posted September 24, 2007 06:09 PM         

I'm a Scorp and Cappys are my least fav sign of the zodiac. That doesn't mean I have no Cappy friends or that I think they have no redeeming qualities. However, in a relationship, the pairing doesn't work for me...

However Cappy and Scorp are supposed to be a pretty good match. Hence the conflicting info.

I wish I could tell you more astrological details about the pairing, but I don't think I could likely say it any better than what you're finding online.

posted October 02, 2007 09:16 AM         

I'll try to reply again for you this afternoon.

posted October 05, 2007 10:29 AM         

I am going to have to break it up in segments. I'll come back to it as time permits.

I hope my replies are at least a little useful.

My relationship is constantly causing me to evolve and become self-aware. I've learned more about my self in this relationship than I ever could have on my own.

Is it passionate?

Sometimes too much. We can go through times when everything is amplified and then we get emotionally/mentally exhausted and tone it down. It becomes a little normal and can even be a little boring during those toned down times... but we are usually looking forward to the quiet at that point.

I think that as much as my Capricorn friend is practical and emotions make him a little uncomfortable and puzzle him, he is pretty fascinated by them at the same time.

I realize he doesn't live his life through passion or emotions. I do... so when he is being his practical self, I have to let him be and not expect for him to step outside of who he is in order to please me (unnecessary expectations) and on the opposite end, he is realizing that because he is wired more by mind than emotion, he shouldn't try to rein me in when I'm doing what comes natural to me. (tolerance)

Is he Jealous?

I don't know. If he is, he's good about concealing it.

He told me that he trusts me.

Edit: Sorry about all the typos.

posted October 06, 2007 05:55 AM         

I once asked her "come on mom, weren't you ever jealous of dad like he was?" She didn't give me a direct answer (her eyes said otherwise) but i am pretty sure she did, and she knew how to cover it up VERY VERY WELL.

posted October 09, 2007 09:53 AM         

I'm glad you found my post helpful.

Here are our individual placements.

Me:

Planetary positions
planet sign
Sun Scorpio in house 1/2
Moon Libra in house 1
Mercury Scorpio in house 2
Venus Scorpio in house 2
Mars Scorpio in house 2
Jupiter Leo in house 10
Saturn Virgo in house 11
Uranus Scorpio in house 2
Neptune Sagittarius in house 3
Pluto Libra in house 1
True Node Virgo in house 12

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Libra
2nd House Scorpio
3rd House Sagittarius
Imum Coeli Capricorn
5th House Aquarius
6th House Pisces
Descendant Aries
8th House Taurus
9th House Gemini
Medium Coeli Cancer
11th House Leo
12th House Virgo

Him:

Planetary positions
planet sign
Sun Capricorn in house 3
Moon Libra in house 1
Mercury Capricorn in house 3
Venus Scorpio in house 2
Mars Gemini in house 8
Jupiter Aries in house 6
Saturn Leo in house 10
Uranus Scorpio in house 1
Neptune Sagittarius in house 2
Pluto Libra in house 12
True Node Scorpio in house 2

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Libra
2nd House Scorpio
3rd House Sagittarius
Imum Coeli Capricorn
5th House Aquarius
6th House Pisces
Descendant Aries
8th House Taurus
9th House Gemini
Medium Coeli Cancer
11th House Leo
12th House Virgo

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Scorpio sun, venus, mars, mercury and uranus
Libra moon, pluto and asc.

posted October 16, 2007 07:14 AM         

I am a scorp (female) and have been dating a cappy (male) for just over a year. And, like 1scorp, we too both have venus in scorp - I know what that means on an intimate level....sizzle, sizzle.

On a platonic level, I have many good friendships and close associations with other cappies. And, strangely enough, my cappy partner has many scorp buddies.

We even have friends that are partnered cap/scorp.

I think the association is mostly successful because scorpions are usually very analytical and Capricorns are very level-headed and straight talkers. Neither sign suffers fools lightly.

You asked:

Is it passionate? Is he jealous?
Do you communicate with ease?
Do you ever feel ignored because his priorities are different?
Do you have common goals?

Yes, he is very passionate and very sexy. But, I did not see this, or feel this way about him at first. I fell in love with him from the inside out which I think makes it even more special. He can simply touch my hand and it sends goose-bumps up my spine.

Is he jealous….yes! I have to say, this really surprised me because I am so loyal in a relationship, I don’t give my partner any reason to be jealous. But, for some reason, he is. I remember earlier this year, we went to a seminar/workshop with 2000 people. During the day, we had to complete several exercises, then find a person we didn’t know to share our experience. After lunch, my cappy suggested we sit apart, so we could experience the seminar from a different perspective. At the next break, he told me he watched me partner a tall, very good-looking male and he felt very insecure. I just laughed when he told me because seated on the other side of this very good-looking male was his beautiful wife. Um, needless to say, we didn’t sit apart after that.

For the most part, there is no problem with our communication – as each of us feels able to discuss, deal, and resolve issues as they arise. He did try to recently hide something from me, but I saw through it and just as I was about to confront him, he told me the full story. (Tsk, tsk….why try to hide something from a scorp, lol!)

