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LibraChickety
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posted November 28, 2007 05:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraChickety     Edit/Delete Message
My question is, due to the unpredictable, aloof nature of the Aqua man, if the two of you are sexually intimate and OBVIOUSLY haven't DISCUSSED the label of whatever it is you might have going with him, does he remain FAITHFUL??? Specifically, during the times this sign needs to "take time off".

How does one discuss such an issue with an Aqua man, when this isn't something you should bring up with them? I mean, I'm willing to wait around to see what happens, but in the meantime, this is going through my mind.

The physical chemistry is YOWWWZERS! The communication department seems to be lacking. He has claimed I'm "amazing" - whatever that means...

ANY insight on my question and how the two of us are looking as far as compatibility would be sooo greatly appreciated!

My chart:

Sun in Libra
Moon in Virgo
ASC in Saggitarius
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio

His:

Sun in Aquarius
Moon in Scorpio
ASC in Capricorn
Mercury in Capricorn
Venus in Aquarius
Mars in Cancer
Jupiter in Gemini
Saturn in Leo
Uranus in Scorpio

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hippichick
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posted December 01, 2007 09:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
I think, if one is intimate with anyone, no matter of the sun sign, one has every right to inquire as to potential other sex partners.

Your HEALTH is first and foremost! And with women there are all kinds of other things laying on the line, self esteem, hurt emotions, etc.

You could just tell him you do not have sex with more than one person at the same time, wheather it be with first hand multiple partners or mulitple partners via another.

You do not have to imply "relationship" or anything else that may scare the Aqua away, but you have every right to know if someone you are intimate with is intimate with others.

Of course, he could always not tell you the truth, and in my experience, Aquas are famous for lying to save their ***** !!!

Venus in Aqua scares the living daylights out of me, too. Have known a few of them in my time.

Best of luck and stand up for what YOU want

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LibraChickety
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posted December 02, 2007 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraChickety     Edit/Delete Message
You are absolutely right!

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Sun in Libra
Asc. in Sagittarius
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio
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I feel so naked ;)

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Soulflower_13
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posted December 03, 2007 02:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soulflower_13     Edit/Delete Message
oh no! Hippichick, I'm a venus in Aqua! (Aqua sun too) elaborate please!

To LibraChickety, I dont know if a female Aqua sun/Aqua venus insight is helpful; but I def think you should guard yourself because if he is anything like me, he is prone to doing things JUST BECAUSE YOU WANT TO. all reason goes out the window if I feel really strongly about something.
P.S. I dont want this to make you too wary, I'm sure if he's called you amazing, you're doing okay

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hippichick
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posted December 03, 2007 07:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
Venus in Aqua in women tends to make them ultra free in relationships, and women see this as having alot of space, different sexual expressions, ie: lesbianism, bisexuality, or different ideas about what a relationship should be.

For men, since the Venusian energy is expressed differently, they also feel free in love and relationships and they tend to act upon this in non-committment, lots of freedom, kinkiness and I have seen alot of guys with this placement who have multiple partners. Even mulitple partners at once!

Yea, in my experience Venus in Aqua is something to be on guard of, of course, taking the whole chart into consideration is quite necessary!

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LibraChickety
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posted December 03, 2007 09:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraChickety     Edit/Delete Message
Here's his chart. What do you see? I'm sorry, I am so new to this. Any help is so greatly appreciated!


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Sun in Libra
Asc. in Sagittarius
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
Uranus in Scorpio
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I feel so naked ;)

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Mama Mia
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posted December 04, 2007 09:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
I also have Venus in Aqua and the only thing that stands out about my Aqua placement is that I like Space and more so in the begining. Once I fall for you its all about my Pisces sun then that has to be pleased.

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Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted December 04, 2007 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heart--Shaped Cross     Edit/Delete Message
His Aqua Sun/Venus is Squared by Uranus (ruler of Aquarius)

Not a good sign.

The trine to Pluto is better.
Depth in love comes easier.

As is the closeness of the conjunction.
Sun conjunct Venus can be very loving and romantic.

The Mercury/Mars opposition on the angles is rough.
A 7th house Mars in challenging aspect isnt good.
W/ Mercury, it suggests a combative, argumentative nature,
and this is further encouraged by the Aqua influences,
and the 1st house Sun.

Moon in Scorpio can be devil or saint.
Its a sexy placement, and, in the 9th house,
there may be a desire for conquests
or expansive exploration in this area.
Moon rules his 7th house (Cancer),
and this also suggest "changability"
where the mate is concerned.
The Moon makes no arpects in his chart.
This, to me, suggests that,
while his Emotions are strongly linked
to the deepest parts of his unconscious,
there is a lack of connection to his emotions,
and to the unconscious, on account of there being no strong aspects.

The closest aspect is a 7' Square to the Sun.
Not good.

Here is a Moon already secretive about emotions,
in conflict with a rationalistic Sun.
The only hope that he will express emotions
depends upon the natural expressiveness of the 1st house Sun,
the softening effect of the Venus conjunction,
and the placement of Mars in Cancer,
which suggests emotional courage,
or a willingness to find strength in vulnerability.
I'm not sure how to interpret Mercury,
when it conjuncts the Asc from the 12th.
It seems to suggest that communication comes easy,
but, that there is some glaring blind-spot,
or difficulty in bringing the conscious mind
into full awareness of itself.
In other words, he may know something,
but not know that he knows it.
He may understand something fully,
yet still feel unsatisfied that he knows it.
These are just some speculations.

Lots of potentials and difficulties are there,
and its hard to say anything with certainty.
How he uses this chart, or how it uses him,
will, ultimately, only be known in time.

Anyway, looking at the 5th and 7th houses,
and the condition of Venus and the Moon,
I would say he is looking for an agressive mate.

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LibraChickety
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posted December 07, 2007 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraChickety     Edit/Delete Message
Heart--Shaped Cross -

Thank you greatly for taking the time to interpret and write all of that down for me. I appreciate it.

To sum it up, he's no good - for ME anyway. Oh wait, I mean...for MOST!

I thank you!

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MysticMelody
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posted January 10, 2008 02:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysticMelody     Edit/Delete Message
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NeptunianFire
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posted January 10, 2008 10:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for NeptunianFire     Edit/Delete Message
That was an excellent interpretation, HSC.

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