 16, 2007 01:10 AM         

and omg, i'm so excited...we're going on our first date soon...as soon as he calls, but i'm rather confounded....

since i'm asking him to marry me, what should i do about the ring??

i mean, should i purchase the ring and ask him to put it on my finger? or should i give the ring to him, since i'm making the proposal?

awkward....

posted September 16, 2007 11:45 AM         

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Anyone who can "reincarnate" as Jim Morrison is fab in my book

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LOL!!! Actually I am thinking of going out as Jim Morrison during Halloween . Already have the hair going for it. Its not Jim Morrison length yet but its getting there:

posted September 18, 2007 01:42 AM         

HOME::Relationships/Wedding

7 Great Ways to Propose to Your Man
http://ezinearticles.com/?7-Great-Ways-to-Propose-to-Your-Man&id=175521

So you meet the man of your dreams. Usually it is the cafeteria or restaurant near your office, or the shopping mall or the jogging park. And then comes a series of meeting. You like go out with him for movies, spend weekends. You decide that you feel great with him and can be the “Friends for Life.”

Then you are stuck!! You think he loves you, but here’s the Big Problem. You do not know for sure! You have searched for hints, asked him about his girlfriends, tried to find out if he misses you, talked about his views of life ……

Are you confused how to start the right relationship or propose to your man? Everyone told you that it is a man’s job to pop the question. But what if you have been dying to do so? Not to worry, go ahead. Just remember to follow these points.

1) Make him feel special

Take him to his favorite restaurant. Request his special song to be played and order his favorite food. If he is comfortable and relaxed, you will have his attention.

2) Get him in a romantic mood

Invite him to your place and treat him to the best single malt. Make sure that you are dressed in your sexy best. Try something that is in good taste, like put on a soft music. And you should not be disturbed by unwelcome calls.

3) Catch him in the right spirit

Do Not propose to him on a day when he’s had it bad at work. Or say, he’s upset about something. Gauge his mood and only then go ahead. And again remember that being too sympathetic ruins things. On such a day, it is often wise to lend him a silent mental support. You are his best friend, and if he needs your time, gladly spend time without discussing about your relationship.

4) Give him subtle hints

It is best to let him know of your intention in advance. But do it subtly. Say for example, tell him, you need to talk to him about something important. It shouldn’t come as a surprise.

5) Say it with confidence

Do not beat about the bush or show your nervousness. Look into his eyes and say it with confidence. He will love you even more for that.

6) Avoid Overdoing

Do not show your desperation. Otherwise you might lose your guy.

7) Be prepared for the worst

That is if it doesn’t go the way you thought it would. Just don’t cry before him.

All set? My good lucks to you.

and does serving him a single malt not show my desperation? if that doesn't say desperate, then what does? perhaps if i can get him tipsy i'll get lucky. do you think he'll mind that i don't drink? perhaps he'll enjoy drinking the single malt alone, while i watch him, in my sexy best, while floating in soft music.

who could resist?

posted September 18, 2007 02:20 AM         

For the ring, I suggest you buy it for yourself using his credit card. But remember to ask him first about his credit limit, so you don't have an embarrassing "declined" moment in the store. Inquiring about his credit limit would also fulfill "number 4: Give him subtle hints."

I don't think Val will mind that you don't drink. Just don't confuse your Sexy Best with your Sunday Best. I've done that before...both ways! The priest removed some bills from the collection plate & stuck some in my thong. Then when I mistakenly wore my Sunday Best with my man, he made me stick out my tongue for a "communion wafer."

posted September 18, 2007 02:52 AM         

our "song" -- we get very emotional over this, ~

Take My Breath Away
Berlin

Watching every motion in my foolish lover's game
On this endless ocean finally lovers know no shame
Turning and returning to some secret place inside
Watching in slow motion as you turn around and say

Take my breath away
Take my breath away

Watching I keep waiting still anticipating love
Never hesitating to become the fated ones
Turning and returning to some secret place to hide
Watching in slow motion as you turn to me and say

Take my breath away

Through the hourglass I saw you, in time you slipped away
When the mirror crashed I called you, and turned to hear you say
If only for today I am unafraid

Take my breath away
Take my breath away

Watching every motion in this foolish lover's game
Haunted by the notion somewhere there's a love in flames
Turning and returning to some secret place inside
Watching in slow motion as you turn to me and say

Take my breath away
My love, take my breath away

so fitting, don't you think?

posted September 18, 2007 06:53 AM         

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ok, Xodian, i've known Val for years now, how his beauty emanates from within. i'm sorry i have not known you that long, but don't give up!! if the following doesn't work with my man, you just might be getting some soft music and single malt, lol....

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LMAO!!! Naiad babe, you're one Fan-Leo-tistic woman (or you definately have Leo placements in your chart somewhere.) And that's a total compliment Lol!

posted September 19, 2007 05:13 AM         

i'm a sarcastic and facetious girl, but i rarely admit it.

but Val understands me and loves me all the more, just for who i am.

posted September 21, 2007 02:44 AM         

he has a tree house there where he loves to retreat and be in nature: "Look at this tree. It's so solid and yet so fragile that it moves with the wind," he says, grasping one of the oaks. "There's a sense of freedom and wonderment up here"...In places like this," he says, "I can figure out what I'm all about."

and we both have native Cherokee ancestry. i think our karma must be calling.