posted November 29, 2007 08:17 PM         

Beautiful Zanya!!!

posted November 30, 2007 09:09 PM         

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posted November 30, 2007 09:59 PM         

but i didn't find the content to be particularly of a spiritual nature. although it can be said that all sexual expression has some component of spirituality.

posted November 30, 2007 10:33 PM         

I actually did'nt even notice what forum we were at nor read through the thread, just the title seemed appropriate given the theme of the day, LOL!

*sorry, I did'nt make this more clear...

posted December 01, 2007 12:09 AM         

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I have to ask myself, do I really care to hear about someone else's sex life? Nah, don't think so

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posted December 01, 2007 10:51 AM         

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Ahhh...memory lane. Was nicer then.

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posted December 01, 2007 12:08 PM         

I find it hilarious that anytime someone doesn't appreciate hearing about the sex lives and sexual fantasies of other people they are immediately labeled a "prude." LOL Let's stick a label on that person so we can tuck the person away in a corner and continue on. LOL

No, I just feel that there are more important things to talk about. My sex life I feel is between my husband and myself. That is the only sex life I am interested in. I don't need to know what everyone else is doing.

I fully agree that sex, in the right context, between two people who love each other and are committed to each other is a spiritual expression of love. It is the oneness of souls, the uniting of the total persons that is spiritual in nature. It is as close as two people can possibly get and a beautiful, fulfilling expression of love. It is as Pidaua, YFIS and others stated at Soul Unions, it is actually "feeling" the person you are with, being one soul with that person.

Having sex with one person while fantasizing about someone else is not spiritual at all IMHO. It does not reflect the union of two souls and doesn't even reflect a true commitment to the partner you are with. What it does reflect is that there is no commitment, just the act itself, and you wish it was someone else instead. It reflects boredom with the person you are with.

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If you are studying and trying to understand behavior of people and society you better take a look at sexuality because trust me, they are very close related.

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Sex has been in existance since the beginning of creation. We do not need to know the sex lives of everyone to know it is a part of society and a very important part in pro-creation and everyone's love life. To discuss sex in the context of it's importance in the expression of love and spirituality in our society is one thing. To discuss sex is to discover that everyone applies their own moral values to it.

To talk about what we think about during sex, make racy comments and use it to flirt with members of the opposite sex at LL( talking about the first Sex Magick thread here, not this one ) and discuss the baser things regarding the sex act in itself, has no place at LL and especially UC. To me that is just taking notes to see if we are "normal" or doing it right.

To discuss sex in the context of it's reflection on the society of the day we would have to get into a discussion of the deviant behavior patterns of many people such as sex with children, beastiality, S&M and the like. Do we really want to go there?

Because regular sex between two partners in love only reflects that society is doing what we were created to do and have been doing since the beginning of time. It reflects only a normal part of being human beings. Incidently, homosexuality has also been a part of society since the beginning of creation. To me that reflects that in our society homosexuality is also "normal" and a part of being human. It's only deviant sex that would reflect the changes in society and what is condoned by a society or considered "normal" at any given time in history. I fail to see why a society would not consider homosexuality as normal for many human beings since it also has been a part of society since the beginning. That's the real study of sexuality in society that needs to be addressed and changed.

I personally know about the deviant things and because it sickens and repels me I wouldn't want to read about it on the boards of LL or talk about it.

I can tell you this much about sex: if you truly love someone and are committed to that one person, heart and soul, sex with that partner never gets boring. No matter how long you are together. It only gets better and better through the years. Mainly because it branches off into even more beautiful ways of expressing it besides the sexual union itself. It goes way beyond just the sex act itself.

posted December 01, 2007 03:09 PM         

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There was a lot of flak over the first sex magick thread here at UC and it did get a bit racy. It may have started out okay but deteriorated into something else. It was mostly flirting and joking around about the baser things of sex. Which if others wanted to hear they would be at a site designed for those things.
I find it hilarious that anytime someone doesn't appreciate hearing about the sex lives and sexual fantasies of other people they are immediately labeled a "prude." LOL Let's stick a label on that person so we can tuck the person away in a corner and continue on. LOL

No, I just feel that there are more important things to talk about. My sex life I feel is between my husband and myself. That is the only sex life I am interested in. I don't need to know what everyone else is doing.

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Mirandee:
I understand that not everyone will be comfortable with the idea of talking about sex, I also understand that it is not a topic that belongs in this forum but the only way I could get opinions was to post in the most use forums so I can find "the people that would want to talk about it" and put a link to the right forum.( I was not forcing anyone)

This is the beautiful thing about the internet and public forums, we can take advantage of them and talk about things that in our "normal" lives are not so acceptable to talk about unless you are with people face to face and nobody else is listenning.Which I do quiet a bit as well.

If you don't want to participate in these topics just don't click on them is that easy; some other people might be interested in participating.Usually when people are not interested then it just falls off to a second page and it is gone.For what I can see so far the other original thread had actually some kind of demand for it and had over 70 pages.(I haven't finish reading it)<--this thought goes against your thought of not being the right topic for this place.People obviously was ok with it.

I am sorry it bothers you that people find some kind of pull to those , even if it is like me to get opinions or a way to flirt with other members or to simple have a laugh but I think it is very one sided to expect topics to be banned or put under the tabboe category just because you are not ok with them.Again, just don't click on them...
OR you can click of them and then if something peaks your curiosity you can talk about it with your girlfriends one to one by e-mail like a lot of people do as well, that way it is safe and everyone wins I am sure you are familiar with that!

Yes, sex should be an act between your husband and you silly! noone is asking you to have sex with us!

And, if you don't think is important again, just join the topics that you think are important!

I, in the other hand, do think it is a very important part of life that needs to be talked about.
Why do I think that? because there is a person that was in my circle of friends that just went to jail because of molesting his daughter, because there is a person in my neighborhood (male) that was taking pictures of my kids for some odd reason one afternoon.
Because my mom and dad's marriage didn't make it because it was the way out for my dad to my mom's nagging and controlling issues even know they loved each other but they killed loved.
Because my ex-husband had too many excesses in life and didn't know himself which put me over the edge and again killed the love we had for each other.

Now, I am asking you... with the type of society we are living in that has way too many outs and excesses, being going shopping until one has no money left , maxing out credit cards and putting the whole family in difficult situations as an inmediate self gratification, or drinking and alcoholism, doing drugs etc you don't think sex could be also a part of these same patterns that kill the very reflexion of our society which in it's most basic form is the family?

posted December 01, 2007 04:05 PM         

It is not fair to be one sided and not let others talk about what they want to talk, being whatever reason why they want to do it (learn, flirt etc), a 70 page thread on it is enough proof to see that there is a demand for the topic.

But, I need to go to the grocery store right now, I wish I had some more time to talk about this a bit more... I'll be back later thoough.

posted December 01, 2007 06:45 PM         

you wrote - "Uni-versal Codes

Star signs, numerology, word druids, fairies, dolphins, unicorns, psychic phenomena, ghosts, The Thunderbolt Path Of Accelerated Karma, Free-will Tinker Toys, reincarnation, deja vu, religion, philosophy, avatars, GURUs, Isis and Osiris, UFOs, Twin S-elves, The Saturn Seven Cycle, Higher S-elf (Oversoul), astral travel, plant perception, and synchronicity (Moderated by sesame and silverstone)

Unless this subject can be considered as under the category of " Free - Will Tinker Toys " UC is probably not the place for it. "

and l just choked on the piece of chocolate l was eating... laughing so much!!!!!