|
Author
|
Topic: Cancer/Aries
|
sister golden hair
Knowflake Posts: 5
From: WA USA
Registered: Jul 2007
|
posted December 02, 2007 12:11 AM
 
Hi all! Was just wondering if anyone has an opinion on this situation. This is my first "relationship" with a guy since I separated from my husband almost 2 years ago. We are in college together for the next two years, and we have made an "arrangement" to spend time together in the evenings. We both feel we are too busy for a relationship right now. Was wondering if I could get some opinions on our charts....well, the parts I know.His Info:
Sun Aries
Moon Gemini
Mercury Aries
Venus Taurus
Mars Leo
Jupiter Gemini
Saturn Leo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
True Node Libra My Info:
Sun Cancer
Moon Gemini
Mercury Leo
Venus Cancer
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Virgo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
True Node Virgo IP: Logged |
cancerrg
Knowflake Posts: 2537
From:
Registered: Dec 2004
|
posted December 02, 2007 01:00 PM
on the zodiac sign basis , this is a tough realtion from a cancer's point of view .
i am not saying they are not compatible but it is tough . my crab sis has a aries husband and the lady i was very close to - is married to an aries . so i speak with my experoience . IP: Logged |
Karyl Jackson
Knowflake Posts: 23
From: Placitas, New Mexico, USA
Registered: Nov 2007
|
posted December 02, 2007 01:52 PM
You know, with similar Moons - both in Gemini, that gives a good starting point. From there, it would seem that looking at the South Node (of the Moon) will help to know where you have been and to look at the North Node (of the Moon) will show where you both are going. With his Sun and South Node both in Aries, he has come from a position of thinking about himself and now he has to blend the Libra qualities (North Node) into his sense of self and become more sensitive to relationships. That is good, but he may have a tough time doing so. You having the South Node in Pisces are coming from a very sensitive and oftentimes overly sensitive positon at looking at yourself through "others" and having to grow out of that into a more logical - Virgo - capacity may be a bit challenging. However with the other signs being very positive, yet the Sun Signs are square, if you both can grow independently and yet have the togetherness (moon in Gemini) that you share then it will work well.IP: Logged |
MUSTANG
Knowflake Posts: 830
From:
Registered: Jun 2006
|
posted December 04, 2007 11:56 AM
Having been friends with male (and female aries) he will not change his mind. I once was close friends with an aries guy who was having a fling with some girl. I was over his house and she kept calling and hanging up on his machine. He said, "I told her from the beginning I didn't want a relationship....it's not like I led her on." Etc...basically, if these guys say they don't want a relationship with you, they don't. They aren't playing coy (aries doesn't play coy) and they are not biding their time. They are actually covering their as*es. So, if you think YOU may want a relationship, speak up, or you may want to get out now. If you don't want a relationship there's nothing to worry about. IP: Logged |
EighthMoon
Knowflake Posts: 562
From:
Registered: May 2007
|
posted December 05, 2007 06:14 AM
 Mustang...One of my closest friends is a Cancer/Aries moon married to an Aries. They sleep in seperate bedrooms after about 5 years of marriage. She spent years being interested in his interests and he won't "condescend" to take interest in hers, so they live seperate lives together. Sad, huh? She wanted kids desperately and they couldn't have them. She wanted to adopt. He was against the idea and told her "she had her cats." I just don't think she's very happy...  That's only one example, but my experience was very similar. (I'm a Pisces/Gem moon and was married to an Aries/Libra moon.) Mustang is right, SGH. An Aries man won't be coy or play games, so ask him straight out. And...if you don't have a lot in common, please consider asking him about his feelings on things that are important to you. He won't change his views somewhere down the line!  8th IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 10853
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
|
posted December 06, 2007 06:28 PM
My experience in being together with other Cardinal suns is that each of Cardinals in the relationship have their own agenda. That's the root of all the problems between Cardinals. Typically, they won't be team players with the other's agenda either, not unless they suppress their own Cardinal-ness and take on the Mutable roll. When this happens, the one who compromises loses themselves for as long as they are with the other Cardinal.IP: Logged |
Lindaland
UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! 
