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cappieluvsscorp
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posted November 19, 2007 02:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello fellow Knowflakes,
The other day I went online because it's been confirmed for me that my boyfriend is a soulmate of mine. I don't know if that has anything to do with what I've been feeling, but I feel his energy at certain times...it's never twice in the same day. I could just be thinking about him, then WHAM I can't get him out of my head, then this overwhelming feeling comes down on me and it's usually felt in the heart chakra (heart/chest area). All this time, I thought it was ME feeling this...but after doing some research it turns out it's HIS feelings at that point in time and I'm feeling it because we are connected spiritually. It's AMAZING!!! I've never felt this with anyone else b4...can anyone shed any light and if they've felt this with anyone before? I am pasting what I found online below:

Are you feeling the warm fuzzies for someone?
Have you ever asked yourself why it is so difficult to stop thinking about someone?We are all psychic in one way or another. When you connect to another man/woman in a deep way, you are connecting with your souls. Most people don't realize how psychic they really are. Everyone is clairsentient whether they know it or not. Being clairsentient means that you have the psychic ability to feel another person's energy and feelings.
Now, when you think about someone in a normal way, there is nothing unusual there. Then all of a sudden you feel overwhelmed like you are in a fog and you can't stop thinking about them. Now, stop for a second and focus on where you are feeling the energy. It is usually in the heart and chest area. You've had that funny feeling before. Remember. You just thought it was YOU. What is going on is that you are feeling THEIR THOUGHTS. WHAT YOU ARE FEELING IS WHAT THEY ARE THINKING AND FEELING ABOUT YOU.
During these times you are experiencing this, you may feel feelings from extreme sadness, or guilt to feelings of peace or missing someone. Keep in mind you only started feeling these thoughts when you connected to their energy. So know that you if you are feeling great sadness, it will pass. If you are feeling a great feeling of peace and joy, you know they are thinking wonderful thoughts of you.
In 2004, after an unexpected breakup with someone, I felt one night he was thinking of me, and then it really got interesting. One Valentines night someone took a picture of our costumes and we each got a framed copy. I knew without a doubt he was looking at that picture and my outfit that I had warn that night appeared in front of my face. It was a spine tingling, emotional and very powerful experience.
I have even felt sexual energy from men. Many years ago before I did my psychic work full time, I was working as a secretary in a hotel. I had a deadline, and this man's energy was quite obvious. I sent it right back to him. He ended up calling me at work and asking me to stop, so that he could get up from his desk. You might want to get a reading from me, so I can teach YOU how to do it. This is not something I usually do, as these days, I live in a nudist resort.
There are times when I know what someone is feeling about me before they actually know it. As a psychic, I have to be careful and allow them to catch up with me. Patience isn't one of my better traits; however, I know it is essential for the relationship.
Recently after an ending to a short relationship, I felt this man's energy very intensely. It was a very powerful love energy that I had never experienced before-purrre love. The energy lasted for 3 days. At some point in our short relationship, we had both chosen not to follow our hearts; however, with that kind of energy, no telling what could have happened........or what could still happen if we let it.

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Mama Mia
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posted November 19, 2007 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I totally know what your talking about..

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GeminiLover75
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posted November 19, 2007 09:34 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, how very interesting!

I get feelings in the chest area, I hadn't realised it before though.

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posted November 19, 2007 10:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueTopaz124     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm, will have to concentrate on this a little more and see what's going on...

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posted November 20, 2007 12:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScrpnBliss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What kind of reading would you need to do? Or is it something you just have to stay attuned to when its happening?

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Lana29865
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posted November 20, 2007 04:41 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, cappieluvsscorp, for sharing that.

When do we know that we are at the receiving end (= feeling the other person's thoughts) and when are we the ones feeling the feelings for real...?

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GeminiLover75
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posted November 20, 2007 05:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good question, I'd like to know this too. Basically, today I was thinking of someone and I could feel a sensation on my chest - but that could just be my own feelings? Or was I truly experiencing an energetic connection with them? Maybe they weren't even aware of it? Or maybe they *were* thinking about me? How would I distinguish any of this?

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cappieluvsscorp
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posted November 20, 2007 10:02 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi all!

ScorpnBliss, it's not exactly a reading I had. But, I have been working with a psychic for a little over 6 months now...she relies very heavily on prayer, meditation, and crystal healing. When she told me my boyfriend was def a soulmate of mine, she said that our souls are connected...but I can't say for sure if this is the only way you can connect to someone. But I think you can connect to anyone, not necessarily just soul mates. What I do when I meditate is ask for our souls and energy to connect...normally, nothing happens at that moment. But, one time I recall feeling like a wave wash over me and I felt so at peace...I couldn't explain it. The psychic told me that those were HIS thoughts, he was thinking pleasant thoughts about me at that moment; hence the "peace" feeling.

