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mantoinette
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From: phila, usa
Registered: Oct 2007

posted November 11, 2007 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mantoinette     Edit/Delete Message
please help me!!!!!
im a taurus 5/6/75 & met a 42 6/28/65 yr old cancer man. we went 2 grab a bite on 1st day we met. he said he dont have girlfren, divorced n 2001, work 3 jobs monday-sat, get his 14 yo daughter sat-monday. he plays a sport and practices a few times a wk, and competes. he does a lot
he went back outta state. talked on phone over a month. wanted me 2 meet the daughter, i said i think he should take time 2 get 2 no me be 4 i meet her. we shared sum things over the phone, hes said he ackowledge i been showin sum interest. he mentioned that he dont no how he would react with me coming to see him cuz with all that he does he dont have company like that. in a conversation, i confessed after 1 month and a half that win he asked me what i wanted from him i said i want to build a frenship but i really wanted to say i wanted more but it was too soon. my heart i swear was feeling sumthing from day one. he said so you sayin you ready to be my wife and the fone was dead silent. i new he was jokin.
i went down there the 1st time after over a month of chattin off and on. was introduced 2 three folks, went to dinner at this really nice place. went 2 breakfast nex mornin. we chated on fone off and on. sum of the 1st talks he mentioned if you feelin sum one in the heart u make time. so 3 wks after i went 2 see him the 1st time. there was opportunities he coulda seen me and didnt. i sent this long email that i felt he wasnt feelin me in the heart cuz he let these opportunities go by and not se me.. we talked about that email. and i went to see him a 2nd time. i wanted him more than once and he was like uh ah your not draining me out like the last time. cuz the last time he was so tired from the night before he called off from work.
i dont think i over did it by takin sum food and 1 pot this 2nd time i went. i planned to cook. but we ate sumthin else. he said sumthing, he not use to this. i didnt get like he meant that in a bad way. well i left next day. he had a competition to go too, wanted me 2 send sum pics, i did while he was gone, a card, and we talk before he left. he tex me out the blu all good. i didnt no what he was referrring to. and i started thinkin 2 much. and text him theres no communication cuz he left me hanging to figure out what he was talkin about. i tex him do he see me as a frend with potential. rong ?. he said cant focus on strong frendship. then all my true feelins came out. i felt like i was fallin in luv and u been on my mind etc in all these tex msgs. i tex him days later was he upset wit me he said no. recently i tex him sumthin bout my mom, he came out the blu he still luv his daughter mom and hope my mom is ok. i replied like a frend . he cald me later we rapped about the text msg showdown and he said gotta go with the flo, and he said i be tellin him not to analyze. becuz he mad a 2nd call i wondered if he made that remark to see how i would reply. that was 10 days ago. i since text him how was he, sent him updated pic of me and left a nice msg. i dont know if now i scarde him or how to get my frend back. help!!! based on the last talk 10 days ago i got the feel we was still flowin but i dont no. during the course win we met i sent him 2 card congratulating about his competition and a b-day card to his daughter which he said that was a good ice breaker..i dont want to give up and show him this is real, i am truly his frend. i may be in love with him. should i send a last voicemail msg and tell him i feel hes being distant. i dont no. please evaluate this guys.. heres my number. 267 230 6205. its my pager only. i hope i can have some people to talk to about this. easter standard time zone

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Azalaksh
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From: New Brighton, MN, USA
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posted November 11, 2007 02:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message
You just wrote this.....

mantoinette
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Posts: 22
From: phila, usa
Registered: Oct 2007
posted November 11, 2007 01:38 PM
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mustang and purple chick. thanks for your replies. yeas. im afraid i will have to let it go. i sent my last text msg to him saying, i dont like the feeling that i may have been a fling to him. and just letting him know i am truly his frend etc etc. that was it. i dont know if he got the text and i havnt cald. everyones telling me they dont think i messed up on the long letters i sent to him expressing my thoughts on stuff. and they say that they dont think i messed up with the text msg show down. im thinking about completly deleting his number out of my phone all together. i dont think i will hear from him again?

We can't "HELP" you in this. You've ignored the astrological advice FROM A PROFESSIONAL ASTROLOGER and you keep posting your story hoping someone will tell you what you want to hear.

Let him go and move on with *your* life. There are other crabs (and fish) in the sea.

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mantoinette
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Posts: 31
From: phila, usa
Registered: Oct 2007

posted November 11, 2007 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mantoinette     Edit/Delete Message
thanks Azalaksh
Moderator . i guess im stupid. I tried to go back and delete this extra post but it didnt let me.
say, is there a limit to how many question people out there can ask. like i been reading some stories on here and there are other like me confused, i dont think its wanting to hear what i want someone to tell me. its more so the more i hear the truth thats what helps me to move on and not bother him. like i actually go on hear and read the same replies over and over again to remind myself. i hope im not being annoying. but thats what the site is for for people to talk and releive som concern.s

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