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posted November 26, 2007 08:52 AM         

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I am a 40 year old pisces and my guy is a 30 year old taurus. We been dating online for several months. At first he pursued me endlessly but I had reservations about the age difference. After a couple of months I decided to give him a chance. the conversations were great and we decided to talk over the telephone. Needless to say everything was going great. Love? He said he did. One day he stopped calling and logging online for a month. Then he pops up again and we resume our relationship. So after a month of talking he again stop calling and logging in and I haven't heard from him in 5 days. This is unusual since we talk for a couple of hours a day everyday. He says communication is so important in our relationship but he's not communicating. This on again off again is driving me crazy. I can't understand his problem.

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posted November 26, 2007 10:41 AM         

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Thats a online relationship for ya..

But honestly this can be a real waste of time if you let it continue this way..At what point will you guys see each other face to face..Thats what I would be trying to understand now and if thats not going to happen then it might be time for you to move it on..I am surprised you let it go this long...Somethings not right..He's to young anyway..

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posted November 26, 2007 11:37 AM         

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Well, I dont see anything wrong with an online relashionship and the age difference.

I think you should wait and see maybe there is a reason why he does not call or get online...send him 1 email saying you worry lest something should happen to him cozz you havent heard from him for a while...ask him what's going on and wait for him to reply...I dont see any reason to be worried yet...well, maybe he is insecure and is trying to check if you will notice his absence or something...

Good luck

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From: Calm Blue Ocean, Calm Blue Ocean
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posted November 26, 2007 01:14 PM         

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I"m honestly not sure how people can say they love each other in an online relationship.....when people tell me things like this online I think it is a huge warning sign.

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posted November 26, 2007 02:10 PM         

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BR: I feel the same way, I just don't see myself getting involved in one..

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posted November 26, 2007 05:52 PM         

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Totally agree BR, it is hard enough to know when someone loves you face to face where you can not only "hear" the actions, look within the person's eyes, body language etc.

I just could never see anything but friendship with an onlne relationship.

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posted November 27, 2007 04:45 PM         

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Welcome!

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posted November 28, 2007 10:15 AM         

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Welcome to LindaLand.

Your situation seems similar to what I am going through, just that I am the guy (and no, we dont have much age difference either).

Good luck with everything.

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posted November 28, 2007 12:08 PM         

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Similiar to what you're going through? After talking to a few ppl, I've decided that this is the way some Taurus men act. Strange how they back off and then come back. I think it's very inconsiderate especially for my pisces soul. We just can't take rejection.

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