Lana, you're welcome! I figured there were others that have experienced the same feeling...so I wanted to share experiences. I can only speak from my own experience, but I've been feeling this overwhelming feeling for a few months now...but in the beginning, I always thought it was just an overwhelming feeling I was getting so I never brought it up to the psychic. That was until about 2 months ago when I was lying down on my bed just watching TV; I had just finished meditating about an hour before and BAM my mind was overwhelmed with thought of him and then I get this "pressure" in my chest and I started to tear...at that moment, I felt that I missed him so much; but it was HIM who was feeling this.

GeminiLover,
Did you feel an overwhelming feeling...almost like an out of body experience? We all think of others normally, but this soul connection feeling is so surreal. I guess that's the best way I can describe it...now I wish I would've paid more attention back when I first started feeling it, but I always thought it was me. It's such an amazing feeling to know you can connect to someone in such a way...especially when my boyfriend has the non-expressiveness disease at times, lol. After I found out that I was connecting to his energy and soul, I wanted to have these experiences all the time...lol! But, we don't choose when it happens.

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posted November 20, 2007 08:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScrpnBliss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is there a certain "kind" of meditation one can do to connect to others? Or is it just meditation in general?

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GeminiLover75
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posted November 21, 2007 01:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, no overwhelming feeling.

But something else interesting that happened recently... a friend of mine has been sad because his dog just died. So I wanted to try sending him some distant healing. I'm not a trained healer so maybe I shouldn't have tried it, but I just got this feeling that it would be a good time to send him some healing energy. So I did it and almost immediately felt a pain in my chest (heart chakra?). So I wondered if by connecting to him to send healing, I picked up the pain he's feeling?

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cappieluvsscorp
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posted November 21, 2007 01:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
GeminiLover,

I've always wanted to know how to do distance healing. How would you do it? Can you somehow help heal someone from the pain of losing someone or help them get over that person? From what you explained, it sounds like you may have connected to him thru visualizing him being healed. I truly believe you can connect to someone in that way. Do you know if it worked on your friend?

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Mama Mia
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posted November 21, 2007 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have experienced where when this person was thinking about me, I felt weak and I got a certain sensation in my body my head..

Also I have had sex through mental telepathy..Weird but wonderful..

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GeminiLover75
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posted November 21, 2007 05:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi CappieluvsScorp. I've been starting to practice self-healing, and that's probably the best thing to do before we heal others. I've been relaxing/meditating and then I visualise a bright white light which is God's healing energy and I visualise it above my head. Then I visualise it going in through my crown and through my body to where I want it to go. Sometimes through my hands and I'll place my hands where I want the healing. I'm not very practiced though. The more intense you visualise the light and the current of it flowing through you, the more intense the healing should be.

For my friend, I imagined the light first flowing through me, and then I visualised him and I imagined I was asking him if he would like some healing and he indicated yes. It's like getting permission from his higher self. If I got the initial impression he was saying no, then I wouldn't have proceeded. But since he seemed to be saying yes, I imagined white light going in through me, and then from me, into his aura. I don't even know if this is the correct way to do it and maybe I shouldn't be playing with what I'm not trained to do. It did shock me when I felt the sensation in my chest. I do know that he's very sad as this dog was his only companion at home and now he's all by himself at nights.

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posted December 07, 2012 02:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rina4life     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi everyone!
I think I found my soulmate too!, this psychic told me but I'm not sure if I should believe her, I mean don't get me wrong I've been liking this boy for a year now,and I can't let him go, its really hard. I cried many nights and praying to let him go but its so hard! He's always on my mind, my friends think I'm infatuated. I deleted his number and unfriended him from facebook to let him go because he told me he had a girlfriend. Man I cried so hard it was like I lost one of my family members. like last night I was crying over him & get this! Right after we stop talking, I started to see his name everywhere. 5 months ago I stopped talking to him and I pray not to see him ever again & bam two weeks ago I saw him I'm like why!!! My friend was saying it was a coincidence, I don't think it was. I'm no so sure if I believe in soulmates, I'm very religious. I'm a christian btw so I stopped talking to psychics ealier in this year but yes its so hard to let him go I feel like he's apart of me, my chest area sometimes I can feel a pull, actually the last time I saw him two weeks ago that same night I felt my heart pull it was weird, I don't have heart problems or anything because I never went through nothing like this in my life, I remember seeing him at school & everytime we see eachother we always lock eyes, we always have this locking eye thing idk why but we do even when I saw him the last time we just looked at eachother. The last time I talked to this psychic she told me just because he dosent show feeling dosent mean he want you spiritually I'm like what? I don't even know what that mean. Everything about him is linked to me some kind of way, like His bday is August 30, mines is June 30, his name is the same as my grandmother name but in a boy way you know for example like sam & samantha? And he looks like my nephew! My nephew is 3 years younger than I, he looks like him which freaks me the hell out! Idk what to do anymore, I cry over him many nights, I prayed so so so much in tears to let him go but I can't its hard, I feel like I'm going crazy and no one understands how I feel about him. I remember the times at school where I caught him staring at me! I also remember his friend was trying to get him to talk to me but he never did, the psychic told me he only moved on becaue he feel that I didn't like him or anything, I mean how would he have know unless he talked to me! So I told him I liked him b ut I told him b4 he told me he had gf which was embarassing, I don't regret telling him at all, but idk if he's my soulmate, he can be idk & if he is, what kind of soulmate is he?