I do not know if this is true of all cappies but my cappy cuts ties really easily (like for example – he moved on pretty quickly from his ex-wife). This is probably the direct opposite of a scorp, who, because they take a very long time to take someone into their inner circle of trust – they don’t readily throw people away once they get there (unless of course they have betrayed you).

My cappy is highly energized and, extremely motivated. It’s something that I really admire in him. He has many goals and priorities that are different to mine (I tend to make mine up as I go along) but I don’t see this as a problem because at a basic level, we have very similar values.

I also have to agree with 1scorp that this relationship has taught me so much about myself. I have definitely grown (and quite quickly too).

I know that at one stage, he told me that he believed I loved too hard and he was worried that he could not commit to me on an ongoing basis at the same level that I commit to him. So, I can relate to 1scorp’s comments too about getting emotionally/mentally exhausted and having to tone it down. But I think this was more about a fear of commitment than any zodiacal difference.

Life is never boring with him, that’s for sure.

posted October 17, 2007 09:15 AM         

I think the base foundation of the relationship with Scorpio and Capricorn is pretty consistent, but there are differences in each individual relationship.

She and I may both experience similar things... but for different reasons. I noticed that there are different dynamics working though her relationship. Some things she experiences I don't... and I'm sure it's vice versa.

Every person and/or relationship, regardless of sign, are different.

Or could just be that both my Capricorn friend and myself, as individuals, have pretty heavy Uranus aspects. I don't know.

posted October 17, 2007 02:46 PM         

I noticed on the Sag/Cap thread that you gave your personal description of a composite chart.

I have a hard time making sense of composites.

When/if you have time, I was wondering if you would mind to share your opinion on this one.

planet sign degree
Sun Sagittarius 5°44'56 in house 2
Moon Libra 22°43'59 in house 1
Mercury Sagittarius 22°29'01 in house 3
Venus Scorpio 21°47'39 in house 2
Mars Virgo 8°25'49 in house 11
Jupiter Gemini 11°35'12 in house 8
Saturn Leo 21°20'17 in house 11
Uranus Scorpio 11°08'53 in house 1
Neptune Sagittarius 14°28'22 end of house 2
Pluto Libra 14°29'56 end of house 12
True Node Libra 23°37'35 in house 1
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Libra 15°53'02
2nd House Scorpio 13°35'01
3rd House Sagittarius 14°35'20
Imum Coeli Capricorn 17°46'39
5th House Aquarius 20°35'56
6th House Pisces 20°23'14
Descendant Aries 15°53'02
8th House Taurus 13°35'01
9th House Gemini 14°35'20
Medium Coeli Cancer 17°46'39
11th House Leo 20°35'56
12th House Virgo 20°23'14

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Scorpio sun, venus, mars, mercury and uranus
Libra moon, pluto and asc.

posted October 18, 2007 02:59 AM         

With Libra as your Composite Ascendant, you probably present a charming face as a couple. With your joint Moon there in the 1st, your emotional natures may be wrapped up in promoting this Libran image.

Here's another interesting thing with your Composite Moon. It is the ruler of your joint 10th house, the house of career. "The tenth composite house is similar in meaning to the tenth house in a birth chart. It tells about a couple's development, and how they establish their uniqueness in the world. Because of this, the tenth house refers to status and reputation," according to AstroClick Partner. Your development as a couple is linked to your Moon in Libra in the 1st house, which I guess makes sense since both of you apparently have Moon in Libra to begin with.

I see a square between Saturn and Venus. I'm not sure how that plays out in a relationship. Perhaps the discipline (Saturn) in [showy - (Leo)] Humanitarianism (11th) chips away at your money reserves (Venus in the 2nd).

That same Saturn also positively aspects your Moon, so whatever that Saturn in Leo in the 11th energy is, it's helpful to your prominent Moon.

Oooh, Pluto on the Ascendant. I didn't see that. Transformation and/or power is combined with your being as a couple. Could be disruptive or could be beneficial, or a combination of both. It makes a positive trine to Jupiter in the 8th. The 8th house, amongst other things represents other people's money.

posted October 18, 2007 01:20 PM         

You really put some time and attention into it. Thanks!

You did well and actually gave some very accurate information

I won't go into the details of how it all manifests and works out... as of course I'd have to write a very personal novel

posted October 18, 2007 09:56 PM         

With Capricorn on the Ascendant:

Taurus rules the 5th
Leo rules the 8th

These are the two houses connected with sex,
and Taurus and Leo are the two signs,
other than Scorpio and Aries,
most often credited with sex appeal and a strong sex drive.

So, yeah, just from that,
I'd say Cappies are fairly sexual.

Earth signs, in general, are very sensual.
Capricorn has a connection to the horned god, Pan,
and has a very devlish, abandoned, earthy kind of sexuality,
not usually apparent on the surface.
Cappies often do have a kind of wicked look about them,
which I, for one, find rather sexy.