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posted December 07, 2012 05:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome!

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posted December 17, 2012 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by GeminiLover75:
Wow, how very interesting!

I get feelings in the chest area, I hadn't realised it before though.


I have the exact same experience right now... I think I've found my TF, and since Oct/Nov when everything started (I don't remember clearly) I suddenly realized this feeling... just like out of the blue day by day, and I couldn't get any explanation, first I thought I had troubles with my heart!!!

And what do you think is that also possible to feel when they're not just think, but dream about me/us?

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posted January 04, 2013 05:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for flowerpower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have had some similar experiences, mostly with men I was flirting with or more than that. Aside from that, only had this kind of experience with my father, specially during the months before he died.

He lived in another city and he was going through some things. I would feel his feelings of enormous sadness and I knew they were from him.

The other experiences were with men I was flirting with were feeling their lust or just thinking about them - but it can be so strong I have a hard time concentrating in what I have to do at that moment, like work, etc - and I feel it makes me spend my own energy and time of course. So it is useful in a way, because then there is no doubt about the existence of sexual attraction, but come on, can't you wait until we meet ??? :-) Or, if you are so into me call me - don't send me vibes that are difficult to manage... I think we have to know how to manage and avoid these things. After many experiences like this it became important to understand what this energy is, why I am receiving it / synthonized with it, and should I be ? What is the purpose of exchanging it ? Is it good to me ? Because I just spend a lot of time sometimes focusing on something that is not really mine, and is not going to bring anything good to me.

With this guy from a casual situation, with whom I was very much in love with, and it was 10 years ago, and I've never seen him since, it still happens !! And this is why I am in this forum right now, because it has happenned again and it is bothering me :-) Interesting timing ! So, I start to think of him or feel those feelings again and I think it is wrong. I mean he never wanted to have anything with me, he never contacts me. So if there will be nothing concrete in the real world, not even keep contact and maybe it could evolve to a real friendship, then I don't want anything in the invisible world, it just makes it harder. How can you keep the past buried where it belongs like this ?

I have felt the Love and ALL the critics of ALL my defects too. In the few times we exchanged e-mails or when he called me, it comes with "a package" of strong energy mixed with anxiety, I think about what I will think of it and about what I will reply. I knew beforehand when he would call or send a e-mail, I knew I had to go home and be alone (and I lived with my family still... :-). He has a strong energy. I don't know if I have it too. I have considered contacting him exactly when this energy exchange was going on, but never did. In the end, I wasn't as nearly was important to him as he was to me. I suppose I am still open to his energy, and I try not to let my guard down.

I have tackled this in different ways. In the beginning I was curious, I was entertained and it took me a long time to realise what was happenning. Then I have "spoken" to him out loud, asking him to stop sending me the energy, because of the above reasons, and it works. I have asked my Guardian Angel or spiritual guide/support team to help me communicate the message, and it works. I have sent my own thoughts of forgiveness, of love and of "it's alright", and it works. There is this thing about everyone of us being linked by spiritual chords, so the last time I prayed for God, to have my chord with him severed, and it worked, for quite sometime. But you know, eventually it is the end of the year, you're approaching 40, you're alone... and weak :-)

Anyway I like to learn more about this, I like Barbara Brennan's book Hands of Light, that explains well the interaction of our auras when we make use of internal mechanisms identified by psychology. In Brazil there is Espiritismo, that also gives us insights about the workings of the spiritual life, invisible and higher spheres. It is a (christian) spiritual doctrine that deals with nature, origin and destin of spirits and their relation with the material life, in three aspects, phylosophy, science and moral.

I think I will request a meeting in the great beyong to discuss this for once and for all :-) Or will send a representative to negotiate my terms for an energy truce :-)

But I never felt anything in the heart region, etc I dont know. Sometimes is just the good feeling, or the negative thoughts about me and the anger, or waves of "thinking about me".

Oh I rambled. I just wanted to share. Any other critical thoughts ? :-)

Have a good day !

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posted January 08, 2013 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SDragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am experiencing this now with someone. Having a Moon in Pisces, Moon square Neptune aspect and being an empath all my life, I'm not really surprised by it though I wouldn't have been able to handle it the way I have without my maturity.

Our synastry shows 3-4 neptune contacts and a strong NN conjunct ASC soulmate connection. She has Venus in Scorpio so I'm not sure how much of that intensity derives from that, but whenever she thinks of me, I get heat in my chest/heart chakra area. The intensity can be mild to a very warm sensation (like touching the underneath of a laptop when its on).

Early on in our interaction, she was able to influence me and actually 'direct' my actions almost like a magician could do because of our connection, but as time progressed and I was able to differentiate between my own desires and her thoughts, I've since defined boundaries where I say no, or get upset and I know she can 'read' my feelings. But yes, our connection is very strong - shared feelings, sensed feelings, telepathic communication (actually having the other person's words in our mind like an actual conversation). Supposedly, as we evolve, more and more soul unions will occur...

But never forget as these sensitivities open we need to be aware of the potential for misuse (just like any scientific technology). She liked to project her jealousy and insecurity onto me and it becomes annoying to have those thoughts projected into your mind when you know that they're not yours, even though it feels like yours. She was also able to put a bubble around me where it would feel like my life was empty without her energy around me but I telepathically called her on it and she stopped. Not sure how to explain it.

But anyway, those were my experiences and I guess as more and more soul unions occur we need to constantly keep raising the vibration towards love and refuse to stay in the lower vibrations. She no longer attempts to manipulate me (as much) but I'm on constant vigilance now that I know what she can do.

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posted January 09, 2013 10:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JLyn ~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just out of the blue when you havent thought of that person in weeks, months years... you feel love, miss them, or feel hurt from that person


it's very strange when you go from happy walking in the store to BAM!!! your thinking of an old ex for no reason feeling like hes hurt

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posted February 13, 2013 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cat lover     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It was only just two weeks ago when i felt this feeling too. The only way i can explain it is that it was love/pain/sadness and seperation at the same time but it was coming from him.

I know it wasn't my feeling but his. It was overwheleming as i could literally feel a wave of internal pain that swept through my heart chakra and i ended up crying! Even though theres distance and no communication between us atm i still feel connected to him. I dont know if its the invisible cords that connects us emotionally/spiritually who knows.

I've been working on sending him mental messages for all the things i couldn't get to say to him in person. I'm now working on cutting the cords between us because he's the one who been the runner and i dont want to feel any more of his pain or any from my heart. It's too much to take on a regular basis.

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posted March 01, 2013 11:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for eyes_like_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This has happened to me twice now recently. The first time I remember walking in the door ...and felt as if I was in a trance. A trance of my bf's essessences just as described here. Then went to the couch to nap..it was so overwhelming, warm, and peaceful. The second time was right before he sent me a "<3" text it was so strange because I could actually feel the emotion grow from a tingling to very powerful in a span of 5minutes or so.

I've even discussed this with him...and btw he has a bit of spiritual sensitive abilities. But he's not aware that he's doing that and now I would love to make him feel this way when were apart. Any tips?

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posted March 03, 2013 03:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithpluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had this experience when the night my dad met with an accident. I can literaly hear him screaming in my sleep.. We have a stellium of planets concentrated in virgo in composite.

I also had this with a crush I have... I can feel him thinking of me during waking hour at work whenever he is thinking of me with good or hurtful feelings.. it affects me. We do have a stellium of concentrated planets in Leo with neptune sextile them...plus our composite moon conjunct psyche exact.

I also have it with an ex... I can feel him sometimes thinking of me when I have long moved on.. suddenly out of nowhere he will pop up in my mind but i always shut him off by sending a thought to him to leave me alone.

I also have this with another friend.

Hmmm... maybe i should start checking my own natal chart.

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posted March 04, 2013 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If I feel something now, I tend to resent it. It feels like a leech on my energy, and this one person has done enough to bring ugliness into my life, as well as leaving me in a bad way, severely doubting myself - the ultimate energy vampire. There was a time when I would have loved that they might be thinking of me, but I just remember how it always cut my energy down, and had my focus more on them, than more important things.

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